Kotero, ndi mtundu wanji wa zilakolako zazimayi zimene amuna amawona kuti ndi zolakwika? Wolemba wamwamuna amavumbula zinsinsi zonse za kusagwirizana kwa maganizo a amuna ndi akazi.
Kotero, ngati mkazi ...
1. Kuphika kosauka
Mwamunayo sali wokongola kwambiri, kotero ndikukonzekera kudya kuphika, komwe amakonzekera mkazi wosakondwa. Komanso, mawu oti "njira yopita kumtima wa munthu imakhala m'mimba mwake" ilibe nthawi yeniyeni m'nthawi yathu ino, pamene mumsika wamalonda mungagule chakudya chokonzekera. Kuwonjezera apo, amuna amakono ndikuchita zabwino ngati akazi.
Chinthu chokha chimene chiyenera kuganiziridwa ndi mkazi wokhazikika: ngati simukudziwa kuphika, ndibwino kuthetsa vutoli.
Ndipotu, simungathe kukhala wokondwa ndi mwamuna yemwe sakudziwa kuchita kunyumba zomwe zimatchedwa ntchito yamwamuna, ziribe kanthu momwe alili wabwino. Chinthu china ndi chakuti, ngati amapeza zochuluka zedi kuti ntchitoyi ichitidwe ndi wina.
2. Amathera tsiku limodzi malipiro onse
Dziwani - ngati izi sizichitika nthawi zonse kapena ngati banja liri ndi ndalama zokwanira, zingakhululukidwe.
Kumbali imodzi, mkazi wodulayo alibe ulemu wochepa kuchokera kwa amuna (komanso nsanje kuchokera kwa akazi ena), koma pambali pake - khalidweli limapereka "malipiro" kwa wokondedwa.
Chiwerengero cha malipirowa chimadalira kukula, zodabwitsa zomwe zingamveke.
Ndipotu, ziribe kanthu momwe mkaziyo aliri wokhutira ngati sakudziwa momwe angagwiritsire ntchito ndalama kapena kukonzekera bajeti, koma amafuna ndalama kuchokera kwa munthuyo ndipo sapereka kalikonse kubwezera - posakhalitsa ubwenziwu udzatha .
Kotero ngati simukudziwa kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama mwanzeru, ndiye kuti ndibwino kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro pazinthu zina.
3. Yang'anirani maola angapo ndikuyankhulana pafoni
Mwamuna akhoza kumukhululukira wokondedwa wake, ngati madzulo ambiri sadzapatsidwa kwa iye, koma kwa bwenzi kapena TV.
Pomalizira pake, amafunika kusamala kwambiri kuposa kugonana kwabwino. Panthawiyi, amasangalala kukhala pa kompyuta kapena nyuzipepala. Potsirizira pake, amapita kukacheza ndi abwenzi ake m'dziwe pomwe muli otanganidwa ndi zochitika zanu.
Kotero, popeza ngati mkazi ali ndi chizoloŵezi chofanana, sizingakhale zosasintha kuthetsa zofanana ndi theka lake lachiwiri .
Koma ngati dona wanu atengeka kwambiri mu sopo ndi abwenzi amkazi kwambiri moti sakuzindikira momwe mwabwerera kuchokera kuntchito, zomwe mudya komanso ngati muli pakhomo, ndiye kuti mwina simukudabwa kwambiri.
4. Ndipita kukachezera kwa nthawi yaitali
Inde, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zokhumudwitsa. Makamaka poyamba, kapena mutachedwa kale, ndipo mkazi wa ola losweka sangathe kudziwa chomwe akuyenera kuvala.
Koma potsirizira pake mumayendera mzerewu, amayamba kuyamba. Dziweruzireni nokha: Mwinanso mwamuna angakhoze bwanji kuona maonekedwe okongola a zitsanzo kuchokera kwa mkazi wake ?
Ndikudziwa kuti chiwerengero cha amuna omwe akuwerenga "Women's Passion" sichichepera chiwerengero cha akazi. Uzani mkazi wanu kuti mukufunikira kuyendera, mwachitsanzo, osati pa 19.00, koma ola limodzi. Ndiyi yosungiramo nthawi ndikupita kwa iye kukonzekera.
5. Amakonda zakudya, zomwe "zimayika" banja lonse
Ngakhale "ulamuliro wolamulira" woterewu ndi wolimba kwambiri moti mwamuna sangathe kudumphira timapepala tating'ono ponseponse patebulo, palibe chomwe chimamulepheretsa kudya zakudya zambiri kuntchito .
Kuonjezera apo, ngati muyang'ana njira iyi ya mkazi, ndiye kuti mungapeze madalitso abwino: aliyense wodya zakudya amakuuzani kuti chakudya cham'mawa ndi chakudya chamadzulo chili chodabwitsa .
