Ndipo ziribe kanthu kuchuluka kwa momwe anthu amanenera kuti palibe chinthu chomwe sichingakhoze kukhudzidwa ndi kuikidwa pansi pa mtundu wa sayansi, zinthu izi ziripo ndipo nthawi zambiri zimawonekera mmiyoyo yathu. Zoona, musasokoneze wochimwa ndi olungama. Pali nthawi zambiri zomwe amai amavutika chifukwa cha khalidwe lawo, khalidwe lawo, moyo wawo, maonekedwe a dziko lonse. Pano inu simukuyenera kuthamangira kwa agogo, koma kuti mutembenuzire kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo, musinthe chinachake mwa inueni, kusintha chilengedwe.
Kuwonongeka kumawonetsa mosiyana kwambiri. Pankhaniyi, nthawi zambiri, mtsikanayo alibe zolakwika. Izi zingatsimikizidwe ndi malo ake onse, ngakhale anthu osadziwika. Ndi amuna okha amene amanyansidwa ndi amayi oterewa. Anyamata sangapereke malingaliro okwanira a khalidwe lawo. Kwa iwo, mkazi wotere amakhala malo opanda kanthu, kapena kutayika kwa malingaliro onse oipa omwe achinyamata akukumana nawo. Ngakhale kukongola, nzeru, nzeru ndi erudition, mayi sangathe kumusangalatsa.
Njira yachiwiri ndi pamene asungwana ali opweteka kwambiri ndi anyamatawa, chifukwa nthawi zonse amakumana ndi achiwawa, zidakwa ndi osokoneza bongo, kapena amakhala ngati atangoyamba kumene. Mwa njirayi, ifenso, nkoyenera kufufuzira ngati ziri zoona kuti zawonongeka, musamanyamule ndi anyamata, kapena kuti mzimayiyo adziŵe mosadziwika kwa anthu oterowo. Pambuyo pake, pali mtundu wa amayi omwe amatha kusokonezeka. Iwo akhoza kukana izo okha, koma, komabe, iwo amadziwa movutikira kuti azivutika. Pankhaniyi, muyenera kungotembenukira kwa katswiri wa zamaganizo kapena nokha kuti musinthe maganizo anu. Musaiwale kuti olosera zam'tsogolo ndi agogo sangathe kusintha maganizo anu kwa inu nokha. Atsogoleri enieni akulimbana ndi zochitika zapadera ndi mphamvu zoposa. Adzathandiza kuthandizira kokha ngati vuto lanu liri logwirizana ndi chinthu chachilendo. Musayambe kusokoneza mavuto omwe amatha nthawi zonse m'maganizo ndi kulowerera kwa mphamvu zoposa. Ichi ndi chimene chimapangitsa anthu kusiya kukhulupirira mu mphamvu iliyonse yomwe imapita kupyola kumvetsetsa kwathu.
Ngati mukumvetsabe kuti mavuto anu onse adayamba chifukwa cha kusokonezeka kwa magulu ena a dziko, momwe mungachitire muzochitika zoterezi? Mwinanso, nkofunika kulangiza, adzalankhula ndi mtsogoleri. Koma, pa nkhaniyi, nkofunikanso kuti mukhale ndi maganizo omveka ku zinthu zomwe zikuchitika pozungulira inu.
Kotero, ngati inu mwaganiza kuti mukambirane agogo aakazi, nthawizonse kumbukirani kuti mu dziko lathuli muli anthu ambiri okonda zachipembedzo ndi opembedza omwe amapereka malingaliro okhumba. Ndicho chifukwa chake, munthu sayenera kutembenukira kwa anthu omwe amalengeza pazofalitsa. Anthu otere amayesa kupanga ndalama, koma osati kuthandiza ena. Akazi amene amapatsidwa mphatso yochokera kwa Mulungu samaika mitengo, komanso, samalankhula za mphatso zawo pamagulu a nyuzipepala yotchuka kwambiri. Zimakhulupirira kuti Mulungu sazilandira, ndipo, ngakhale, akhoza kuchotsa mphamvu pa zolakwa zoterezo. Ndicho chifukwa chake muyenera kuonana ndi agogo awo omwe timaphunzira kuchokera kwa anzathu. Akazi otere omwe sanamvepo za PR nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi mphamvu ndi mwayi waukulu. Ndiwo atsogoleli enieni omwe samaganiza kuti cholinga chawo chachikulu ndi kupeza ndalama zambiri. Anthu omwe ali ndi mphatso amafuna chinthu chimodzi - kuthandiza ena. Ndizo zomwe zimawatsogolera iwo akamachita zida zawo.
