Chikondi ndi malingaliro opanda malire omwe amakhudza mitima ya onse, mosasamala mtundu ndi nzika. Kotero iwe unakhala wopweteka chikondi chopanda malire mu mawu enieni a mawuwo. Wosankhidwa wanu ndi mlendo. Ndiye muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti chikondi ichi chisasokonezeke ndi mavuto pamene mukupita kwa mkwati kwamuyaya? Ndipo ndi zovuta ziti zomwe mukuyenera kukumana nazo?
Kulankhulana kwanu kwatha kale kuposa malire a kulankhulana kwa telefoni, masewero autali usiku ndi zokambirana za Skype. Mukuganiza kuti mumadziwana kale bwino ndipo mwakonzeka kuchoka ku Motherland ndikuthawira kwa okondedwa anu m'mphepete mwa dziko. Koma ndibwino kuti mupite pansi ndikuganiza mosamala kuti mwakonzekera zotembenuzidwa zoterezi.Kodi mwakonzeka kuchoka okondedwa anu, abwenzi ndi abwenzi, chifukwa sipadzakhala mwayi wakulira mu chovala kapena ayi, kudzitama ndi kavalidwe katsopano. Sadzabwera kwa inu pa tsiku la kubadwa ndi Chaka Chatsopano, ndipo simungathe kupita kwa iwo pa holide. Mudzakhala ndi moyo wautali pakati pa alendo komanso alendo.
Ngati simunayime, ndipo mwakonzeka kugwirizanitsa ndi nthawi yoyamba ndi kusungulumwa, ndiye kuti tibweretsamo malingaliro angapo, monga akunenera, panjira.
Tisanayambe kusankha kuti tisamuke, timalangiza mwezi kuti timuyendere, tidziwe makolo ake, tiwone kumene akukhala komanso mmene amakhalira. Ganizirani, muli ndi lingaliro lomwelo la moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ndi zofunika za banja. Ngakhalenso bwino, mukadzachezera tchuthi lofunikira la banja. Uwu ndiwo mwayi waukulu kuti mudziwe achibale ake, ndipo phunzirani zambiri zokhudzana ndi tsogolo la mwamuna. Zikhulupiriro, aakazi ndi agogo aakazi ndi okonzeka kugawana nanu nkhaniyi.
Chidziwitso chabwino ndi kuwonetserana kwa chiyanjano kudzakhala kuyitanidwa kwa mkwati kudzamuchezera. Mudzawona mmene munthu amachitira zinthu zomwe sizili bwino kwa iye. Pa nthawi yomweyo adzawona mmene mumagwiritsira ntchito. Ngati chirichonse chimatikakamiza, ndiye kuti tipitiliza.
Ndi chiyani chomwe chiyenera kukumbukira ndi kudziwa pamene mukupita kunja? Chimene simungathe kuthawa cholepheretsa chinenero. Ndipo ndi bwino kuthetsa vutoli ku Motherland. Lowani ku maphunziro a chinenero chachilendo, tengani kubwereza kwa katchulidwe ka katchulidwe kake. Izi ndi zofunika kwambiri. Ndikhulupirire, mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu sangakhale nanu maola 24 pa tsiku.
Ndikofunikira kukumbukira kuti m'dziko limene mukupita, pali miyambo, malamulo ndi miyambo yanu, zomwe muyenera kuphunzira, kuzidziwa ndi kuziwona. Phunzirani zambiri za iwo. Ndi chipembedzo chiti chomwe chili m'dzikoli, ndi njira yanji ya moyo yomwe ikuletsedwa kuchita.
Dziwani kwa mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wamtsogolo ngati mungathe kuchita ntchito yake m'dziko lake. Ndizotheka ngati ntchito yanu ikufunidwa kunja. Ndipo ngati sichoncho, ganizirani ntchito zonse zomwe mungathe kuchita. Zidzakhala zodabwitsa kusamalira luso loyendetsa galimoto ngati simukudziwa kuyendetsa galimoto. Khulupirirani kunja, kawirikawiri chilolezo cha kuyendetsa chikufunika ndi aliyense.
Ndipo, ndithudi, nkhani yofunika kwambiri ndi yachuma. Ndizodabwitsa ngati mkazi wam'tsogolo adzakupatsani nthawi yonse ya kusintha, kapena, bwino, moyo wanu wonse. Koma ndi bwino kutenga ndalama ndi inu, kuti muthe kumbuyo kwodalirika kwa zochitika zosayembekezereka. Lembani kuchuluka kwa momwe mukufunikira nthawi yoyamba, ndipo onetsetsani kuti mukukonzekera ndalamayi musanatuluke. Izi zikhoza kuyendera maulendo, khadi la ngongole kapena ndalama. Ndipo mutengere nthawi yogulitsa zinthu zakuthupi ndi nyumba zamtundu kwanu, zikhoza kuchitidwa nthawi zonse.
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