Chachitatu: Kuchotsa mkazi wake kwa mbuye wake. Kufufuzidwa mwachizolowezi

Triangle Love - chitsanzo cha maubwenzi, omwe angaganizidwe ngati akale. Kodi mungaganizire za cinema, fano, nkhani zadziko kapena zochitika zakale zodalirika popanda munthu wojambula mwachikondi? Ayi! Pakuti popanda izo, popanda popanda zokometsera mu mbale: mwatsopano, wosasangalatsa, wopanda pake. Osati kokha chikhalidwe, koma moyo wathu wonse, chikanakhala chosauka kwambiri popanda ogulitsitsa kwambiri omwe ali ndi katatu monga "Chimake Chimayenda Don", "Chikondi ndi Nkhunda", "Great Gatsby", ndipo motero alibe chikondi ndi "ngodya" zitatu. Koma ndi chinthu chimodzi chodziwidwa ndi chilakolako chotentha pamodzi ndi aluso a kanema, mapunikoma osuta, ndi ena - kukhala chimodzi mwa "ngodya" muwonetsero wanu wachikondi. Koma kodi ndi bwino kuyitana ubale umene timakakamizidwa kuti tipeze chikondi chathu? Mwina tifunika kuyang'ana m "zinthu osati kuchokera" pangodya ", koma kuchokera kunja? Mwinamwake ndiye zimakhala zomveka kuti chikondi cha triangle chiri chabe masewera omwe amene amadziwa malamulo ake amapambana!

Ndani ayenera kudzudzula ndi choti achite?

Mutu wa chikondi cha katatu umakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi amayi. Ndiwo omwe nthawi zambiri amatembenukira kwa akatswiri a maganizo ndi vuto la chikondi, momwe wokondana anaonekera. Iye, iye ndi wokondedwa wake - katatu kakang'ono, kumene, monga lamulo, "chiyanjano chofooka" cha mkaziyo chimamverera. Kwa nthawi zonse, mafilimu ankaonedwa ngati olanda nyama, ndipo akazi amazunzika ndi zomwe zikuchitika masiku ano. Pano pali yankho la funso lakuti "Ndani akuimba mlandu?" Monga ngati akuwonekera. Blame - wokondedwa, mwamuna - wosadziwika, ndi mkazi wake - "mwanawankhosa wosauka"! Choncho ndikofunikira malinga ndi malamulo a mtunduwo, ndipo khoti lolungama kwambiri padziko lapansi linaganiza - bwalo lamilandu. Kodi ndingatani ?! Pa funso ili, anthu amakhalanso ndi chigamulo cholimba: kuchitira ambuye, kukhululukira mwamuna wake ndikumukakamiza kuti akonde mkazi wake, ndipo apatseni mkazi wake dzina laulemu la "Martyr Woyera Woyera"! Ngati musintha malingaliro, ndipo yesetsani kuyang'ana mkhalidwewo ndi kuseketsa, ndiye chophimba chozama chikugwa ndipo mbewu ya choonadi ikuwonekera. Palibe wolakwa yekha ndi anthu olungama okha! Koma pali lingaliro la anthu ndi zolakwika zomwe zakhala mbali yofunikira ya chidziwitso chathu, ndipo momwe ife takhulupirira, monga momwe timaganizira. Koma bwanji ngati tiyang'ana mkhalidwewo osati ngati zovuta za chilengedwe chonse, koma ngati mwayi wochoka "kufooka kochepa" kukhala mbuye wa vutoli? Mukuganiza kuti ndizovuta? Ayi ndithu! Ngati mumadziwa malamulo a masewera omwe moyo umagawira "makadi" atatu, mudzatha kukhazikitsa njira yanu yowonetsera kuti abwerere pachifuwa cha banja. Koma zikhoza kuchitika kuti "pa masewera" mudzapeza kuti mwapeza chinthu chamtengo wapatali - chikondi ndi ulemu. Ndiyeno, ndikhulupirire ine, mwamuna wanu amachotsa "ngodya" yochulukirapo ndipo adzasinkhasinkha momwe angagwirizane ndi mkazi wake, amenenso, amadziwa kuti angakhale bwanji nyama.

