Mwakumana kale kale mokwanira ndipo mwaganiza kuti mwakonzeka kuti mutenge nthawi yanu ya tchuthi pamodzi. Koma izi ndi pafupifupi "kukondana"! Ndikufuna kuti zonse zisakumbukike. Koma si zophweka. Kotero, choyamba cholowa tchuthi - ndi mavuto otani? Ndipo apa pali ena ...
Lingaliro lalikulu: kwa masabata awiri onse mudzagona ndi kudzuka pabedi limodzi, idyani patebulo limodzi ndi kukhala limodzi pambali pa basi yowona malo! Kodi ndiyenera kusamalira chani pasadakhale kuti ndisasokoneze tchuthi ndikukhala paubwenzi wabwino?
Vuto 1. Kodi ndani?
Kawirikawiri, atabwerera kuchokera kuulendo, banjali likhoza kukwatira kapena kukwatiwa. Kukhala mu chipinda chodziwika kungathe kuonedwa ngati "sampler" wa moyo wa banja. Zovuta zimakhala zovuta chifukwa chakuti okondedwa omwe amatsatira nthawi yaulere ya masiku okondana amapita kumalo ozungulira nthawi zonse. Ndiye kuti Romeo yanu sidziwa kuteteza ufulu wake ndipo chifukwa chake munayikidwa m'chipinda cha "chic" ndikuona malo omanga.
Miyezi ingapo yapitayo, inu mukhoza kuyendayenda usiku wonse kudutsa mu mzinda, mutagwira manja. Ndipo tsopano wokondedwa wake amakonda kuthamanga tsiku lonse pamphepete mwa nyanja ndipo samachita chilichonse ku zopempha zanu kuti ayende kuzungulira mzindawo.
Kuti mupewe kusamvetsetsana koteroko ndi kuchepetsa chiwerengero cha zifukwa zokangana, kambiranani ndi mnyamata pasadakhale zomwe mungachite pa tchuthi.
Ngakhale kuti mumagwiritsa ntchito maphwando anu pamodzi, musamafulumire kupempha ndi wokondedwa pa mphindi yokonzedweratu kachitidwe ka chikhalidwe, kapena kutsata zilakolako zake zonse kuti zisawononge zofuna zawo. Palibe choopsa chomwe chidzachitike ngati mutakhala maola angapo pa tsiku padera.
Vuto 2. Mu nkhani.
Ngati chibwenzicho chisanapereke ngongole, musayese nkhawa zanu. Phatikizani ndalama mu bajeti yonse kuti mupewe zochitika zomwe aliyense wa inu ayenera kulipirako podutsa kupita kumalo osungirako zinthu. Gwirizanitsani ndi kuchuluka kwa ndalama zomwe mukukonzekera kuzidya, zosangalatsa ndi zoyendetsa.
Ngakhale kuti "ndalama zothandizira", chifukwa cha chitetezo, ndi bwino kusunga ndalama m'malo osiyanasiyana, osati kukhala mu thumba limodzi. Ndikofunika kukhala ndi ndalama pa ndalama za thumba. Simukufuna kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama pazochitika za achibale ndi anzanu a mnyamata. Ngakhale, iyi ndi bizinesi yanu.
Vuto 3. Chur, ine ndiri pa khoma!
Pali bedi lachiwiri limene muli nalo: potsiriza mudzakhala nokha! Mwinamwake, mutalandira ufulu wa thupi lanu, wokondedwa wanu adzakupatsani kuti mutseke m'chipindamo mpaka mapeto anu atchuthi. Kapena, mosiyana, pozindikira kuti nthawizonse mumakhalako, mumakonda usiku wa mpira wokondwerera pa TV. Mu masabata awiriwa mudzaphunzira zilakolako zake zenizeni zogonana.
Bedi wamba sikuti ndi chibwenzi chokha, komanso maloto. Usikuwo sunasandulike mpikisano wokoka bulangeti, musadziikire nokha kuti mugone kugona. Mulole aliyense apangeko theka la bedi momwe amachitira. M'maŵa, musadandaule za kuponyedwa kwa wokondedwa wanu. Mundikhulupirire ine, nayenso ali ndi chinachake choti anene.
NGATI TIDZATHANDIZA ...
• Pano pali nkhani: pa tchuthi, bwenzi la msilikali wanu ndi chibwenzi chake adakuphatikizani. Musati mudandaule: sangakulepheretseni kukhala nokha. Gwiritsani ntchito mpata wokondweretsa abwenzi ake: tembenulani chithumwa! Lolani chibwenzicho kuona kuti ndi bwino kukhala mabwenzi ndi mabanja!
• Ngati mwakangana ndi zokoma, musachedwe kukadandaula kwa anzanu za izo. Ndibwino kuti mumvetsetse kuti mukuganiza kuti ndizovuta kwambiri. Zomwe mukukambiranazi zidziwike kwa wokondedwa wanu. Phunzirani kuthetsa mavuto nokha, popanda kulowetsa ena. Malangizo awa ndi oyenerera osati pa nthawi ya maholide, komanso m'moyo wamtsogolo.