Zomwe zimachitika nthawi yaitali ndikufufuza mosatsimikizirika zimatsimikizira: inde! Zolinga zina ndi katundu wa khalidwe ndi, ndithudi, zimabadwa mwa ife. Koma m'moyo wawo wonse amasintha, zatsopano zimapezeka, kusintha nkhope. Choncho, kusakhutira nthawi zonse kumachepetsa pakamwa pamilomo, kuumitsa kumapangitsa kuti nsagwada ikhale yokhala ndi chibwano, chiwonongeko chimakweza pamphuno. Kodi mungaphunzire chiyani za munthu mwa kuphunzira mosamala nkhope yake?
Maso
"Mirror ya moyo" - sizowona kuti mawuwa amagwiritsidwa ntchito pokamba za maso! Amatha kulankhula za interlocutor mochuluka kuposa nthawi zina iye mwini.
- Maso aakulu. Amakhulupirira kuti anthu omwe ali ndi maso akuluakulu, ndi maso, amisiri, amodzi, ndikuchita mofulumira. Komabe, amangofuna kuganiza mozama komanso olesi.
- Maso ang'ono ali odzikhutira okha, koma amakhala otsekedwa ndi osamvera, osakonzeka kuika maganizo awo kwa ena. Nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nsanje kwambiri.
- Maso akumaso amayankhula za kuwoneratu kwa munthu ndi malingaliro opambana kwambiri. Makhalidwe oterewa, monga lamulo, anthu ali opanga komanso oyenerera.
- Maso otsekemera - kudzipereka, tcherani tsatanetsatane. Koma pa nthawi yomweyi ponena za kupweteka komanso komanso ndi khalidwe louma.
- Kuyang'ana kwa maso kumtunda kumasonyeza munthu wokhala ndi chiyembekezo, kupsya mtima komanso moyo wachimwemwe.
- Kuwongolera kwa maso pansi ndiko kumvetsetsa ndi kupeĊµa mavuto asanachitike.
- Ngati mkati ndi kunja kwa maso muli pafupi mzere umodzi wa malingaliro - musanayambe munthu wodzikuza ndi wosamvera, yemwe amadziwa zomwe akufuna kumoyo ndikukwaniritsira zolinga zake.
- Maso akuyambira ndi chizindikiro cha chidwi ndi chikhumbo chochita nawo miyoyo ya ena.
- Kufesedwa mozama-za kusunga, kuchenjeza ndi kuletsa.
Mosiyana ndi zomwe anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, kukhala ndi nthawi yaitali sikutanthauza "chidwi." M'malo mwake, ndi chizindikiro cha conservatism. Koma ngati mphuno yayitali kwambiri ndi yayikulu, pali umunthu wofotokozedwa momveka bwino kapenanso ... wongopeka kwambiri.
- Mphuno yochepa imanena kuti mwini wake ali ndi maganizo omasuka, amagwira ntchito mwakhama komanso amasangalala. Anthu oterewa amakonda kupeza chilichonse chatsopano komanso chosadziwika, zinsinsi ndi zolemba zawo.
- Mphuno yayikulu ndi ya atsogoleri, umunthu wamatsenga, kuyesetsa kulamulira anthu oyandikana nawo.
- Anthu osowa mtendere amatha kusonkhana mokondwera, amakhala ndi maganizo komanso mphamvu.
- Mphuno yamphongo ndi chimbudzi - chizindikiro cha kunyada, kukakamira komanso kudzikweza. Zambiri zimatchedwa hump, anthu osasangalatsa.
- Kutalika pamunsi pa mphuno kungasonyeze chikhumbo chosamalira ndi kuthandizira ena.
- Osavuta, ngati kuti athamangitsidwa kumayambiriro, akudziimira okha ndipo sakufuna kulandira chithandizo. Mphuno ya mphuno, ikukwera, imayankhula za impetuosity ndi kukhudzidwa kwa munthu. Ngati mphuno imalowedwanso - pafupi ndi chidwi ndi kudzikuza. Kuwerama pansi - munthu safuna kukhulupilira ena, amakayikira, amadzikweza komanso amachiritsidwa - wodzikonda ndi wodzikweza. Mphuno zing'onozing'ono zimanena mwakhama, khalidwe lofatsa ndi lachidakwa, lalikulu kwambiri - za kusankha ndi kupatsa. Ngati mapiko a munthu ali okwanira mokwanira, ndiye kuti tinganene kuti nthawi zambiri amadziona kuti ndi wodalirika, pali zoipa komanso osakayikira.
