Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalingalira kuti mantha akukhala okonzeka kwa munthu psyche. Koma amagawanitsa, kunena za sayansi, "malingaliro oopsa," ndi chilakolako choyipa.
Ngati katundu woyamba wa munthu ndi wabwino chabe - popeza umapereka chisamaliro choyenera mmenemo, ndiye chinthu chachiwiri ndi chachitatu chimakhala chovuta kwambiri: chirichonse chimadalira kukula kwa kupotoka.
Payekha, kukhalapo kwa phobia munthu sikukutanthauza kuti munthu uyu nthawi zonse amadutsa ndi kulikonse. Lolani kuti muwope kuwuluka pa ndege, koma molimba mtima mutengere udindo pamene ena amanyazi. Simukuzikonda nokha kuchokera ku kuwala komwe kumbuyo kwanu, koma pamapiri otsetsereka mumapiri. Malo ofooka a psyche amalipidwa ndi mbali yamphamvu ya khalidwe - izi ndizozolowezi. Mafupa ena amachotsedweratu ndi odwala maganizo. Koma ngakhale odziwa bwino maganizowa amalephera kuona kuti ndi anthu angati, makamaka achinyamata, omwe amawoneka posachedwapa, akuvutika ndi mantha awo, omwe amatha kukhala ndi maganizo olakwika. Ndipo pali zifukwa zomveka za izi.
Dziko lamakono liri lodzaza ndi mikangano ndi kutsutsana, padziko lonse lapansi. Sikuti banja lililonse limasungira chisangalalo komanso kugwirizana. Ndipo si aliyense amene angakwanitse kulipira wodwalayo. Kotero palibe njira yowonjezera bwino kusiyana ndi kuchoka mu msewu wa mantha kuti mukhale ndi maganizo. Choyamba, yang'anani kumene vuto liri, ndi kumene kumverera kwanu kuli.
Kawirikawiri, ife paliponse timawona ena akutsutsa - ndipo ifeyo timayamba kuwoneka ngati tikulephera, olumala, osakhoza kuthetsa vutoli. Tili ndi mantha, timakangana, kapena timagonjetsedwa ndi nkhanza - njira yodziwika kwambiri yotetezera yathu "I". Koma ngati, mogwirizana ndi pangano lodziwika bwino la munthu wanzeru, timayamba kulandira modekha zomwe sitingasinthe, zomwe zimapangitsa ena kukhala osachepera. Pamagazi otetezedwa, simungamwe kumwa magazi: monga mukudziwa, amampires amakonda zinthu zotentha. Ndi kupusa kuzindikira kuopa kwako ngati galasi la moyo wako. Ngati galasi, yanyengerera kwathunthu.
Ndipo kusinkhasinkha mmenemo ndi caricatured. Muzimusangalatsa ndipo muiwale kwamuyaya. Ndikulenga galasi lina limene inu, mosasamala kanthu za zofooka zanu zazing'ono (monga opanda iwo?), Yang'anani zosangalatsa komanso zosangalatsa.
Musayese kuthetsa mantha anu ndi chiyembekezo chopangira - ndichabechabe! Palibe malo pa dziko lapansi pamene chirichonse chikanakhala changwiro, aliyense amangovala zovala zoyera, ndipo obwera atsopano anasinthidwa kwaulere ndi magalasi akuda kwa pinki.
Sinthani kusokonezeka kwanu, kudziyika nokha. Ndipo mudzawona kuti zolephera zanu zilibe phindu poyerekeza ndi zoyenera. Munthu aliyense ndi gawo la ntchito, ndipo inunso muli! Inu mukudziwa chinachake, inu mukudziwa chinthu chabwinoko kuposa ena. Kaŵirikaŵiri, adadzitamandira chifukwa cha izi. (Mvetserani, ndipo mwinamwake ena ali oyenera "kusinthira" uku mu ubale wanu kwa iwo, motsimikiza.) Awapatseni mwayi woti adziwonetse okha zabwino, ndipo mudzakhala ndi ofuna bwino kwambiri.) Nthawi zambiri zofooka zathu ndi mantha ndi chikhumbo chosadziŵa kuti tigwere mu ubwana woyambirira , pamene chitetezero ndi chisamaliro zidadalira pa ife mwa tanthawuzo, basi pa zomwe ife tiri. Chabwino ... Ali mwana ngati mwana! Fotokozani kwa mwana kuti dziko lopanda zitseko za ana a sukulu ndi lovuta, zonse ziripo, koma palinso zambiri, koma muyenera kuyesera, ndipo inu, mutakula, mudzamuthandizira nthawi zonse "mwana", fotokozani chomwe chiri . Nthawi zina munthu alibe mphamvu zotsutsa, choncho amakhala wodandaula kwambiri. Njira yabwino yotulutsa mphamvu - madzi wamba. Sizongopanda kanthu kuti chinthu choyamba chimene anthu amapereka ku state presyncopal ndi kapu yamadzi. Imwani madzi ambiri amchere, sungani madzi ambiri, ngati n'kotheka, kusambira.
Ndipo kuwonanso kwina: mantha ndiwonso mtundu wa chowoneka chowoneka, chifukwa chothandizira kutaya mtima. Mwinamwake mfundo yonse ndi yakuti mu moyo wanu mulibe zochitika zokwanira? Dzifunseni nokha ntchito yosangalatsa, nthawi zambiri kukhala pakati pa anthu abwino, kuyenda. Pezani diary ndi kulemba zochitika zanu zonse, onetsetsani zonse zomwe zakukhudzani kapena zakukhudzani mwanjira yabwino (ndipo palibe chifukwa chochitira manyazi)! Kuthandiza anthu ena ndi njira yabwino yodzidzimvera nokha ndikuganiziranso malingaliro anu omwe vuto lalikulu ndilo tsoka lenileni. Khulupirirani ine: pali anthu ambiri omwe ali oipitsitsa kusiyana ndi inu, ndipo palibe, gwiritsani ... popanda ziwonongeko ndi zovuta. Momwemo, mantha ndi nkhawa zathu zambiri si njovu ndi njati, koma ntchentche ndi udzudzu, zoipa ndi zovuta. Kuti muwachotse iwo kosatha sizingatheke kwa aliyense. Koma chifukwa cha zida zazing'ono izi, kuti asokoneze zaka zawo zabwino? Iwo sadzadikira!