Pazifukwa za kukongola kwa amayi zomwe zimayankhulidwa ndi kukambirana, ndipo mawonekedwe a thupi amachotsedwa, ndipo kuyang'ana ndi povolokoy kumafotokozedwa, ndipo kukula kwake kwa m'mawere kumasonyeza. Pokhudzana ndi kukongola kwakunja kwa anthu, mwambi umati ngati ukanakhala bwino kuposa nyani, ndiye kuti ndi zabwino. Komabe, amuna omwewo sagwirizana ndi izi.
Makampani opanga mafashoni akukula monga azimayi. Amuna omwe amachita masewera, ndi apamwamba kuposa akazi. Inde, amuna amawomba thukuta kuti akhale amphamvu komanso amphamvu. Ili ndilo lingaliro lawo. Koma akazi amadziwa kuti kuyesayesa konseku kumapangidwira kuwonekera pamaso pa wokondedwa wanu wokongola, wopukwa, wamkono.
Mwamuna yemwe alibe mgwirizano wapachibale amasonkhezeredwa ndi chilakolako chosatsutsika chokhala wokongola. Izi zimachokera ku zilakolako za chilengedwe zowononga zachiwerewere monga momwe zingathere.
Kodi kukonzekera tsitsi kuli kofunikira kwa mwamuna ngati mkazi? Inde, kumvetsera kwambiri, ndalama zambiri zimapatsidwa kwa madona, palibe mwamuna mmodzi amene sangapezeke. Komabe, amuna amatsatira mafashoni m'maso a tsitsi, kenako amamasula tsitsi, kenako amadulidwa pansi, poganizira kuti tsitsili ndi losavuta kwambiri.
Kwa khungu ndi nkhope, amuna amafunikanso kusamalira. Kukongola ndi khungu la mtundu wathanzi, osakhala ndi vuto lachinyamata. Amayi ambiri amawoneka ngati opanda kuwala, koma tifunika kutchula kuti amuna okhawo ameta tsitsi amaloledwa kusiya nkhope ya bristle. Nthiti za blondes ndi redheads zimawoneka zosangalatsa kwambiri ndipo sizimayambitsa mayanjano alionse.
Chiwerengero ndi kukula kwa munthu kungakhale kosiyana. N'zoona kuti ndi bwino kuona mnyamata yemwe ali ndi minofu yambiri komanso mimba yolimba. Koma chithunzi chotero sichingawakonde kwa amayi onse. Amayi ambiri a anthu amakhulupirira kuti amangochita mantha ndi amuna omwe ali ndi matumbo, ndi masaya akuluakulu ndi matupi odyetsedwa bwino.
Asayansi atulukira chitsanzo chophweka chimene chimasiyanitsa mwamuna wokongola kwa wamba. Zonsezi ndi za kukula kwa thupi ndi kuphatikiza kwawo. Nsapato zapafupi ndi mapewa aakulu, owongoledwa ndiwo chinsinsi cha kupambana.
Mosakayikira, mwamuna wokongola ndi wokongola kwambiri amawoneka wokongola. Pamalo odzitukumula omwewo, okhulupilira, ndipo kuchokera ku malingaliro a amayi sipadzakhalanso nyali kunja.
Pamsonkhano woyamba, amayi amakono, monga zaka zapitazi, poyamba ayang'ane nsapatozo, kuwona khalidwe lake, kulondola, mtengo wogwiritsidwa ntchito. Mmodzi mwa maso oyambirira akuyang'ana kudzanja lamanja la munthuyo, maso adzayang'ana ngati alibe mphete yothandizira pa mphete.
Kufunsa funso kwa kugonana kwabwino, ndi amuna otani omwe amawaona kuti ndi okongola, amayi amayamba kulembetsa osati deta ya kunja, koma malingaliro, kuseketsa, kukwanitsa kukhala mderalo, kudzidalira, kukhala ovala bwino, zovala zosangalatsa. Kuchokera pambaliyi, kuti kukongola kwakukulu kwa munthu kuli mu chikhalidwe chake ndi chikhalidwe.