Kugonana ndi nkhani yopanda malire monga moyo wokha. Zingowoneka kuti ife timadziwa zonse zokhudza kugonana monga mavuto atsopano akuwuka. Kodi ndi zoopsa ziti zogonana ndi abambo? Kodi anthu amitundu yambiri akuiwala chiyani? Mkazi wachisokonezo ndi chiyani? Mayankho a mafunso omwe amafunsidwa kawirikawiri zokhudzana ndi kugonana - ofunika, ofanana ndi olimba mtima - werengani pansipa.
Funso 1. Kodi ndani anayambitsa kondomu?
Malinga ndi nthano, njira imeneyi inakhazikitsidwa pozungulira 3000 BC. Mfumu yamtendere ya Krete Minos, yemwe nthawi zambiri ankampatsa mkazi wake Pasiphae, adatemberera ndi mkazi wansanje: pogwiritsa ntchito spell panthawi yopuma, sanatuluke ndi cum, koma ndi njoka ndi zinkhanira, ndipo okondedwa ake anafa chifukwa cholira. Kenaka Minos amaganiza za kuyambitsa mkodzo wa mbuzi mukazi wa wokondedwa wake - ndipo kondomu inapangidwa. Koma pakugulitsa makondomu kunabwera mu 1712. Anagwiritsidwa ntchito payekha payekha paulendo woyendayenda komanso nyumba zosangalatsa.
Funso 2. Chifukwa chiyani mdulidwe uli wofunikira?
"Mdulidwe wa mutu wa mbolo umakhala ngati ukhondo, chifukwa chakuti tizilombo toyambitsa matenda, tizilombo toyambitsa matenda timatha kuwonjezereka, kuchititsa kutupa komanso kusakondweretsa mwamuna," akufotokoza motero a urologist Mikhail Sapkov. "Kuphatikizanso apo, mutu wotsatira mdulidwe umakhala wochepa kwambiri, womwe umalola munthu kuchita chisokonezo chokhalitsa komanso chokhalitsa popanda chiopsezo chothamangira msanga."
Kotero inu mukusowa kuti mudulidwe kapena ayi? Panalibe mgwirizano pakati pa madokotala ndi asayansi. Koma ngati kachilombo kamatsegulidwa mosavuta ndipo munthu akumva kupwetekedwa panthawi yamavuto, madokotala amalangiza kuti mdulidwe uchitidwe ngakhale mutakula. Ntchitoyi ndi yotetezeka kwambiri.
Funso 3. Kodi fungo lingakhudze chikhumbo?
M'nkhani zolimbitsa thupi, nthawi zambiri pamakhala "nkhani za fungo": okondedwa awiri amasangalala kwambiri "kupuma", kuti sangathe kuwasokoneza. Muzinthu zogonana, palinso nthawi yapadera - "chiyanjano cha mankhwala". "Kufunika kwa zonunkhira mu moyo wa kugonana sikunganyalanyazedwe," Vladimir Prokhorov yemwe ali ndi chiwerewere. - Ndithudi inu munazindikira kuti munthu amakusangalatsani inu ndi chimodzi mwa maonekedwe ake, ndipo inu simungakhoze kufotokoza ndendende chomwe kwenikweni akukukokerani inu. Uwu ndiwo mphamvu ya fungo. Fungo la wokondedwa lingakhale lokongola kwambiri moti anthu ena amangokukankhira! Momwemonso amununkhira wamkazi. Mwamunayo amamukumbukira kwa masiku angapo. "
Funso 4. Kodi kugonana kwangwiro kumatha nthawi yayitali bwanji?
Kafukufuku watsopano mwa anthu ogonana ndi abambo amasonyeza kuti nthawi yokwanira yogonana ndi yochokera kwa 3 mpaka 13 mphindi. Kafukufukuyu, wofalitsidwa mu Journal of Sexual Medicine (USA), anapezekapo ndi mabanja 1,500. Kufufuza kwa deta yomwe inapezedwa kunasonyeza kuti nthawi yayitali ya kugonana ndi 7.3 mphindi. Pa nthawi yomweyi, kutengeredwa kwa nthawi yayitali sikudandaulira amuna ndi akazi.
Funso 5. N'chiyani chimatipangitsa kukhala achigololo?
Zovala zopindulitsa kwambiri kwa akazi, malinga ndi kafukufuku - kavalidwe kameneka. Kachiwiri - ma jeans oyenerera, maketi achifupi, suti zolimba zamalonda, nsalu zakuda zamkati, kusowa kwa brassiere ndi zidendene. Ikuwonetsanso kuti mkazi wa chovala chofiira kapena lalanje amachititsa chidwi chofuna kugonana kwa amuna kusiyana ndi buluu, chikasu kapena choyera. Amuna samakonda kulandira mipando yambiri yamatala ndi misomali yowala.