Ngati mkaziyo adzidya zakudya zokhazokha ndikukhala ndi chiwonetsero chabwino, kenanso izi ndizophatikizapo. Akanakhala kuti ali omasuka, ndipo ana, ndithudi, sanawonongeke.
6. Mbuye wabwino
Inde, ngati mwamuna abwera kunyumba ndikumulimbikitsa, yemwe mwangozi anaphwanya kapu ya sukulu kapena amasamba T-shirt yomwe amamukonda posamba, sangasangalale, koma adzakwiya kwa nthawi yayitali.
Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kupepesa, ndikupanga nkhope yopanda chilema . Ndipo, ndithudi, kunena kuti: wokondedwa, mawa tidzakugulira t-shirt yabwino kwambiri, komanso chikho ndikudzikonzekeretsa usiku pulogalamu yonse.
Akazi ali ndi gawoli - kuyika zinthu kwa mwamuna wawo pamene sakukhala.
Pamene mwamuna, kufunafuna ntchito mofulumira m'mawa, amapeza kuti onsewo amva fungo la akazi, ndipo T-shirt, kuphatikizapo, ali ndi ziphuphu, sangakonde izi, koma kunyada kwake kudzatentha. Ngati mkazi amavala zinthu zake, ndiye kuti amakonda, amakonda fungo lake .
Malangizo okha ndiyesetsabe kusiya zina mwazinthu zisanachitike. Kuntchito, nkofunikira kuyenda mu chinachake!
Azimayi ena amadana ndi kuyeretsa. Inde, ngakhale amuna achikondi awa amakhululukira osankhidwa awo. Pamapeto pake, pamene banja limakhala pamodzi, kuyeretsa kumatha kumasuliridwa muzochitika zachikhalidwe.
Kuonjezera apo, amuna ambiri amatha kungosamba bwino, kupatula kuchita izo ndi udindo waukulu ndi kuwonongeka! Choncho, kugwiritsa ntchito luso lathu m'dera lino lokhala pamodzi ndi tchimo chabe.
7. Nthawi zina ndi zopusa
Inde, mkazi wopusa sakonda munthu aliyense. Makamaka ngati nthawi zonse amamuika pamasewero olakwika ndi zochita kapena mawu osayenera.
Ndibwino kuti izi zichitike popanda mboni. Ndipo ngati pagulu? Komabe, ngati kupusa kuli kosawerengeka kapena mkazi sangodziyang'ana pazinthu zina zomwe zimafikirika, ndiye izi sizingatheke .
Palibe chodetsa nkhaŵa ngati mutayendayenda m'midzi yina, simunawerenge mabuku alionse onena za sayansi, simungathe kuwonetsa Europe pa mapu a dziko lapansi kapena simukudziwa malamulo a masewera onse a masewera.
Komabe, panthawi imodzimodziyo muyenera kukhala osakaniza kapena kuphika, kapena kudziwa zovuta pa bedi. Izi ndizo, khalidwe lathu.
8. Akuuza onse za abwenzi
Kwenikweni, kumvetsera kuchokera kwa wovala tsitsi lake funso lakuti "Chabwino, bwanji tsitsi lako, laima?" - osati chinthu chosangalatsa kwambiri kwa mwamuna.
Azimayi, ndithudi, sangathe kukhalabe popanda kuwauza abwenzi awo zomwe zimawadetsa nkhaŵa, koma ...
Pano ndi mphindi yofunikira, kodi mumanena chiyani kwenikweni .
Ngati mumalankhula za mphatso zomwe mumapatsidwa ndi mwamuna, chisamaliro chake ndi chikondi chake - ichi ndi chinthu chimodzi, ndi zina - za momwe mwamuna aliri pabedi ndipo mwana wamwamuna wazaka 10 ali ndi chiwalo chogonana kuposa wanu okhulupirika.
Koma kawirikawiri, ngakhale mwamuna amadziwa kuti chibwenzicho akudziŵa za banja lake muzisonyezo zonsezi, izi sizingakhale chifukwa chake zowonongeka kwake.
Apa mfundo ikugwira ntchito: ngati chirichonse chiri chabwino kwa inu, ndiye aloleni iwo adzikwiyitse, ndipo ngati ziri zoipa, ndiye kuti sizikhala zoipitsitsa kuyambira pamenepo .
Iwe, ndithudi, ukhoza kunena kuti izi zonse ndi zamkhutu, ndipo ngati mwamuna akonda, chirichonse chidzatha, koma iwe udzakhala wolakwitsa. Sindikupatsani zifukwa zosafunika, dzifunseni nokha: kodi inu ndi mwamuna wanu mungakhale ndi moyo, omwe muli ndi zofooka zambiri, koma muli ndi ubwino - kamodzi kapena kawiri ndi obchelsya?
Jaroslav KOLOMYTS
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