N'zosavuta kudziwana bwino ndi anyamata, chinthu chachikulu sichichita manyazi. Pezani nokha zosangalatsa, zosangalatsa. Izi zidzakuthandizani mtsogolomu pamene mukulankhulana ndi mnzanu watsopano. Kuyanjana ndi anyamata ali ndi zaka khumi ndi khumi ndi khumi ndi khumi ndi khumi ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi kumagwirizana ndi zofunikanso. Pambuyo pake, monga akunena, zosangalatsa zomwezo zimawasonkhanitsa anthu. Choyamba, samverani anyamata omwe akukuzungulirani m'moyo wanu wa tsiku ndi tsiku. Mwachitsanzo, kusukulu, pabwalo, mu bwalo, kumene mukupita. Mwa njira, njira yomaliza ndiyo njira yabwino yopezera mnyamata. Pano pali zofanana, ndipo mukuona pafupifupi tsiku lililonse. Inde, ndipo kupindula kwakukulu kumbali yanu kudzakhala kuti mutha kuthandizana nthawi zonse.
Mukungoyamba ndi funso: "Kodi mnyamata ayenera kukhala wotani pa 10-13? Ndipo kodi "munthu wamba" yemwe amakugwirirani ndi chiyani? ". Pano, ndikuganiza, anyamata opitirira zaka khumi ndi zisanu ndi zisanu ndi chimodzi samakukwanira. Ngati ali wamkulu, palibe chabwino chomwe chidzabwere. Anyamatawo ali ndi malingaliro osiyana kwambiri pa ubwenzi ndi mtsikanayo ndi wamkuluyo, ndizovuta kwambiri kukhala naye. Musaiwale kuti simunakula ngati mukuganiza. Ndipo cholinga chachikulu cha mnzanuyo ndi ubale, kulankhulana, kuyenda limodzi komanso kuthandizana wina ndi mnzake. Kotero, pa usinkhu umenewo, ndi bwino kuyamba ndi ubale wabwino pakati pa inu ndi mnyamata. Mwa njira, ndi wamng'ono kuposa 10-13 (zimadalira momwe muliri pakali pano), funani mnyamata, nayenso, siwothandiza. Kumbukirani kuti atsikana a m'badwo uwu amakula mofulumira kuposa anyamata. Chifukwa chake, simungakhale ndi chidwi polankhulana, monga momwe mudzakhala ndi maganizo osiyana siyana padziko lapansi. Choncho, tiyeni tonse tibwerere ku funso limene muyenera kudzifunsa. Tiyeni tiganizire pamodzi, choncho, munthu wamba, ndi wochenjera kwambiri, "wokongola" (kwa inu ndi abwenzi anu), mnyamata wogwira ntchito komanso wokondana komanso nthawi yomweyo, moyenera. Anyamata osayera pa msinkhu wanu safunikira. Kawirikawiri, ngati yankho lanu liri chimodzimodzi, ndiye kuti ndi bwino kuyang'ana mnzanu, kuyambira pa makhalidwe awa a khalidwe lake.