Kutembenukira ku chithandizo, musayembekezere kuti agogo amodzi mwagwera swoop adzathetsa mavuto anu onse. Zirizonse zomwe zinali, matsenga aliwonse sangakhoze kukwaniritsa zonse zomwe munthu amaganiza ndi zofuna. Mwamwayi, palibe Hottabychs akale m'moyo wathu. Palibe chimene chikuchitidwa mutatha tsitsi la ndevu. Ndifunikanso, zoyesayesa za munthu, kuti akwaniritse mphamvu iliyonse. Magic imatipatsa ife njira yokha yopita ku loto, zomwe ife tiyenera kudzipezera tokha. Pamene iwe upita kwa wolosera, usasankhe cholinga chachikulu cha chilakolako, chimene iwe unakomana nacho, pano ndi tsopano, wosakwatiwa. Agogo angapereke mwayi, koma sangathe kuwerengera. Iye si kampasi, koma ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi luso lina lomwe limakhudza dziko lanu ndi zotheka zanu. Zina zonse zimadalira inu nokha, khalidwe lanu ndi zosankha zanu. Ndipotu, vuto lotha kuwonongeka ndilofunika kwa mabanja ambiri.
Kawirikawiri zimachitika chifukwa cha makolo awo ana awo amavutika. Zoonadi, izi siziri zolungama, koma kumene mphamvu zazikulu za zabwino ndi zoipa zimakhudzidwa, palibe njira ina. Awa ndiwo malamulo a matsenga ndi chikhalidwe. Ngati munthu alakwitsidwa kudzera mwa amatsenga amphamvu, mphamvu yofanana yokhayo ingathe kugonjetsa. Choncho, ngati mukumvetsa kuti mu zovuta zonse, ndithudi, chinachake chokhazikika chikukhudza, muyenera kuchotsa, koma musayembekezere kuti chozizwitsa chenicheni chidzachitika. Zozizwitsa sizichitika. Mphamvu zomwe timazitcha zodabwitsa zimalimbikitsanso malamulo omwe, pakali pano, samvetsetsedwa ndi malingaliro aumunthu. Koma, m'kupita kwanthawi, ndipo izi tikhoza kuziwerenga ndikuyika pa masamulovu. Choncho, musamachite matsenga ngati kuti ndi chinthu chomwe chidzapitirira kuposa chidziwitso chathu. Izi ndizomwe zingathe kuchiza ku mavuto ambiri, pamene zifukwa, mizu ndi foci za zofunikira ndi zofunikira zauzimu zikufotokozedwa momveka bwino.
Iwo amawononga, musamanyamule ndi anyamata. Inde, ndithudi, kwa amayi ambiri, ndi zopweteka kwambiri komanso zoopsa. Koma ndi vutoli mukhoza kumenyana nthawi zonse, zamatsenga ndi zamaganizo. Mkazi aliyense, mwa njira yake yomwe, ndi mfiti. Ndi ndakatulo, amatha kusintha moyo wake ndi karma osati mothandizidwa ndi wotsogolera. Ndizofunikira kuti mumvetsetse bwino vutoli, kumvetsetsa zongoganiza zake zokha, komanso maganizo ake. Ngakhale m'mabanja omwe anthu amatembereredwa ku fuko lachisanu ndi chiwiri, akazi akhoza kupeza chimwemwe. Mmenemo amathandizidwa ndi matsenga ndi chikhalidwe chachikazi.