Amaganiza kuti amatidziŵa
Malo ambiri pa psychology, ndi magazini a amayi wamba amauza amuna zomwe ife tiri. Ndipo chidziwitso ichi timadzipatsa tokha. Kotero kuti anthu amadziwa choti achite ndi ife. Zili ngati malangizo a momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito. Chabwino, mukuona, sitikuphonya nkhaniyi ndi mayina omwe akuphatikizapo "Kodi amuna amakonda chiyani pa kugonana?", "Kodi mungabweretse bwanji ku ofesi yolembera?" Kapena "N'chifukwa chiyani amasintha?". Amuna ndi osiyana, amamvetsera malemba ofananawo pokhapokha ife. Ndipo atatha kuwerenga mwatsatanetsatane pamutu wakuti "Kodi mungasamalire bwanji mkazi?" Iwo amayamba kudziyesa kukhala opambana-maso. Ndizosamalitsa kuona kuti ali osauka, kugwiritsa ntchito njira zawo pa ife, ndikuganiza kuti iwo aphwanya malamulo athu ndipo tsopano ali opambana.
Kotero, tiyeni tiyang'ane zolakwa zazikulu za mzimayi pomvetsetsa ife.
Amayi onse amafuna chinthu chimodzi - kukwatira
Ndipo apa ayi! Msungwana aliyense ndi wovuta paukwati, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti amagwiritsanso ntchito kusankha wosankhidwa. Inde, mtsikanayo atatsimikiza mtima kuti ali wokwatirana, amayamba kuyang'ana mwamuna kapena mkazi wake kuti akhale mwamuna, koma chifukwa chakuti ali ndi nkhawa za ubale weniweni, womwe ndi wofunika kwambiri kuposa sitampu. Musawope kuti mawa m'mawa adzakukoka kukulembetsa kwa anthu okwatirana, mwinamwake simudzaponyera ntchito ya mwamuna wake.
Azimayi ndi osokoneza ndalama omwe amagwiritsa ntchito ndalama zambiri pazinthu zosafunikira
Choyamba, palibe "zinthu zosafunika". Kugula kulikonse kumabweretsa chisangalalo cha mkazi, kaya ndi ntchito yogwedezeka kapena nsalu yotchinga ku khitchini. Amuna ndi othandiza kwambiri pakupeza kwawo, mwazinthu amagula chinthu chatsopano m'malo mwa okalamba, timakonda kukhala ndi ufulu wosankha. Ndicho chifukwa nsapato zisanu ndi zisanu zimathandiza msungwana kuti azidziona kuti ndi wapadera. "Chosowa" chathu chimasandulika kukhala "chiyenera kukhala" ndipo ndibwino kukangana nafe nthawi zina. Ngakhale kuyesera kutembenukira ku lingaliro lodziwikabe ndi lofunikabe, koma osati mwa mawonekedwe achipongwe. Ndiuzeni kuti mu nsapato za suede komanso zovala za buluu, amayi anu amawoneka mozungulira kwambiri kuposa "zigoba" zoopsyazi pamtunda wa tsitsi la masentimita khumi ndi asanu.
Kusamba, kuyeretsa, kuphika - tsogolo la mkazi
Ndikhululukireni, kodi izi ndizolembedwa? Ngati mtsikanayo adakutsutsani m'mawa ndi fungo la khofi ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo adayika malaya anu kuti agwire ntchito, simunangokhala wolimba, koma osadandaula, sizikutanthawuza kuti zimayendetsa ntchito. Ndi njira zamayi zomwe zimasonyeza chidwi chawo. Ndipo, khulupireni ine, sikuti munthu aliyense anali wamanyazi kwambiri. Kotero mmalo monyamula mphuno yanu ndi kuiona mopepuka, mutamandeni mnzanuyo ndipo mumthokoze chifukwa cha chochita chimenecho.
Mkazi wokongola sangakhoze kukhala wanzeru
Chabwino, bwerani, bwerani! Izi zikutanthauza kuti tsopano mkazi wokongola aliyense ayenera kukhala ndi chiphaso ndi iye, kutsimikizira kuti IQ yake ndi yapamwamba kuposa ya monkey? Cholakwika ichi chimakhudzanso mawu akuti "blondes - opusa". Kumvetsetsa, potsiriza, kuti zochitika izi zatha. Mkazi wokongola akhoza kukhala wanzeru kuposa inu, komabe nzeru zake sizimulola kuti asonyeze izo, chifukwa mwamuna ayenera kukhala mtsogoleri, ayenera kupambana mwamuna kapena mkazi wake mwamphamvu ndi m'maganizo mwake, kotero ife, okongola, tiyenera kubisa luso lawo pogwiritsa ntchito wopusa wopusa.
Akazi achikazi
Kodi mumamvetsa chiyani? Inde, mumsamba tonsefe timakhala miseche (ndipo tsopano tcheru!) Ndi miseche. Inde, inde, amuna ngati athu amakonda kumakhala zochitika. Ndipo iwo amauza bwenzi labwino kwambiri za nkhani zatsopano. Amuna okha amangogwiritsa ntchito mfundo, ndipo akazi amawathandiza iwo ndi zowawa zawo. Koma miseche ya abambo imawonetsedwa pokhapokha ngati zinthu zina zofunika pa kugonana kwabwino sizimatero. Koma pamene wokondedwa wabwino akuwoneka pamapeto, kukambirana kwa telefoni za "nsapato zatsopano za Natasha" ndi "Mankhwala oledzeretsa a Mashkin" zimawonekera kumbuyo, chifukwa akufunikira kudzipangira miseche yake ponena za iye mwini, chifukwa chake chingakhale chimodzimodzi.
