Mwamuna ndi mkazi sagwirizana. Ndi akazi angati omwe alipo, pali amuna ochuluka kwambiri, ndipo mosiyana ... Ndinakumbukira kalembedwe kakale: "Mayi aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi amuna asanu: munthu woyamba ndi bwenzi limene aliyense amuuza, koma samasonyeza chilichonse; munthu wachiwiri ndi wokondedwa yemwe amasonyezedwa chirichonse, koma salankhula kalikonse; Mwamuna wachitatu ndi mwamuna yemwe amasonyezedwa pang'ono ndikuuzidwa pang'ono; Mwamuna wachinayi ndi mayi wazimayi, kwa yemwe chirichonse chikuwonetsedwa ndipo zonse zikunenedwa; Mwamuna wachisanu ndiye bwana, yemwe, monga adanena, adzatero. " Ndipo popeza nthabwala iliyonse ili ndi nthabwala, zonsezo ndi zoona, tiyeni tiyankhule za amuna, makamaka za amuna mu moyo wa mkazi mwatsatanetsatane.
Ndi amuna angati omwe ayenera kukhala?
Kotero, ndi angati mwa amuna awa omwe ayenera kukhala mu moyo wa mkazi, ngati mwakuya? Chabwino, tiyeni tinene, lingaliro ili ndilokhakha. Chimodzi-ichi ndi chokhacho ndi chodziwika pa moyo wake wonse, chifukwa china - chikhumbo chosatha cha kalonga si kavalo woyera, chifukwa chachitatu ndi amene anagonjetsa, koma anadza kutali ndi kukhala woyamba mu moyo wake. Ndani ali ndi mwayi, kapena, molondola, ndani amene ali ndi zofunikira za "kuvomerezedwa" pa malo a "munthu wake."
Ndipo tsopano pa maalumali
Izi ndikukuuzani mozama zazomwezo, zenizeni za amuna asanu mu moyo wa mkazi.
Mzanga
Kodi pali ubwenzi pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi? Ngakhale mutati mutsimikizidwe kuti ubale wotere ulipo, ndiye kuti uli ndi mavuto ake. Kawirikawiri ubwenzi wotero umachokera ku chikondi cha platonic, choyandikira komanso chosatheka nthawi yomweyo. Anthu ndi abwenzi, chifukwa ali bwino wina ndi mzake, pali chinachake chokamba. Kawirikawiri, kulibe kulimba kokwanira kapena kulimba mtima kwa ubwenzi wapamtima, kapena zovuta sizilola: msungwana, chibwenzi, mwamuna kapena mkazi.
Chinthu china ndi chikhumbo chokhala ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi mbali, chabwino, ngati bwenzi. Ndiye izi zimachitika: mmodzi ndi abwenzi, ndipo wina amamva chikondi cha pakomoni. Mulimonsemo, chiyanjano pakati pa mwamuna ndi mkazi chimayendetsedwa ndi chilengedwe chachilengedwe, kuphatikizapo platonic. Kawirikawiri anthu amafunafuna bwenzi la moyo, chifukwa samalandira chithandizo choyenera m'miyoyo yawo, ndipo chikhalidwe chauzimu chimayamba, chimene, mwa njira, anthu ambiri sazindikira kapena samangofuna kuvomereza, kuyanjanitsa maubwenzi awo. Izi zikuchitika: bwenzi limatha kunena chirichonse ndikukhala ndi maganizo abwino kuchokera kwa iye. Palibenso chitsimikizo kuti ubalewu sungakule kukhala chinthu china kuposa chiyanjano. Chifukwa chake, ubwenzi ndi chinthu chosiyana. Zingafanizidwe ndi mamba - zambiri zikuposa, zonse zidzafika pa izo.
Wokondedwa
Kodi alipo wokonda mkazi aliyense? Nchifukwa chiani izi zikunenedwa nthawizonse? Mwinamwake, chifukwa ubale wa banja nthawi zambiri umakhala moyo wouma, koma kuti tisiyanitse, tiyenera kuyang'ana chikondi, kapena kuti, kugonana, kumbali. Imeneyi ndi njira yokhala ndi chilakolako choyambirira, chikondi, pamapeto, njira yowonjezera mkazi - zofunika, zosangalatsa, zokongola.
Pokhapokha pazinthu zoterezi pali zinyama zawo zam'madzi, makamaka pamene maubwenzi apabanja sakufuna kuonongeka. Ataphunzira zokhudzidwa zatsopano, mkazi sangathe kukhala wofanana ndi iye, kupatula ngati wokonda ali pabedi woipa kuposa mwamuna wake.
