Ndi mphatso zotani zomwe amuna amakonda?

Amuna amazunzidwa ndi funso la zomwe angapereke kwa amayi, ndipo akazi amazunzidwa ndi malingaliro a zomwe angapatse mwamuna? Ndiye tiyeni tipeze kuti ndi mphatso ziti zomwe amuna amakonda? Pali lingaliro lakuti amuna amakonda mphatso zabwino komanso zothandiza.

Zimakhulupirira kuti zinthu zopambana zomwe ziyenera kusangalatsa maso sizinapangidwe monga mphatso kuti zikhale zolimba zogonana. Ndi mawu awa, mungatsutsane.

Ngati munthu ali wotsimikizirika, amatha kuyamikira chithunzithunzi cha Aivazovsky, chomwe chimaperekedwa kwa iye ngati chikumbukiro chachifundo. Mnyamata wamphongo woyamikira mafuta a ku France kapena zomangira ndi zojambula za wolemba oyambirira. Mphatso zoterezi zikhoza kuyamikiridwa ndi ulemu osati kwa mkazi yekha, komanso ndi munthu wamphatso. Pali mndandanda wa zinthu zomwe zimaperekedwa kwa amuna: chimbudzi cha amuna, kuveketsa kirimu, zomangira, zojambula, maulonda, nsapato, malaya, malaya, malaya, magalasi, magolovesi, ndi zina. Kwa osuta fodya wabwino , ndudu, ashtray kapena kuwala. Kwa ogwira ntchito paofesi, thumba la mafashoni, chikwama chojambula, chojambula, CD disk, thumba la ndalama kapena chithunzi chojambulidwa. Atsogoleriwa amaperekedwa vinyo wamphesa kapena kogogoda yotchuka.

Apa maluwa kwa amuna samaloledwa kupereka. Ngakhale izi ndi tsankho. Simungapereke mphatso yamunthu ngati mphatso. Mphatso yoteroyo ikhoza kukhala yonyoza. Amuna osakwatira amawopera mphatso ngati ziboliboli kapena malaya. Pambuyo pa mphatso yotereyi, akhoza kupewa opereka ndalama. Pambuyo pa mphatso zoterezi, mkazi pamaso pa banjali amasanduka wosaka.

Sikovuta kupeza mphatso kwa mnyamata, yemwe angapereke pafupifupi chirichonse. N'zosavuta kusankha mphatso kwa wokonda galimoto kapena wosaka, akhoza kugula mphatso yapadera. Adzakhala okondwa ndi mphatso iliyonse yomwe imathandiza galimoto kapena kusaka.

Ndizovuta kwambiri kuti musankhe mphatso kwa munthu wopambana ndi wokhwima. Mwamuna yemwe wapindulapo zina mwa ntchito yake ndi moyo wake, ali ndi zovala zabwino, zomwe zimaperekanso zipangizo zamakono komanso zina. Ali ndi ndalama zochuluka zamagetsi ndi zovala. Kawirikawiri kusankha mphatso kwa munthu wotero kumaika ena pamapeto. Ndi mphatso za mtundu wanji zomwe amuna omwe amafanana nazo zimawoneka kuti zikuwayendera bwino? Pambuyo pake, amunawa amapanga zapamwamba osati zofuna zawo zokha, komanso za mphatso. Amuna oterewa ali ndi zinthu zokwanira zambiri, angathe kupatsidwa toyuniki amakono. Kusankhidwa kwa mphatso zotere kudzakuthandizani kudziwa zokhudzana ndi zosangalatsa za munthu waluso. Mwachitsanzo, wosewera mpira wa mabiliyoni ndi bwino kupereka zatsopano kwa mabiliyoni. Mungathe ngakhale kuitanitsa buku la wolemba nkhaniyi. Popeza wapereka mphatso yoteroyo, simungathe kusangalatsa munthuyo yekha, koma kumuthandiza mwamuna wakeyo. Mwamuna aliyense amaganiza kuti ndiwe wothamanga, koma wogwiritsa ntchito mabiliyoni amaganiza kuti ndi wongopeka. Choyambirira cha mtengo wapatali chidzamupangitsa iye kukhala wosewera mpira kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi.

