Posachedwa, anthu asintha kwambiri. Kusinthidwa kwenikweni mu chirichonse. