Mwamunayo anafika pamapazi ake ndipo mkazi sankafunika

Mwamuna, monga momwe zinalili kale, ndiye mutu wa banja. Ndi iye amene ali maziko, maziko, makhalidwe abwino ndi zachuma. Ponena za gawo lachiwiri, mkazi wina aliyense wachiwiri amadziwa kuti mwamuna wake sakusangalala ngati akupeza ndalama komanso kubweretsa ndalama zambiri kwa banja kusiyana ndi mwiniwakeyo. Chifukwa chake, mwamuna nthawi zonse amayesetsa kukhala apamwamba kwambiri pankhaniyi, potero kudziwonetsera yekha kuti iye ndi munthu weniweni. Mwinamwake mwawona kamodzi kokha mu moyo wanu wonse wa banja kuti iye anayesa kuti afike pa mapazi ake ndi kuzindikira zolinga zake kuti athandize banja lanu. Ndipo kotero izo zinachitika, mwamuna wanu anakwaniritsa cholinga chake ndipo anakhala wopeza bwino ndalama ndi munthu wodziimira. Koma, pamodzi ndi ndalama, malingaliro osiyana kwambiri pa moyo, kuphatikizapo wekha, anadza kwa iye. Inu, mwachiwonekere mumakhala munthu wochuluka, muukwati wanu ndipo amayesera kukuwonetsani izi mwa njira iliyonse. Nthawi zonse ankanyalanyaza pazinthu zake, kunyoza, ndipo ndithudi, inu, kotero mutangoyandikira kwa wina ndi mzake, mwamphamvu kwambiri ndikukhala kutali. Khalani moyo, ngati anthu awiri ogona pansi pa denga limodzi. Apa pali kwa inu, umboni wakuti ndalama zimawononga anthu, ngakhale kuti zonyansa zawo zimavulaza anthu apafupi. Apa iwo ali - ndalama zosavuta. Inde, izi ndi vuto lalikulu kwa amayi, monga woyang'anira nyumba. Ndipo kuti tithandizire mwanjira inayake, ndikumvetsetsa vutoli, tiyeni tiyese kuyang'anitsitsa momveka bwino pa vuto lovuta ili, dzina limene likumveka ngati chigamulo "mwamuna adakwera - ndipo mkazi sakusowa."

Muzochitika izi, mkaziyo, makamaka, akuwonekera, pokhapokha mwa udindo wa mayi wam'nyumba. Zimadalira ukhondo, chitonthozo ndi dongosolo m'nyumba. Ndipo sipangakhale funso pa izo nkomwe. Kuti mukhoze kukonza ganyu, ngakhale kuti ndizo ndalama. Inu mumangofunikira chinthu chimodzi - chakudya chokoma ndi chokoma chiyenera kukhala chokonzeka nthawi zonse, monga momwe chingathekere panthawi iliyonse. Ndipo kulephera kwa ntchitoyi kwadzaza ndi vuto lina. Koma kodi mkazi sakanakhoza kuchita chiani, kuchokera ku adiresi ya mwamuna wake, iye amamva, kungowonjezereka ndi kunyoza. Kawirikawiri, mwamuna wolemera yemwe wakhala mosakhazikika pamalo ake opindulitsa, amayamba kumuuza mkaziyo malamulo ake. Nthawi zonse amamunyoza ndi kuti amamusunga, pamene amamupatsa ndalama. Iye tsiku ndi tsiku, amatha, kumanzere ndi kumanja bajeti ya banja, ndipo pamaso panu ndi zosowa zanu samangosamala. Mwamuna uyu amamuuza mkazi wake momveka bwino momveka bwino, chifukwa chake ndilo kuletsa kuchita zinthu zosagwirizana. Inu, kalekale, zonse mwaiwalika kale, pamene mwakachetechete komanso opanda mawu, mumalankhula mozama mtima, kugawana nawo mavuto awo, malingaliro ndi chimwemwe. Ndipo mzimayiyo adayamba kukuwonani inu ndikulankhulana nanu pokhapokha ngati ali ndi maganizo kapena kanthu kena kali kofunikira kwa inu. Koma zokambiranazi sizili zofanananso ndi kale, mu liwu la mkazi, tsopano kusamvetsetsana kwathunthu ndi kuzizira kumalamulira. Iye anakhala chete ndipo anali mlendo kwathunthu. Mwamunayo atadzuka - ndipo mkazi sankafunikira, zambiri zasintha ndipo, zowopsya, sizikugwirizana nanu.