"Chiphunzitso cha Stool" kapena chifukwa chake pali katatu wachikondi

Pali lingaliro limene kwenikweni pa zala, kapena kani, pa "miyendo", limafotokoza momwe katatu wachikondi chimapangidwira. Amatchedwa "Theory of Stool". Tiyerekeze kuti chophimba ndi banja, ndipo miyendo iŵiri ndi mwamuna ndi mkazi. Panthawi inayake (chifukwa chodziwika kwa banja lomwe moyo wawo uli "mdima kwa wina aliyense"), chophimbacho chimasiya kugwira miyendo iwiri ndikuyamba kugwa. Pakhoza kukhala zifukwa zambiri: kusakhutira ndi kugonana, maonekedwe, zaka, borscht, ndalama, ndi zina. Izi ndi pamene gawo lachitatu komanso lachinayi "phazi lachigonjetso" likuwonekera. Miyendo yowonjezera ili yabwino chifukwa chakuti chifukwa cha iwo chinsalu chimakhala chokhazikika. Pali yankho labwino pazinthu izi pakati pa anthu: "Wosalira bwino wabwino amalimbitsa ukwati!" Ubale kumbali ukhoza kukhala chithandizo chodalirika cha chiyanjano. Komabe, ngati mutachotsa miyendo imodzi yomwe inalenga banja, ndiye kuti mulowemo, monga maziko omwe chidamangidwe cha triangle chidakonzedwa, palibe chifukwa. Zikuoneka kuti miyendo "yopuma" imangowonjezeratu. Popanda chopondapo, iwo amataya mtengo, ndipo palibe chofunikira kwa iwo. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ngati banja likutha, ndiye palibe chosowa cha maubwenzi akunja, chifukwa palibe chomwe chingalimbikitse. Choncho, nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti pamene banja lakale likasiya kukhalapo, gulu latsopano la anthu kuchokera kwa okonda kale silinapangidwe. Choncho, kuchokera ku chiphunzitso ichi chotsatira chowonekera chimadza: chikondi sichidzakhala chiwerengero cha polygonal, ngati zosowa za mbali zonsezi zikukhutira.

Kodi mungapambane bwanji ndi katatu wachikondi?

Kulamulira masewero nambala 1: Kumanga njira

Ngati mukulemba nkhaniyi, ndiye kuti mwakhala mukupita kukayikira nthawi yomwe mukufuna kuti mudziwe yemwe ali ndi mlandu wa katatu wachikondi, koma ndi nthawi yoti mupeze yankho loti musapatse tulo, ndipo pali funso: "Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani?" Konse, muyenera kulankhula momasuka ndi inu ndikumvetsa, mukufuna kukhala wolondola kapena wokondwa? Ngati mukulondola, muyenera kumangotenga apolisi nthawi yomweyo kuti azisamalira mwamuna wanu, osokoneza bongo - kutsegula ma passwords ake onse, ndi ophunzitsa masewera - kutumiza wokonda kugogoda. Koma, potsegula kusaka kwa okondedwa, khalani okhulupilika kwambiri ndi inu nokha, poyankha mafunso awa: "Ndidzachita chiyani ndi choonadi chopezeka?" Ndipo "Kodi ndine wokonzeka kuononga ubale ndi mwamuna wanga?" Pambuyo pa kufotokozedwa, zisankho zogwirizana ndi zoyenera ziyenera kutsatira. Ngati muzindikira zoopsa zonse, ndipo cholinga chanu ndi chisudzulo, pitani ku warpath ndikuwonetsetsani kuti ndinu woyenera.

Malamulo a masewera nambala 2: Kufufuza zifukwa

Palinso njira ina yomwe inu ndi mwamuna wanu mumasangalalira pamodzi. Ngati mumayamikira maubwenzi omwe akhala akutsimikiziridwa mobwerezabwereza ndi kuthandizidwa moona mtima, kutenga nawo mbali ndi chikondi, zomwe zimagula kwambiri kuposa chilakolako chilichonse - musiye kukumba! Fufuzani osasowa amayi, koma zifukwa zomwe zinapanga katatu. Ngati simukulimbana ndi zifukwazo, koma kuthetsa zotsatira zake, ie. kusokoneza, ndiye kuti mumangotaya mphamvu zanu - chimodzi, chimzake, ndi zina zotero m'malo mwake. Ndipo zotsatira zake zonse zidzakhala zazing'ono komanso zopanda nzeru. "Kufufuzidwa" kuti mupeze zifukwa zomwe mukufunikira kuyamba ndi nokha! Chimene sichinatsirize? Kodi simunaone chiyani? Chimene sichinatsirize? Wotsutsana, khulupirira ine, posachedwa kapena mtsogolo, idzagwera mumsampha wokhawokha wa zokondweretsa akazi ndi njira zachikondi. N'zosatheka, kuchotsa mwamuna wake kunja kwa banja ndikukondwera chifukwa cha udindo umene mkaziyo ali nawo, amadziŵa kuti mwa kutenga malo a munthu, amamasula mbuye wake. Mkhalidwe uwu, sudzakhala wopanda kanthu kwa nthawi yaitali.