O Mulungu wanga, iwo amatidziŵa bwino
Tiyeni tiyang'ane nazo, tikukhala pamodzi ndi amuna kwa zaka mazana ambiri, ndipo nthawi ino iyenera kukhala yokwanira kuphunzira chinachakenso. Ndipo palibe cholakwika ndi icho. Chifukwa chake, ndikudandauliranso kwa bwenzi lake: "Iye samandimvetsa," ganizirani mosamala, koma samvetsetsa. Mwinamwake mwamuna wanu amadziwa zambiri za inu kuposa momwe mukuganizira.
Zomwe timachita
Kuti mumudziwe bwino munthu, muyenera kuyang'ana, kuziyang'anira ndi kuziyang'anira, zomwe zimakhala zogwirizana ndi anthu. Timapereka mauthenga okhudzana ndi ntchitoyi, choncho musadabwe pamene m'mawa awiri makapu a shuga amawonekera mu kapu yanu, komanso makonda omwe mumakonda kwambiri pa sauce, omwe simunayankhule mokweza. Ndipo zonse chifukwa mwamuna wanu ali osamala. Ndipo muzimulola kuiwala za tsiku limene mukupsompsonana kwanu, zimachitika kamodzi pachaka, koma amasonyeza chidwi chake pazinthu zing'onozing'ono tsiku lililonse.
Bambo Freud adanena za chirichonse
Munthu aliyense pa nthawiyo akuyesera kuoneka ngati wabwino kuposa momwe alili. Koma ngakhale makhalidwe oipa kwambiri amatha kutuluka, ndipo nkhope yowona imatsegulidwa. Choncho mtsikana wosauka m'banja labwino angakhale wokondedwa wa BDSM, ndipo Klabersha yemwe ndi wovomerezeka kwambiri ndi ntchito yabwino kwambiri yopangira ntchito za Pushkin. Inde, pali amuna omwe sangathe kuwona kuposa mphuno, koma alipo omwe amayang'ana mtsikana kangapo, amawerenge ngati buku lotseguka. Mwa aliyense wa ife, pali katswiri wa zamaganizo yemwe amatha kusanthula khalidwe lodziwika bwino, komanso zobisika. Izi zikutanthauza kuti sanena zambiri zomwe timachita, mofanana ndi zomwe timachita. Ndipo anthu aphunzira kuwonjezera awiri ndi awiri: maso anu, manja, nkhope nkhope akhala akukuuzani za inu, ndipo mochuluka kwambiri kuposa kulankhula kwanu.
Amuna amaphunzitsidwa ndi amayi
Musaiwale kuti ngati kuti munthuyo samadzidalira payekha ndi kudzikonda, mfundo zazikulu zokhudzana ndi moyo, maubwenzi ndi amai zinaikidwa ndi amayi ake. Anali chitsanzo chake chomwe chinasonyeza zomwe duma weniweni ayenera kukhala. Ndipo fano ili lidzamutsata iye, kulamula makhalidwe omwe mkazi wake ayenera kukhala nawo. Ndi kangati atsikanawo anamva za anyamata awo kuti amayi ake amakonzekeretsa borscht zokoma kwambiri, amachotsa nthawi zambiri, mabatani osasunthika osati choncho ... Koma mayiyo ndi chitsanzo chachikulu cha chikazi, chifundo, kukongola ndi mafotokozedwe a kladezemin. Ndipotu, yemwe, ngakhale atauza mwana wake bwanji, chifukwa chiyani Natasha wa 7-B samamuyang'ana, bwanji wophunzira wazaka zoyamba Olenka akukumana ndi munthu wopambana kwambiri, bwanji Daria Sergeevna akuchokera ku bungwe la zachuma akuvomereza kuti amuwona. Inde, ndipo zimachitika! Ndipo izi sizikutanthauza kuti wokhulupirika wanu ndi mwana wa amayi. N'zotheka chifukwa cha kulera kwake pafupi ndi inu, tsopano munthu wabwino. Kuwonera amayi ake kumayanjana ndi mankhusu, momwe angapewere mavuto, momwe angathetsere mavuto ndi kupirira mavuto, momwe amasamalirira okondedwa ake, munthu wam'tsogolo amamvetsetsa ndi kumvetsa amayi. Choncho khalani okonzekera kuti "muzimvetsa" inu, mwamuna wapeza mgwirizano wamphamvu.
Ndipo potsiriza ...
Okondedwa akazi! Khalani omasuka ndi omveka. Mwinamwake amuna ndi lyubyaetzgadyvat akupanduka ndi kufuula pamakona onse omwe akuyang'ana zodabwitsa komanso zozizwitsa, koma amakopeka ndi iwo omwe sakuyesera kubisala iwo okha, omwe angadzitchule okha popanda mantha kuti akhale enieni. Ndipo palinso zinsinsi zambiri zomwe sitikufunikira kudziwa za hafu yakulimba yaumunthu.