Kalendala ya Kummawa, chaka cha tambala: 1945, 1957, 1969, 1981, 1993, 2005, ndi zina
Kumalendala kummawa, anthu omwe anabadwa m'chaka cha tambala adanenapo zaukali, kutsekemera, kunena zoona. Kawirikawiri pofotokoza mmene amamvera, tambala sakusankha mawu, omwe amakhumudwitsa kwambiri anthu. Tambala ndi wolongolola ndi wodzikonda, nthawi zonse amanena zomwe akuganiza. Amakonda kutsutsana, zokambirana ndi otsutsa, kuphatikizapo thupi. Polimbana ndi malingaliro ake, iye akhoza ngakhale kumenya nkhondo ndi mdaniyo. Ndipo tambala sagonjetsa mdani wake, saganizira momwe akumvera ndi zofuna zake. Ndi zizindikiro zapamwambazi, tambala sangathe kukhala nthumwi yabwino.
Tambalayo amawonetsa maonekedwe ake, zovala zake. Amakonda kumuyang'ana ndi kudabwa kapena kuyamikira. Tambala amafuna kudabwa komanso kudabwa.
Malinga ndi chikhalidwe cha khalidweli, tambala, mozizwitsa momwe angawonekere, ndiwongolera. Sankakonda kugwiritsa ntchito munthu aliyense, ngakhale anthu omwe anali pafupi kwambiri. Tambala sakadalira aliyense, nthawi zonse amawerengera mphamvu zake zokha.
Tambala amakonda kupereka uphungu, pamene akufotokozera bwino lomwe nkhaniyi, malangizo ake ndi othandiza komanso oyenera.
Tambala akhoza kuonedwa ngati wolota. Yadzaza ndi mapulani ndi mapulogalamu akuluakulu, ambiri omwe sangatheke. Maloto ake nthawi zambiri amakhala opanda nzeru komanso opanda pake. Akulota, amadziwonetsa yekha ngati wolimbitsa thupi, wochita masewero, wopulumutsa, wandale, ndipo amalota pokhapokha kunyumba, pamalo osasuka, osasangalatsa, kumene palibe amene angamuyese. Tambala ali ndi filosofi ya dziko lapansi, iye amakonda kusintha ndi kupanga.
Tambala sikuti ali wamantha, amasiyanitsa ndi kulimba mtima, kupirira. Kawirikawiri tambala akhoza kuika moyo wake pangozi, koma amatero popanda mantha, "ndi kumwetulira pamilomo yake." Mu kuya kwa moyo, tambala ndi wankhondo. Tsoka ilo, tambala amakonda kudzikuza, makamaka pokambirana ndi amuna kapena akazi okhaokha. Nthawi zonse amafotokoza zinthu zowala kuposa zomwe zimachitika, amazikongoletsa ndi zizindikiro zake, amadziwonetsera yekha kuti alibe makhalidwe. Choncho, pogwirizana kwambiri, tambala amatha kukhumudwitsa wosankhidwayo.
Tambala akhoza kukhala waulesi, ngakhale kuti pamafunika kugwira ntchito mwachidwi. Chokhumudwitsa chake ndi chakuti amatsitsimutsa mphamvu zake ndikuchita ntchito zomwe sizingatheke kwa iye. Ngati chinachake sichili bwino kwa iye, tambala amakwiya kwambiri.
Kuti ukhale wolemera, tambala ayenera kugwira ntchito mwakhama ndi "mulomo". Sadzawonanso ndalama "zosavuta" pamoyo wake, ndipo zonsezi zimapeza zake. Koma tambala amatha kukhala wolemera ngati ayamba kugwira ntchito ndi chipiriro. Tambala adzatha kupeza nyongolotsi, ngakhale m'chipululu - choncho anena Vietnamese. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, tambala adzatha kupeza ndalama ngakhale pa bizinesi yopanda phindu.
Ngati tambala sangathe kupirira luso lake lopanda pake komanso lopanda pake, ndiye kuti likhoza kuchoka pamtengo wapampando, amene adzathamangire kuduka kwa zinyalala ndikudodometsa chidwi cha ena.
Goo amafunika kusankha ntchito yomwe angayankhe pamaso pa anthu. Tambala nthawi zambiri amathera ndalama zambiri, ndiye spender, kotero moyo wonse wa tambala umawonetsedwa ku ngozi. Angathe ngakhale kuwonongeka, kuwonongeka, akufunikira kuphunzira momwe angapulumutsire.
Mwachikondi, tambala ayenera kugonjetsa chinthu cha chilakolako chake kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipo pokhala wopambana, ayenera kusunga wosankhidwa wake, chifukwa tambala nthawi zambiri amakhumudwitsa anthu mwa iwo okha. Ku kalendala ya kummawa, abambo amphongo amakoka akazi, amakonda dziko la amai, pakati pawo amawala komanso amawala. Amakonda kusamalira, kupereka mphatso. Koma ndi maubwenzi apamtima, ali ndi mavuto ndi akazi, popeza kukongola kwake ndi chigoba chokha.
Tambala aakazi amasankha akazi, amuna amawoneka osasangalatsa kwa iye.
Monga bwenzi lomanga nalo banja, tambala ndi wabwino kwambiri osankhidwa ndi ng'ombe, popeza ng'ombe ndi banja labwino kwambiri. Tambala akhoza kupeza mutu wamba ndi njoka, iwo adzakondwera limodzi, njoka idzaphunzitsa tambala la nzeru. Chinjoka, ngati palibe wina, chingathe kukwanitsa tambala mu mapulani onse. Nkhuku iyenera kupewa kugonana ndi mphaka, mphakayo imadana ndi anthu omwe ali ndi tambala.
Pakati pa magawo atatu onse a moyo wa tambala, kutuluka kwakukulu ndi kugwa kwachangu kumayandikira. Kwenikweni ndizo zokhudza ndalama ndikumverera. Moyo umalola kuti tambala amve maganizo onse omwe alipo. Koma ukalamba udzabweretsa tambala kukhala wodekha.