Masewero a masewera nambala 3: Timakonzanso "mapulogalamu"

Gwiritsani ntchito mwanzeru njira yomwe mwasankha. Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti musabwezere mwamuna wochimwa kuti atuluke pa katatu ndi wopambana, osati chifukwa cha mpikisano - koma wopambana m'maso mwanu, komanso chifukwa cha mantha anu, makompyuta ndi opanda pake. Amabisala pansi pamaganizo, anthu "amakhalidwe abwino" komanso maganizo a anthu omwe safunsidwa, koma omwe nthawi zonse amadziwa bwino. Chotsani m'maganizo mwanu maganizo omwe amakulowetsani ku nkhondo yapachikale m'kachisanu. Lembetsani "mapulogalamu" pamene inu mwamenyedwa ndi mwamuna wamwamuna, mwamuna ndi yemwe amachitiridwa ndi nyama zowonongeka, ndipo ambiri - "amuna onse ndi anu ..."! Chitani zosavomerezeka, ndipo akale monga dziko la nkhondo zachikondi mumapeza njira zatsopano komanso zosavuta. Mmalo mogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ndi mphamvu kuti mupeze olakwa ndi kubwezera, perekani izo pa wokondedwa wanu. Lowani kuvina - makamaka kulakalaka, funsani bwana wanu maulendo apamalonda - makamaka kutali, khalani m'chikondi - makamaka mwa inu nokha!

Mmalo mogwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ndi mphamvu kuti mupeze olakwa ndi kubwezera, perekani izo pa wokondedwa wanu. Lowani kuvina - makamaka kulakalaka, funsani bwana wanu maulendo apamalonda - makamaka kutali, khalani m'chikondi - makamaka mwa inu nokha!

Ogonjetsedwa ndi Opambana

Tembenuzani dziko lanu mozungulira - liri kwa inu. Koma kodi mumataya chiyani? Sichidzakhalanso chimodzimodzi! Choncho pezani izo ndi mitundu yatsopano ndipo pangani paradaiso wanu! Kodi chiti chidzasinthidwe? Mwamuna wanu adzasangalala kwambiri poyamba! Zikuwonekera kwa iye kuti pachisanu ndi chitatu iye adalenga, iye ndi wopambana: ndipo mbuye wokondweretsa ali pafupi, ndipo mzimayi "wokondwa" amakhala mu umbuli woyera. Kusewera mosangalala ndi iye mu "zopatsa", mukupitiriza kusintha. Musalole usiku, koma sangathe kuziwona izi. Ndipo kale metamorphoses, ndikukhulupirira ine, idzachititsa chidwi nacho! Kenaka, kuchokera "kumbali ya kumanzere" ya mphete ya katatu, zidzanyozedwa ku adiresi ya mwamuna. Nthawi imapita, ndipo ndi iyo mnyamata wa mbuyeyo. Mkwati wake sungathe kupirira, ndipo iye akadali mbuye yekha! Koma zodandaula zambiri zomwe ali nazo, makamaka "trumps" zomwe muli nazo. Wopikisanayo amayamba kukwiyitsa mwamuna wake mochulukirapo, pamene mukukhala otsimikiza kwambiri, ogwirizana ndi okongola, kuphatikizapo amuna ena. Koma chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti iwe ukhale mkazi wanzeru yemwe angakhoze kuyembekezera mpaka "gudumu" likutembenukira kwathunthu! Tsopano simungavomereze ndi udindo wa wozunzidwa ndikukhala ndi ufulu wosankha yemwe wagonjetsedwa ndi yemwe ali wopambana! Chifukwa cha "zinthu zitatu" zamtunduwu, mwakwera pamwamba pawamba, ndipo mwafika pamtunda watsopano, kumene simusamala, mumakhala mwamuna kapena mwamuna wina pafupi. Ndi mkazi yemwe amapanga malamulo ake a masewera, padzakhala wina!