Zifukwa za khalidwe ili la mwamuna, zingakhale, mwachitsanzo, iye, ali ndi ambuye. Chimaliziro cha zochitikazi ndizochikhalidwe. Ndipotu, ngati mwamuna ali ndi ndalama, ndiye kuti akhoza kukondwera ndi amayi ena ndipo sizilibe kanthu ngati ali mfulu kapena mwakhama. Apa, sikunatchulidwe ngakhale kuti iye akhoza kungowonongeka ndi mkazi wina. Kotero iye anakhala, akuzizira kwambiri ndipo alibe chidwi kwa iwe.

Chifukwa chachiwiri chikhoza kukhala kusintha kwakukulu kwa dziko lapansi. Atayimilira, tsiku lina, mosaganizira anaganiza za ngati ngati muli ndi iye chifukwa cha mavuto ake azachuma. Wopusa, koma kuwerenga maganizo kwa amuna, mwina sikunabwere. Ndipo malingaliro omwewa, tsiku ndi tsiku, amatsitsimutsa chikumbumtima chake ndipo motero, okwatirana okha kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake. Apa, ndithudi, ntchito yofunikira idasewera ndi kuthamanga kwake mofulumira komanso mofulumira. Ndipo, monga potsiriza, iye akungowopa kutayika chirichonse, kuphatikizapo umbombo ndi chuma, umbombo, uwu si nkhani yachilendo, ngakhale ife.

Chifukwa chachitatu chiri mukutsimikizira kuti iwe ndi wosiyana kwambiri ndi maso ndipo izi zinamukankhira kutali. Iye amakhala ndi ndondomeko yoyenera komanso ndondomeko ya tsiku lililonse. Kusokonezeka maganizo ndi nkhawa zidakhala anzake okhulupirika. Iye, mofanana ndi inu, akusowa chithandizo cha maganizo ndi maganizo, zomwe, motero, sizichokera kwa inu. Mwamuna kapena mkazi wake amamuwona mwamunayo yekhayo yemwe sali wokhoza kutero kuti amuthandize. Chifukwa chaichi, adali ndi maganizo oipa kwa inu. Apa, ndithudi, kulakwa konse kumapita, kokha kuchokera kwa mkazi wake. Pambuyo pake, iye ayenera kukhala mwamuna wake, monga bwenzi, ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo, ngati sakufuna kulipira kusamvetsetsa kwathunthu.

Chifukwa china ndi ntchito yake nthawi zonse ndi ntchito yake ndi ntchito yake. Maganizo ake onse amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi ziwerengero, peresenti, mgwirizano ndi ntchito zina zonse. Ndipo inu mulibe mphamvu kwa iye ndipo, motero, nthawi. Inde, anasintha malingaliro ake, adakhala wamanjenje ndi osakwiya. Poyamba, chirichonse chinali chosiyana - asanabwere mavuto ndi nkhawa zomwe anali nazo. Mwamuna wanu, mophweka, m'mbuyomu, adatsogolera moyo wawo wonse. Uku ndikusintha kwakukulu mu nyengo ya banja ndikugwedeza ubale wanu.

Yesani njira zosiyana zobweretsera zonse kumalo awo, chifukwa zomwe "mwamuna adanyamuka - ndipo mkazi sakusowa" ndi zosasangalatsa kwambiri. Yambani ndi nokha, samalani maonekedwe anu, musinthe fano lanu, kuzipangitsa kukhala zoyenera kulimbitsa chithunzi cha mwamuna wanu. Werengani mabuku ndi zolemba zosiyanasiyana pa kuwerenga maganizo kwa amuna ndipo pambuyo pake, kambiranani momasuka ndi mwamuna wanu. Muwatsimikizire kuti ndinu munthu molimbika mtima komanso molimbika kuyesa kukwera pamsika pa ntchito yanu. Ngati izi sizingatheke, yesetsani kusintha, kuti mupindule kwambiri. Ngati palibe njira imodzi yomwe singagwire ntchito, njira yabwino yothetsera vutoli ndiyo kuchoka kwa mwamuna wanu. Kumbukirani kuti nthawi zina nthawi zina sizingakhale zopindulitsa, kudzipatulira kuti mudzipereke nokha komanso kukhala ndi makhalidwe abwino.