Ukwati wangwiro. Zida za mwamuna? Ndife kangati ife, akazi, timakhumudwa ndi osankhidwa athu. M'kupita kwa nthawi, zovuta zokongola komanso zazing'ono zomwe zimayamba kukhumudwitsa. Sindinakumanepo kuchokera kuntchito, ndinakana zidutswa za dzulo ... ndipo maubwenzi ayamba kugwa. Malingana ndi chiwerengero, maukwati oposa 50% amatha kusagwirizana m'zaka zingapo zoyambirira. Kotero, lero malamulo khumi a mkazi wabwino: mkazi wokondedwa, amayi, bwenzi, wokondedwa.
Ndi angati omwe anawononga maubwenzi muukwati wa "chikhalidwe", zomwe sizinalembedwe mu deta iliyonse ya boma. Amuna amatsutsidwa kuti ndi akazi osowa, ndipo akazi ndi amuna. Ndani kwenikweni amene amamuimba mlandu? Mwinamwake ife, monga Scarlett O'Hara kuchokera ku "Gone With the Wind" Margaret Mitchell, tisanayambe ife timayesa zida zathu zagolidi zosankhidwa ndi chirichonse chomwe sitikufuna kuona pansi pao munthu weniweni. Mwachidziwikire amabwera mwachisoni. Komanso, kumverera kotereku kumachezera onse awiri ndipo mwamuna watsopano amadzidwanso kuti: "Ndipo kodi mkazi wokongola ameneyu ndinakwatirana naye kuti?" Mwinamwake ndi bwino kuyesa kukhala mkazi wabwino kwa osankhidwa ndipo musatayike "Ine"?
Amuna amafuna zonse mwakamodzi, nthawi zambiri izi ndizosiyana zotsutsana, kotero sizikhala zophweka kuyesera. Kuti muchite izi, muyenera kumvetsetsa mtundu wa mkazi amene mwamuna wanu akufuna kukuwonani.
Woyang'anira nyumba
Amuna ambiri amafuna izo pambali. Kwa zaka mazana ambiri kugonana kwakukulu sikuiwala momwe mungakonde chakudya chokoma. Ajeremani anapanga mawonekedwe abwino a "wosunga" - Kirche, Kinder, Kuchen (tchalitchi, ana ndi khitchini). Nthawi zonse mwatsopano wokonzekera chakudya chamadzulo, osceptible maphunziro a ana abwino ndi chete pamsasa mpira wa gulu lake okondedwa. Kodi muli pafupi ndi chithunzichi? Ndiye pitani patsogolo! Osangodalira, mwinamwake mwamuna wa mnyumbayo amangodya ndi kumasuka, ndipo chimwemwe china chimapita kumalo osiyana.
Ndi wokondedwa
Ichi ndilo loto lachinsinsi la mwamuna aliyense, chifukwa panthawi yambiri, kuonekera kwachibale mu ubale, palibe amene waletsa. Chibwibwi chimapangitsa munthu kuyang'ana munthu wosiyana ndi watsopano, wovuta, zowawa. Maulendo kupita kumanzere akukhala mobwerezabwereza, ndipo bedi lokwatirana ndi lozizira. Nanga bwanji ngati mutayimba wokonda? Mwachitsanzo, mungaganizire kuti uyu si mwamuna, koma mlendo wodabwitsa amadza pambuyo pa ntchito, ndikukumana ndi theka lake lachiwiri mu chovala chokongola ndikukonzera kandulo. Tsopano inu simunali banal ndi mkazi wokwiyitsa, koma wokondedwa wokondeka ndi wokonda yemwe sali wokondwa ndi trivia za mnyumba. Mwina kudabwa kwake madzulo kudzalowetsedwa osati chidwi chokha, koma ndi chilakolako. Ndipo m'tsogolomu masewera amenewa adzathandiza kutseguka wina ndi mzake.
Mayi Wosamala
Kuperewera kwa kudziimira kwa amuna ndi chikhumbo chawo chodziwikiratu kuti azisamalidwa ndi kutetezedwa, monga akadakali ana, atsogolere kufunafuna osankhidwawo. Chikumbutso cha malo omwe shema yake yamakonda imakhala ndi chisankho cha mavuto onse a pakhomo, chingathandize kukhazikitsa chiyanjano ndi mwamuna woteroyo. Pa nthawi imodzimodziyo, munthu ayenera kumangokhalira kukambirana naye ndipo mwachidwi amavomereza ndi zosankha zilizonse. Izi zidzamupangitsa kudziona kuti ndi wofunikira. Koma inu mwaganiza kale chirichonse, chabwino? Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti iye samva kuti maganizo ake amanyalanyazidwa.
Weniweni "Ine"
Ntchitoyi ndi yovuta kwambiri, chifukwa apa simusewera, koma khalanibe nokha. Dziwonetseni nokha kuti malo enieni sali ophweka ngati momwe akuwonekera poyamba. Pankhaniyi, moyo wa banja uyenera kumvetsetsa zomwe ukufunidwa komanso kutsogoleredwa ndi zikhumbozi. Ndani akudziwa, mwinamwake mukufuna kuti mwamuna wanu ayesere kukupangitsani kuti mumve bwino ndikuyamba kukonda maloto anu? Chinthu chachikulu kuti mukhale nokha. Ndipo nanga bwanji izi zonse zidzachitika, moyo wanu wokhudzana umasankha. Monga lamulo, kukhala weniweni wina ndi mzake - uwu ndi mgwirizano wokondweretsa kwambiri, chifukwa simukuyenera kudziyesa ndi kuyesa masks a anthu ena.