Funso 6. Kodi ndingakulitse mawere anga ndi zakudya?
"Palibe chozizwitsa chapadera chomwe chimapangidwira kuti chifuwa chisawonjezereke," anatero Irina Malikheeva, katswiri wamabanja. - Musakhulupirire mphekesera yotchuka yonena za zozizwitsa katundu wa kabichi ndi msuzi woledzeretsa. Koma kusewera masewera kungasinthe mawonekedwewo ndikuwonjezera chifuwacho pang'onopang'ono ndi mnofu waukulu wa pectoral, umene umakhala "maziko" a chifuwa. Ukulu wa mammary gland umatsimikiziridwa ndi chibadwidwe: mwinamwake, simungapikisane ndi amayi anu. Komabe, mu mammary gland pali minofu yambiri, motero ndi phindu lolemera, chifuwa chidzakhala chokongola kwambiri, ndipo panthawi yochepa thupi lidzachepa. " Komabe, masankho amati si kukula kwake. Amuna omwe sali ambiri voliyumu yokha, ndi angati, mawonekedwe omwe angathe kusintha mosavuta.
Funso 7. Kugonana ndi kugonana - ndi koopsa?
Kuyesera koteroko kungapweteke kokha ngati osasunga "njira zotetezera". "Kugonana kwapakati kumafuna kukonzekera zambiri. Mzimayi amafunika kupumula minofu momwe angathere, mwinamwake mnzanuyo akhoza kuwononga kuwononga mchere, - akufotokozera Vladimir Prokhorov yemwe ali ndi chiwerewere. - Mudzafunikiranso mafuta odzola - mafuta, kutsogolera mkati ndi kuchotsa ululu. Chitani mwatcheru ndikutsata nthawi yanu, ndikuganizira momwe mumamvera. Ngati mukudwala kapena osasamala, onetsetsani kuti mumamuuza mnzanuyo ndikuwapempha kuti asiye.
Funso 8. Chifukwa chiyani timafunikira kumpsompsonana?
Kumpsompsonana kumatulutsa mankhwala omwe amachititsa kuti ubongo ukhale ndi mphamvu zokwanira 200, kuposa mphamvu ya morphine. Ndi chifukwa chake kupsompsona kungatikongoletsere kuposa zina zomwe zimapweteka! Kuwonjezera pamenepo, pamene kupsyopsyona kumaphatikizapo ntchito ya minofu yonse ya 29, kuwonjezereka kwa kagayidwe ka magazi ndi ubongo ku ubongo. Kugonana nthawi zonse kwa chaka chimodzi kumataya kulemera kwa makilogalamu 3!
Funso 9. Kodi maloto achigololo amuna ndi akazi amasiyana bwanji?
Malingaliro a amuna ndi akazi ndi osiyana, akuti Vladimir Prokhorov, yemwe ndi katswiri wamagonana. - Amuna nthawi zambiri amagonana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi kapena mwamuna kapena mkazi. Malingaliro a amayi ndi amtima kwambiri. Mu maloto, amai nthawi zambiri amachita zinthu molimbika komanso mosapita m'mbali, zomwe sangafune kuchita m'moyo. "
Funso 10. Kodi kudziletsa kumakhala kovulaza?
Funso la mafunso omwe amafunsidwa kawirikawiri. "Inde," madokotala akunena mawu amodzi. "Kwa munthu, kudziletsa kwanthaŵi yaitali kumadzaza ndi kuchepa, kuchepa kwa umuna umatuluka, kutupa kwa prostate gland," akufotokoza motero Galina Lazareva. - Azimayi sayenera kukhala osagonana kwa nthawi yaitali, amatha kukhala ndi vuto la mitsempha, ndipo kupatsirana magazi m'magawo am'thupi kumayambitsa kutupa kwa mazira ndi zozizwitsa. "
Funso 11. Chifukwa chiyani zimapweteka panthawi yogonana?
Chomwe chimayambitsa kupweteka chingakhale chithunzithunzi chochepa, pomwe simungakhale nayo nthawi yopuma. Musazengereze kuuza wokondedwayo kuti mukusowa nthawi yambiri kuti "mutenthe mtima", - akulangizitsa vladimir Prokhorov wogonana. - Chifukwa china chotheka - kusagawanika kwa mafuta m'thupi. Izi zikhoza kukhala chifukwa cha kumwa mowa kapena kuyamwa. Gwiritsani ntchito mafuta kuti mulowetse mkati. Kuuma kumatha kupezeka chifukwa cha matenda a abinayi, kukwiya kwa mucosa kapena kuvomereza kwadzidzidzi kwa m'mimba. Pachifukwa chotsatirachi, muyenera kuonana ndi azimayi kapena a katswiri wa zamaganizo, chifukwa ndizosatheka kuthetsa vaginism nokha. "
Funso 12. Kodi mungapeze bwanji minofu "yomweyo"?