Monga ndanenera kumayambiriro, yesetsani kufunafuna mnyamata, wotsogoleredwa ndi zomwe mumakonda nazo. Zimabweretsa pamodzi ndikuthandiza kuthera nthawi yosangalatsa. Pambuyo pake, muli ndi chinthu chimodzi chofanana, chifukwa inu nonse mungaphunzire izi kapena mtundu umenewo. Ngati mulibe mwayi wokawona makasipi aliwonse. Musakwiyire. Onetsani kufufuza kwanu kwa mnyamata mwa njira yosiyana - pitani kawirikawiri momwe mungathere masukulu ndi zina zomwe sukulu yanu imakhala. Motero, mudzadziŵa zambiri momwe zingathere ndi anyamata kuchokera kufanana kwanu, zomwe simunazizindikirepo kale. Ndipo pamene akunena: simudziwa - simungamvetse. Kotero, penyani, mwadzidzidzi mwa iwo, ndipo inu mudzapeza kalonga wanu. Inu simunazizindikire izo panthawi ino. Ngati muli otsimikiza 100% kuti anyamata sali anu ndipo chikhumbo chanu chachikulu ndicho kupeza mnyamata yemwe alibe chochita ndi moyo wanu wa sukulu. Ndiye nkoyenera kuyang'ana mnyamata kumalo ena. Mwachitsanzo, tengani chibwenzi ndi inu ndikupita nawo kuchitetezo kapena ku gombe. Pezani anyamata kuti azisewera (volleyball, tenisi, mwinamwake ngakhale mpira) ndipo zokambirana zidzamangiriza paokha, simudzazindikira momwe mungakhalire ndi mnzanu watsopano, pambali pake, palibe. Adzasankha yekha zomwe muyenera kulawa. Anyamata anu nthawi zonse amayamikira anzawo, ndi anthu otanganidwa, okondana komanso okondwa. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri, muzochitika izi, musamawope kuti mungomvera ndikumufunsa mnyamata kuti, mwachitsanzo dzina lake ndi ngati n'zotheka kulowa nawo masewerawo.
Komanso, mukhoza kugwiritsa ntchito intaneti. Mwa njira, m'nthawi yathu ino, intaneti imafufutidwa ndi malo osiyanasiyana omwe apangidwira chibwenzi, komwe mungapeze munthu weniweni m'zaka zawo. Komanso, musaiwale kulembetsa pa malo ochezera osiyanasiyana (mwachitsanzo, VKontakte). Onetsetsani kuti komweko mudzakumana ndi anyamata ambiri osungulumwa omwe sangathe kukumbukira, kukambirana nanu. Sinthani manambala a foni ndipo musaiwale kuti musonkhanitse misonkhano mmoyo weniweni. Amuna ambiri - zosankha zambiri. Musaiwale za izo. Mukufunadi kupeza munthu wabwino kwambiri. Choncho musawope kuyendetsa anyamata pamene muli ndi mwayi wotere, gwiritsani ntchito. Anyamata, mwa njira amamvera kwambiri chilakolako cha mtsikanayo kuti adziwe bwino. Choncho musadandaule kuti muli ndi chinachake, mwina sichingagwire ntchito. Khalani nokha, chitani mwachibadwa ndi momasuka. Nthawi zonse mubwere ku msonkhano ndi kumwetulira komanso kusangalala. Kumbukirani msinkhu wanu ukuwufuna iwo. Lembani mwatcheru za inu nokha ndi kupeza za mnyamata wokhudza iye, izi zidzakuthandizani kuti mudziwane wina ndi mnzake pafupi.
Kujambula mzere pansi pa zolembedwa zonsezi, ndikunena kuti kudziwana ndi anyamata ali ndi zaka khumi ndi khumi ndi khumi ndi khumi ndi ziwiri (13-13) sikumakhala kovuta kwambiri, chidziwitso ichi chingathe kukhala chiyanjano. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuti mutsimikizire nokha, kuti adzakukondani. Koma musaiwale kuti mutsala pang'ono. Chifukwa chiyani mumathamangira zinthu musanafike nthawi yanu? Ngati mumadzikonda nokha msanga kapena mtsogolo, ngati mnyamatayo, adzakupezerani mwayi wakudziŵani, choncho musachedwe. Zonse mu nthawi yabwino. Pano ine ndiribe kukayika kuti mu funso lanu lokhudza chibwenzi ndi mnyamata, inu nonse mudzalangizidwa kuti muphunzire. Ndipo mukamaphunzira mozama panthawiyi, mudzakhala ndi nthawi yokhala ndi ubwino wanu. Mudzakonda ndi kukonda nthawi yina. Koma chirichonse chomwe chinali, ndi chirichonse, inu simunasankhe, ndikuyembekeza inu muli ndi zaka zonse ndi zaka, mumapeza mnyamata wabwino.