"Wokondedwa wabwino, ngati mankhwala. Yesani kamodzi, mutha kuyimbira mobwerezabwereza, mukuiwala za ntchito zanu, chisamaliro ndi mamembala anu, "Oksana akuti. Mzimayi ali ndi chizoloŵezi chokhala wachikondi kuposa munthu. Amagonana kwambiri komanso amawakonda kwambiri, ngakhale kuti maubwenzi omwewo ndi okhazikika pa kugonana.
Ndi bwino kuyambitsa wokonda pokhapokha ngati palibe zoletsedwa m'banja mwakuthupi "moyo waumwini", komabe, funso losiyana kwambiri limabuka: "Kodi kale kale ndi banja?"
Mwamuna
Mwamuna ndiye mutu wa banja. Koma kokha ngati amuna amaganiza kuti aliyense amadziwa za akazi awo, iwo akulakwitsa kwambiri izi. Choncho zinthu zikuyamba: Ndiwonetsa pang'ono, ndikukuuzani pang'ono. Kugona ndi malo pomwe zonse zimachitika molingana ndi muyezo: kugona pansi - ndi kugonana. Ndipo kulankhula kale, monga, ndipo palibe kanthu ... Mmodzi akukondweretsa kuti izi siziri kwa aliyense kotero, koma, mwatsoka, zimapezeka nthawi zambiri.
Mavuto a moyo ndi a banja amachititsa munthu kukhala wopereka ndalama, mkazi kukhala mayi wa banja. Chikondi ndi chilakolako zimabisika mu chifuwa chachikulu, ndipo mkazi nthawi zambiri amagona pabedi "udindo wake wa conjugal."
Mwamwayi, chochitika choterocho si chifukwa choyika mtanda pa chiyanjano, koma mwayi woti asinthe chinachake. Mwachitsanzo, nthawi zina mumamverera ngati mwamuna wanu ngati bwenzi yemwe amamvetsera ndikumvetsa zonse, komanso nthawi zina - monga wokondedwa, kutumiza ana kwa agogo ake ndi kugonana mu malo osagwirizana.
Gynecologist
O! Gynecologist - uyu ndi munthu woyenera! Adzathandizanso ndi uphungu, ndi "kuyang'ana" ... Chifukwa cha mzimayi wamwamuna, ana amabadwa. Mwamuna wotereyo amafunika kuyamikiridwa ndi kuyamikiridwa. Koma sikuti amayi onse amapita kukauza mwamuna, ngakhale ali dokotala, chirichonse ndi chirichonse. Komabe, m'masiku athu a amai, ngati ali katswiri wabwino, ndi okwera mtengo kuposa momwe amachitira akazi.
Mutu wa dipatimenti
Malinga ndi kafukufukuyo, amayi ambiri amasankha kuona ntchito ya bwana wawo ndi mwamuna. N'zovuta kunena chifukwa, mwinamwake mwamuna saganizira kwambiri za kugonana kwachikazi, mwinamwake pali mbiri yakale apa: poyamba, ndipotu, ndi munthu yekha amene anasankha pazochitika zonse. Koposa zonse, safuna kuona mkazi wachikulire pakati pa udindo wapamwamba, amadziwika ngati munthu wovulaza komanso wosakhutira.
Ena amawona udindo wa abambo wamwamuna osati monga bwana, koma komanso ngati angathe kapena wokonda kwenikweni. Akazi oterewa amapita mosavuta kuntchito, chifukwa ali ndi "makadi omwe adagwiritsidwa ntchito." Choipa kwambiri ndizo pamene bwana akunena kuti ali ndi maubwenzi ambiri, ndipo mkazi akukana. Amuna amenewa amakonda kubwezera. Kotero, abwana wamwamuna, ngati alipo mu moyo wa mkazi, ndibwino kuti apitirizebe bwana komanso bwenzi labwino.
Onani kuti mawu akuti "mkazi aliyense akhale ndi amuna asanu" ndi abwino kwa mkazi wokwatiwa: akhoza kukhala ndi mwamuna ndi wokondedwa. Kumbali ina, funso limabuka: "Chifukwa chiyani?" Kodi sikuli bwino kukhala ndi lingaliro limodzi, yemwe adzakhala mwamuna ndi bwenzi, wokonda kwambiri, ngakhalenso, mwinamwake, mayi wazimayi ndi bwana. Koma izi ziyenera kuyang'anidwa kale ... "Kumene ndi motani?" - mumapempha. Ndidzati, ngakhale kuti anthu oterewa alipo, ziribe kanthu momwe kulili kovuta kukhulupirira, koma ndi nkhani ina ...