Yesetsani kuika chala m'mimba: minofu yoyenera iyenera kuumirizidwa pakhosi, koma minofu ya m'mimba, matako ndi kumbuyo zisamalephereke. Ngati simukumva minofu yoyenera, yesani kuchepetsa ndondomekoyi mosamala mukakodza.
Funso 13. Chifukwa chiyani nkofunikira kuphunzitsa minofu yochepa?
Kukhala ndi minofu yochepetsetsa, kuphatikiza pa zokondweretsa zokondweretsa panthawi ya kugonana, ikhoza kuthandiza ntchito zina zothandiza amuna ndi akazi. "Minofu yophunzitsidwa imathandiza kuti mapulogalamuwo asapweteke kwambiri ndipo amachepetsa kwambiri chiopsezo cha mimba. Amathandizira kuthana ndi ululu pa nthawi ya kugonana komanso kupewa kutsekemera mwadzidzidzi (mwachitsanzo, panthawi yopuma), akulongosola za matenda a amayi Irina Malpheeva. - Amuna amathanso kuthandizira pa mau a minofu yomwe ikukhudzidwa. Choncho, akhoza kuteteza chitukuko cha kusadziletsa, komanso kuonjezera kugonana ndikupangitsa kuti zisokonezeke. "
Funso 14. Kodi ndi chifukwa chotani chomwe tinganene kuti tigwirizane ndi munthu wogonana?
Pulezidenti wa bungwe la Russian Sexologists, Eugene Kulgavchuk, anafotokoza kuti: "Ngati tikukamba za amuna, zifukwa zomveka zopita kwa dokotala ndizofooka, komanso kuti nthawi zonse satha, komanso kuti palibe chifukwa chokhalitsa." - Ndi bwino kuti amayi apeze thandizo kwa akatswiri omwe ali ndi vaginism komanso kusowa kwachisokonezo ndi zaka zoposa (zaka zoposa ziwiri). Pa mafunso awa okhudzana ndi kugonana, simuyenera kupeza yankho nokha. "
Funso 15. Kodi Don Juan weniweni angatani?
Izi zikusonyeza kuti atsogoleri achipembedzo ndi atsogoleri, ozunguliridwa ndi akazi ambiri odzipereka, siwo amuna omwe amakonda komanso otentha kwambiri. Zolemba zonse - ana 47, operekedwa ndi Bedouin mmodzi wochokera ku United Arab Emirates, adakanthidwa ndi a Brazil awiri. Fidelis Florentine, yemwe ali ndi zaka 54, anapatsa ana ake okondedwa 53 ambiri, ndipo nthawi zonse, abambo awo anavomerezedwa mwalamulo. Wina wa ku Brazili Jose Almeida ali ndi akazi asanu okha komanso amisala atatu osatha omwe ali ndi ana oposa 60 aamuna ndi aakazi.
Don Juan Evgeni Prokofiev, wazaka 75, wa ku Russia, analemba zaka makumi asanu ndi awiri mphambu zisanu ndi zitatu (578) kuti asanamwalire. Ndipo izi zili kale ntchito ku Guinness Book of Records!
Funso 16. Kodi malo oiwalika a amuna ndi oiwalika?
"Kuphatikizana ndi ming'oma, khomo la chikazi ndi clitoris ndi malo okhwima kwambiri azimayi nthawi zambiri amakhala kumbuyo kwa khutu, maso, mapewa ndi" malo a paka "kumbuyo pakati pa mapewa, - akuti wothandizira kugonana, Alexander Poleyev. - Pali amayi omwe amapsompsona zala zala zala, zala, zala, chiuno, ntchafu zamkati, komanso malo omwe ali pansi pa bondo mwachidwi. Ndi bwino ngati mkazi amudziwa "malo obisika" ndipo sazengereza kusonyeza zomwe ayenera kuchita. "
Funso 17. Kodi ntchito ya Viagra ndi yotani?
Mtsogoleri pakati pa mafunso omwe amafunsidwa kawirikawiri zokhudzana ndi kugonana. Chochita cha silitinifil yozizwitsa (dzina la malonda "Viagra") ndi kuonetsetsa kuti magazi akuthamanga kupita ku mbolo kuti akwaniritse. Koma mankhwalawo sakhala okondwa, amangokhala "ntchito yothandizira" pamene munthu "akufuna". Zina mwa zotsatira zake ndi kupweteka kwa mutu, kupweteka, kutsegula m'mimba ndi katundu wolemera pamtima.