Atsikana amathera nthawi yochuluka, mphamvu ndi ndalama kuti zizioneka ngati chivundikiro cha magaziniyi. Phunzirani masewera, malo ndi magazini a mafashoni kuti mudziwe momwe mungadziphunzitsire nokha ndi zomwe amunawa akufunikira kuchokera kwa amai. Pali lingaliro limodzi m'mutu mwanga: Ndikufuna kukwatira!
Koma, amuna amaleredwa ndi malingaliro ena. Mwamuna ayenera kudyetsa banja lake ndikupatsa mkazi wake ndi ana ake zabwino kwambiri.
M'nthawi yathu ino, ngati mufunsa munthu aliyense funso: bwanji inu simukufuna kukwatira? Yankho lake lidzakhala ngati izi: muyenera kupeza maphunziro, kupeza ntchito yabwino, kugula galimoto ndi nyumba. Mwachidule, maloto amunthu onse amayamba kupanga maziko olimba, ndipo pangoganizirani za ukwati ndi ana.
Ndipo, ndikutha kunena kuti maganizo awa a anyamata akukhala osangalatsa. Ndipotu mawu akuti "chikondi ndi paradaiso ndi mnyumbamo" sizingatheke m'nthawi yathu ino. M'nthawi ya Soviet Union, mabanja achichepere adathandizidwa ndi boma - zopereka zothandizira. Masiku ano, demokarase ikukula. Kotero, ife tiri ndi udindo pa tsogolo lathu ndi kukwaniritsa. Ngati banja lilibe ndalama zokwanira, ndiye kuti mumakonda kukangana, kulumbira. Ndipo banja lanu laling'ono kwambiri liwonongeka chifukwa cha mavuto a zakuthupi, ngakhale popanda kukhala ndi nthawi yolawa zokoma zonse zogonera limodzi.
Munthu aliyense, kaya mwamuna kapena mkazi, maloto ofanana - chimwemwe. Atsikana amangofuna zonse mwakamodzi, ndipo amuna amachita mogwirizana ndi ndondomeko yoyamba - poyamba amapanga maziko, ndipo amangokhalira kukwatiwa.
Kawirikawiri, mnyamata ndi mtsikana, atakhalapo kwa nthawi yayitali, amasiyana chifukwa chakuti sali wokonzeka kukwatira, ndipo mtsikanayo akutha kale kukwatira. Mkhalidwewu, msungwanayo amaganiza za chilakolako chake, saganiza kuti mwamuna sakufuna kukwatira ndiye chifukwa chakuti akuopa moyo ndi mavuto akuthupi kuti awononge zonse zabwino pakati pawo.
Chifukwa chakuti mnyamatayo safuna kukwatira chibwenzi chake, amaganiza kuti: "Yembekezerani kuti mwanayo asinthe, kapena akufuna kugawanika."
Ngati, komabe, analeka kugonana, ndiye kuti tingathe kunena kuti mnyamatayo anali ndi mwayi. Ndipotu simunganene kuti mtsikanayo ankakonda mnyamata wake. Ndikanadakonda, ndikadakhala naye ndikumuthandiza, koma sindinagwire malo opweteka kwambiri.
Mwamuna, pamene akufuna kukhala pachibwenzi, samakhalanso wokonzeka kumutsogolera ku korona. Ayenera kudziwa bwino bwenzi lake labwino, kuti asapezeke mtsogolo ngati mpulumutsi, kuti maso ake akuyang'ana.
Atsikana, ngati mwamuna sakukonzekera ukwati, samvetsetsani kuti patapita nthawi sangakhale ndi phobia yomwe palibe yemwe angamukwatire.
Atsikanafe timafunitsitsa kuti tikwatirane. Asungwana okondeka, mvetserani chinthu chimodzi chomwe ngati mnyamata wanu amakukondani kwambiri ndipo mumachimva; ngati iye ali wovuta; Ngati mukukonzekera zam'tsogolo mumakhalapo nthawi zonse. Kenaka, musamukakamize ndikumkwatira musanasankhe.
Ganizirani za zomwe mudzakwaniritsa ndi khalidweli? Kutaya wokondedwa ndi mbadwa chifukwa choti muli ndi mtima wodzikonda kapena chifukwa cha maganizo a anthu omwe amakukhudzani kwambiri?
Ingokhalani ndi kusangalala ndi chimwemwe, chifukwa chisindikizo mu pasipoti yanu sichidzakupangitsani kukhala osangalala. Pewani, zovuta zonse zomwe mumapereka pamutu mwathu ndi makolo anu, khalani ndi moyo osangalala!