Kuphunzitsa kugonjera kwa amuna

Potsirizira pake malotowa akwaniritsidwa! Mudakumana ndi munthu wa maloto anu! Mwapitilira limodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, mudaphunzira nthawi yambiri, mumaphunzirana bwino, mumagwiritsa ntchito masiku ambiri osakumbukira, ndipo pamapeto pake munaganiza zokhala pamodzi! Mwamuna wina anawonekera mnyumba mwanu. Chochita ndi iye tsopano, momwe mungagwirire, momwe mungadyetse ndi momwe mungaphunzitsire munthu wamkulu ndi mwamuna yemwe wachitika kale? Momwe mungakhalire ubale wogwirizana ndi wokondweretsa?

N'zotheka kuti pachiyambi mudzamva mantha, nkhawa, chisokonezo. Makamaka ngati ichi ndi choyamba chanu. Musati muziwopa. Sadzakhumudwa mukamapita kuntchito kapena kukakumana ndi chibwenzi, pitani kwa amayi anu kapena mukamapita kukaona salon. Amadya mofanana ndi inu, kokha kawiri kapena ziwiri ndipo zonse zimayenera kudzozedwa ndi mayonesi. Koma kuti muphunzitse ndi kuphunzitsa munthu watsopano akukhala panyumba panu, nkoyenera kuti, mutayika kutaya ulemu wanu m'nyumba, ndipo nyumba yanu idzakhala yanu kwa mlendo.

Mu maphunziro a munthu pali zambiri zozizwitsa, zomwe ndizofunikira kwambiri kuti munthu wosankhidwayo asakhalepo m'moyo wake akuganiza kuti akuphunzitsidwa. Zonsezi ndi nkhani ya teknoloji, aliyense wa inu adzapirirapo!

Poyamba, mwamuna atasamukira kwa inu, ndi bwino kumusamalira mokwanira ndikusamala kuti amve kuti ali pakhomo, kuti ali omasuka pano, kuti nthawi zonse amalandiridwa, nthawi zonse amalandiridwa. Anapereka kwa alumali pa mulandu, malo a mabuku ake, disks, malo osambiramo kuti apange zipangizo zake. Muwonetseni iye kuti tsopano ali mwini mwini nyumbayi, monga inu. Sungunulani chakudya chake chokoma, lankhulani mwachifundo, musamapangitse zopweteka, munthu akhoza kuchita mantha ndi kuthawa. Chofunika kwambiri, poyamba kuti wamkulu wa maloto anu amvetse kuti mumalemekeza malo ake, ali ndi malo ake omasuka komanso okonzeka kuwerenga, kugwira ntchito pa kompyuta, poonera TV. Mundilole ine ndibweretse abwenzi, ndi chikhalidwe choti mwamuna wanu azitsuka chirichonse ndi kutsogolera nyumbayo ku mawonekedwe ake oyambirira asanafike akusekerera kapena osakhala abwenzi ake.

Komabe, muyenera kukambirana nthawi yomweyo zomwe mukufuna kupewa. Mwachitsanzo, simukukonda pamene mukusuta m'chipinda ndi khitchini, mulole wokondedwa wanu apite kumalo osanja kapena staircase, kapena ngakhale kutaya mankhwalawa. Ngati simukukonda njira yomwe akupangira phala kuchokera mu chubu kapena gel osungira botolo la gel osamba, pangani makope awiri. Mmodzi ndi wanu, winayo kwa iye. Kotero mungathe kupewa mikangano ndi kukwiya m'mawa mukamawona pulogalamu yosakanizidwa ya phala. Phunzitsani munthu kuti asambe zovala zonyansa mumsamba wochapa zovala, umene uli mu bafa. Simusowa kufufuza nyumba zonse za masokosi ake, mathalauza ndi T-shirt. Gwirizanani kuti ngati atakhala pampando, amachotsa zinyenyeswazi, zitini za mowa ndi zitsulo zopanda kanthu kuchokera pansi pa zipsera. Mvetserani mwatcheru ndi zofuna zake momwe mukukhalira. Kukambirana kwa Frank ndichindunji kumayambiriro kwa moyo pamodzi kumapewa mavuto ambiri m'tsogolomu, kusamvetsetsana ndi zopweteka.

Ngati mwamuna wanu abweretsa abwenzi ake kapena anzake ku nyumba yanu, muvomereze naye kuti akudziwitsani kuti musapeze vuto lachinyengo mukamabwerera kwanu ndikuyika phazi lanu pakhomo kuti mutengere wokondedwa wanu , ndipo pakali pano pambali pakhomo panu muli maso awiri amphongo. Nsanje kuchokera kwa abwenzi kwa mwamuna wanu, ndithudi, imatsimikiziridwa, koma osati kuti iye angakonde kuti mkazi wake amawoneka ndi ena, makamaka, mwaukali wake. Amuna mwachibadwa ali achisoni kwambiri ndipo samalola kukondana ndi amuna ena, makamaka ndi abwenzi awo.

Ngati muli paubwenzi wabwino ndi oyandikana nawo kapena pabwalo kampani inayake yakhazikitsidwa, "abambo-abambo" omwe mumakumana nawo usiku uliwonse ndikuyenda ndi chiweto chanu, onetsetsani kuti mumayambitsa munthu wina amene mumakhala nawo m'nyumba komanso pazochita zowonetsera ziweto. Choyamba, mwamuna adzakondwera kuzindikira kuti mumanyada ndikumudziwa ndi anzanu onse. Chachiwiri, kuyenda ndi chiweto chokha kumakhala kosangalatsa, wokondedwa wanu adzakhala wokondwa kwambiri kuchita zimenezi pamodzi ndi anthu omwe amudziwa kale. Chinthu chokha, ganizirani mosamala musanayambe wokondedwa wanu kwa aliyense. Kumbukirani, wina akhoza kukukhumudwitsani ndi kukuuzani "nkhani yopeka" kuyambira kale, zomwe simungasangalatse wosankhidwa wanu.