Mutha kumupatsa mphatso zodabwitsa kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, ngati sakufuna galasi, mukufunikira kumupatsa magulu a gofu. Mwinamwake, mphatso ngati imeneyi idzamuthandiza kupita ku galasi ndikupangitsa kuti moyo wake ukhale wokhutira. N'zotheka kuti mphatsoyi ili mu zovala zake kwa miyezi ingapo, koma pamene ayamba kusewera golf, magulu omwe amadziwika adzasintha moyo wake kukhala holide yeniyeni.

Si mphatso zenizeni zonga amuna, zimakhala zosadabwitsa kwambiri. Mwachitsanzo, mnyamata wamwamuna wakubadwa angapereke holide. Ulendo ndi abwenzi ku chilengedwe kukasaka kapena mwachangu shish kebabs. Ulendo uyenera kukhala wosadabwitsa kwenikweni kwa iye. Zidzangokhala "kutengedwa" kuchokera ku ofesi. Ngakhale, pokonza zodabwitsa zotere kwa mwamuna, muyenera kutsimikiza kuti 100 sangathe kukhumudwa ndi mphatso.

Ngati mukufuna kupanga munthu mphatso yabwino, ndiye kuti mumamumvetsera mwatcheru. Inde, munthu samanena mwachindunji kuti akufuna kupeza malo oyendetsa ndege kapena masewera. Iwo akhoza kufotokozedwa mosiyana. Kusankha mphatso, sikofunika kugula phunziro. Pulogalamu ya tsiku la Defender of the Motherland ndi nthawi yokometsera ndi kugula mphatso. Ndipotu, sikuti anthu onse amatumikira kunkhondo, ndipo pa February 23, sikuti aliyense wa iwo amaona kuti ndilo tchuthi. Chifukwa chake, mphatso yanu silingagwirizane ndi ankhondo, mukhoza kupereka mphatso yogwirizana ndi ntchito, zosangalatsa komanso udindo wa amuna.

Munthu wamakono lero akufuna kupanga ntchito yabwino. Kupititsa patsogolo kupyolera mu ntchitoyi ndizofunika kwambiri pamoyo wake, kuti muthe kumupatsa munthu zinthu zokhudzana ndi ntchito yake, gawo la mphamvu kapena zolinga zake. Mphatso zoterezi zingaphatikizepo kutchuka ndi zofunikira, ndipo adzatha kuphatikiza udindo wa munthu ndi zofuna zake. Mphatso zoterezi zingakhale zowonongeka kuchokera kwa wopanga Swiss, kusinthidwa kwatsopano kwa communicator, zodzikongoletsera za amuna, mawonekedwe atsopano ogwiritsira ntchito zonyamulira kapena fodya wamagetsi. N'zotheka kuti munthu apange dongosolo layekha la bizinesi lamtengo wapatali ndi dzina lake lokha.

Komabe, mphatso yamunthu yachikale ndi wotchi. Ili ndi mphatso yabwino kwambiri kwa munthu aliyense, patsiku, ndi tsiku la kubadwa. Koma mphatso iliyonse iyenera kukhala limodzi ndi mawu omwe sangakhale osangalatsa kuposa mphatsoyo. Mawu awa ayenera kukhala oona mtima ndi oona mtima.

Mwachidule, mphatso yamtundu wanji kwa munthu, m'njira zambiri imadalira moyo wake, udindo wake, zofuna zake, malo ake, komanso mawonekedwe ake. Mphatso sayenera kumulemetsa ndipo musamulepheretse. Komanso, ayenera kukondweretsa munthu komanso kumuyamikira. Ngati mphatsoyo idzawonetsa anthu omwe ali pafupi naye kuti apambane, ndiye kuti adakondabe kwambiri. Kusankha mphatso, muyenera kutsatira mfundo ya mphatso kwa eni ake. Mphatso iyenera kukhala chizindikiro cha munthu wobadwira m'tsogolo mtsogolo.