Mu mawonekedwe, kukula ndi malo a makutu, nawonso, wina akhoza kuphunzira chinachake ponena za munthu.
Nkhutu zazikulu - chizindikiro cha kukhalapo kwa luso loimba komanso kukumbukira bwino. Anthu omwe ali ndi makutu amenewa nthawi zambiri amalephera, koma abwino.
Makutu aang'ono. Okhala ndi makutu ang'onoang'ono samakonda miseche ndipo amadzidalira okha, ali odziimira komanso ogwira ntchito kuti apambane, kawirikawiri amayenera kugwira ntchito mwakhama.
Makutu okwezeka kwambiri ndi chizindikiro cha nzeru zakuya. Zochepa - kuchepa komanso kumvetsera uthenga watsopano. Chilolezo, monga lamulo, ali ouma khosi, opatsidwa chidziwitso chabwino kwambiri ndipo amayamba kudzifufuza.
Makutu, mawonekedwe ochepa, amasonyeza kuti munthu amatha kumvetsa zonse pa ntchentche.
Mlomo
Monga maso, kamwa imatengedwa ngati mbali imodzi yokongola kwambiri ya nkhope. Potsanzira zokongola zonse za pa TV, atsikana ambiri amachitira zosiyanasiyana m'njira zambiri. Ndipo zonse chifukwa chakuti mawonekedwe owala a milomo amakhala ogwirizana ndi kudzidalira ndi kugonana. Ndili ndi anthu oterewa komanso osasunthika: otseguka, okondwa, amadziwa kusangalala ndi moyo. Ulibe udindo uliwonse, palibe chilango chochokera kwa iwo simungathe kuyembekezera.
Anthu omwe ali ndi milomo yopyapyala, ngakhale ali ochezeka komanso ochezeka, akhoza "chonde" osati zinthu zabwino: chinyengo, chinsinsi, chinyengo. Kodi muli ndi kamwa kakang'ono? Kotero, iye ndi wolengeza, wochenjera, mfulu, kumangodziwa kuti munthu winayo ali pafupi, koma nthawi zonse amadzikonda kwambiri.
Milomo ya convex, ngati kuti ikulendewera pachimake, imakhala ndi khalidwe lachidziwitso, lachangu komanso lodziwika bwino.
Mlomo wapamwamba ukukwera pamwamba pa m'munsi - mwiniwake wa milomo yoteroyo ndi yopanda pake, amakonda kukhala pakati pa anthu onse, koma panthawi yomweyi ndi osakayikira, akuwopa kusuntha kolakwika.
Mlomo wapansi, wapamwamba kwambiri - munthu ndi wamphamvu, sangakhale pansi, amakonda kupanga zinthu zowzungulira, nthawi yomweyo amamvetsera ndipo samanyalanyaza mavuto ena.
Mimicry of lips
Malingana ndi kufanana kwa milomo yake, munthu amatha kuwerenga mozama mtima wa interlocutor kuti adziwe m'mene amachitira iwe ndi momwe akumvera.
- Milomo yovutitsa - mkwiyo, chisoni, ukali, chidani, kusakhuta, chisoni. Milomo yothyoledwa, yofewa ya chingwe choonda ndi mkwiyo wopanda mphamvu.
- Milomo yotambasulidwa ndiwonetseratu chidani.
- Kusokonezeka pakamwa pakalankhulana ndi interlocutor - munthu akukhalanso wopanda chikondi, ngakhale sichikusonyeza izi mwachinsinsi.
- Pakamwa pangoyesedwa ponseponse - chizindikiro cha kunyansidwa.
- Ngati pakamwa pakunyoza ndi kumanjenjemera, ndiye kuti imachenjeza za mantha ndi kuwonjezereka kwa interlocutor.
- Makona a pakamwa amayang'ana pansi - chikhalidwe cha kusungunuka, chisoni, chisoni.
- Makona a pakamwa amakhala omasuka ndi otsika pansi - munthuyo ali ndi mtima wokhumudwa.
- Makona a pakamwa amakhala ovuta kwambiri ndipo amayang'anitsitsa pansi - munthuyo amakhala wosasangalatsa, ali wonyansa, wonyodola, wonyansa, wakuda.