Nsanje za abwenzi
Ngati wina akukhumudwitsa zotsatira zanu, ndiye kuti mukhoza kuyang'anitsitsa ndikuwona bwino, kotero kuti zopambana zanu ndizofunikira kwambiri ndipo wina angafune kukhala wopambana monga inu, motero nsanje. Mwinamwake, aliyense wa ife ali ndi bwenzi yemwe, pakuwona madiresi anu atsopano, akudzimeta tsitsi kapena tsitsi, akuyamba kunena kuti iye anali ndi tsitsi lofanana, ndipo iye anapita mozungulira kwambiri ndipo ankamuzungulira iye kokha tsitsi lake ndipo anati . Musakwiyitse mawu awa ndi kuthamanga kukonza tsitsi lanu. Mwachidziwikire, zinanenedwa kuti muli ndi kaduka, kuti musayang'ane pafupi ndi inu mwanzeru komanso wokongola kwambiri komanso apamwamba.
Nsanje ya amayi
Chifukwa cha kaduka komwe mayi amamvera mwana wake wamkazi, zonse zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Amayi anu samakhala achichepere chaka chilichonse, nthawi yomwe anali wamng'ono ndipo akuphuka akupita pang'onopang'ono, koma zikuwoneka kuti sangathe kuvomereza izi. Yesani kusakhumudwitsidwa ndi iye, akhoza kukukhumbitsani inu chimwemwe ndi zabwino, koma nthawi yomweyo amakhalabe mkazi. Ndipo mkazi aliyense akufuna kukhala wabwino ndi wokongola kuposa ena, ngakhale mwana wake wamkazi. Ichi ndi chikhalidwe chathu. Wowonjezera ndi amayi ake, osati mphamvu yake yobweretsera anyamata. Ganizirani kuti tsiku lina mudzakhala m'malo mwake, ndipo simudzakhala mdani wa mwana wanu wamkulu komanso wokongola kwambiri. Komabe, zomwe amayi anu akufuna kuti azikhalabe ndikuwoneka ngati zokongola monga kale ndi zoyenera ulemu. Kotero mwinamwake muyenera kupita kukagula limodzi ndi kusankha chovala chatsopano kwa Amayi? Muloleni iye aziyendetsa ambuye a msinkhu wake wamisala ndi kumanga maso kwa anzanu omwe anabwera kudzakuchezerani inu kuti mukapange tiyi.
Nsanje ya Okondedwa
Ndipo potsiriza, njira yovuta kwambiri: nsanje inadzuka mu mnyamata wanu. Ndipo ichi ndi chifukwa chachikulu choganizira za ubale wanu. N'zotheka kuti tsopano ndi nthawi yovuta kwambiri pamoyo wake, mwinamwake mavuto kuntchito kapena zinthu zina sizingagwiritsidwe ntchito, kapena amakhala ndi maganizo oipa madzulo ano. Mwinamwake iye amakhulupirirabe mwa inu, koma ataya mawu opusa, kwathunthu popanda kuganiza osati ndi zoipa, koma ndi kutopa, mwachitsanzo. Koma ngati izi sizodziwika yekha, ndipo izi zimabwerezedwa nthawi ndi nthawi, ndipo n'zosatheka kulemba makhalidwe otere kuzinthu zina zakunja, ndiye pali njira imodzi yokha - kuthawira popanda kuyang'ana mmbuyo kuchokera kwa kalonga wotere. Palibe chabwino ndi munthu woteroyo mu moyo sangatero.
Malamulo a chitetezo
Ndiye mungachite chiyani kuti mudzipatule nokha ndi kusakwiya ndi wina aliyense? Tiyeni tipange malamulo ena.
- Lamulo loyamba: musalole aliyense kuwononga chikhulupiriro chanu mwa inu nokha. Ndipo onse akuzunguliridwa ndi zomwe akufuna, osamvera malirime, akhale pamwamba pawo. Golden aphorism "Sungani - izo zimakwiyitsa aliyense!" Kodi ndi nthabwala chabe.
- Lamulo lachiwiri: khalani omasuka kwambiri ndi osamala m'mawu, makamaka ndi achibale anu. Inu mukudziwa chomwe mavuto awo ali tsopano. Nthawi zina zimakupindulitsani, kuti musamavulaze maganizo a anthu apamtima. Ndipo pamene mphindi yabwino ibwera, mutha kukuuzani nkhani zosangalatsa komanso zofunikira kwa inu, ndiye zidzakuwoneka mosiyana.
- Lamulo lachitatu: ngati kuyankhulana ndi anthu ena kumakuvutitsani, ndibwino kuti mukhale opanda pake. Ngati ali ndi nsanje pa chifukwa china chilichonse, kuyambira poti mwakwanitsa kufika pa filimuyi ndikumaliza ndi mpikisano mu mpikisano wokongola wa paka wanu, ndiye kuti simukufanana ndi anthu oterewa.
Choncho chinthu chofunika kwambiri ndi kudzidalira ndi mphamvu zanu. Ndipo nsanje ya ena ingangokukakamizani kuti mukwaniritse zogonjetsa zatsopano ndipo palibe yemwe adzakutetezani kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu.