Wopanga wotero ...
Ali pa kama, amatha kupanga masewera olimbitsa thupi, amatha kusewera mwakuthupi, akupereka zosangalatsa zosadziwika.
Kudziwa: kusungulumwa. Iye akuwopa kuti palibe amene adzasowe aliyense popanda kusintha konseku. Iye anagonjetsa akazi ambiri, koma zokwanira kwa masiku angapo ...
Chinsinsi: musawakondwere osati pabedi. Ngati azindikira kuti mungavomereze kuti "weniweni", adzakhalabe kosatha. Nkhani yowopsya: Nthawi zambiri zokhudzana ndi makhalidwe, zomwe zimangodandaula "bravo".
Minimalist
Pamene akukumbidwa ndi chikhumbo, sazengereza: anabwera, adawona, adziwa bwino. Ndipo palibe zozizwitsa monga chiyambi choyambirira ndi zopsompsona. Amachitapo kanthu molimba mtima kuti simugonjetse, kumverera m'manja ake amphamvu bwenzi la Tarzan.
Kuzindikira: kukopa kosasangalatsa. Iye sakudziwabe momwe angasangalalire minofu ya kukoma, posankha kusangalala mwamsanga ndi mosavuta.
Recipe: diamondi iyi yopanda phindu ingasandulike kukhala chuma chenicheni ngati mumaphunzira malo ake osakayika ndipo moleza mtima mungadzutse chidziwitso ndi chifundo. Zovuta kwambiri: ngati kudzikonda kwake sikulimbana ndi chithandizo, kodi ndibwino kuti tipewe nthawi?
Wodalirika
Iye amaleredwa bwino ndi wachikondi. Onetsetsani kuti mutetezedwa, imani pa malo osangalatsa kwambiri kuti mudziwe ngati chirichonse chikukugwirirani. Ali pa kama, amalingalira komanso amakhala wovuta: kugonana naye ndikofunika kwambiri. Palibe ufulu!
Kudziwa: samvetsa maganizo a akazi ndipo samadzidalira yekha. Mwinanso ali ndi chidziwitso chosauka. Ndipo kotero amadandaula: mwadzidzidzi simungakonde chinachake, ndipo mudzayamba kuponya nsapato. Kapena kulira. Kapena mungamusiye usiku, atakulungidwa mu bulangeti.
Chinsinsi: amachiritsidwa ndi chikondi, chisamaliro ndi kuyamikira. Ndipo mum'phunzitseni kusangalala pabedi. Nkhani yaikulu: ngati nkhawa yake ikupita, ndiye kuti akhoza kusintha. Ndipo kugonana ndi iye kudzawoneka ngati msonkhano mu ofesi. Brrr!
Zovuta Kwambiri
Mumapanga chikondi pakhomo, mu cinema, m'chipinda chapamwamba. Mwayesera chirichonse! Ndipo mukuganiza kuti: "Adzakhala chete liti?"
Kuzindikira: chikondi cha ulendo ndi kusakhumba kukula. Kuti amve "atakwera pamahatchi", amafunikira nthawi zonse kugwedezeka monga kuyendetsa galimoto kwambiri kapena parkour. Zonsezi zimathandiza kukhala ndi mawonekedwe, koma zoopsa pamoyo.
Chinsinsi: Khalani bwenzi, mum'phunzitse kuyamikira thanzi lake ndi kusangalala ndi "zosavuta" kugonana. Nkhani yaikulu: Ngati ali "adrenaline junkie", ndiye kuti akufunafuna "mlingo" watsopano akhoza kuiwala za chikondi ...
Kodi zonse zinapita kuti?
Akatswiri a zachiwerewere ku Sweden pa kufufuza kwawo posachedwapa pa zofuna za kugonana kwa anthu a ku Ulaya amasiku ano, amanena kuti panthawi ya "chikalata" cha chikondi cha munthu chimasiyana kwambiri. Ndipo ngati kuyambira zaka 18 mpaka 23, anyamata 84% ndi 67% a atsikana amayesa mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zolaula zogonana pofuna kuyesera molimba mtima, ndipo pakadutsa zaka makumi atatu zakubadwa zatha.
Choncho, yesetsani kusankha wokondedwa kapena mnzanuyo, mosasamala za ntchito kapena ntchito zina. Chifukwa chakuti momwe mungasankhire nthawi zambiri zimadalira pazomwe mukugonana komanso banja lanu. Mwina mwayi ukhoza kukumwetulira kuti munthu uyu sadzakutonthoza usiku, komanso abambo okondeka komanso okondedwa ndi abambo amtsogolo a ana anu. Inde, zambiri zimadalira kugonana kwa mnzanuyo, koma musadalire kokha koyamba ndi zochitika zoyamba zogonana ndi mnzanu.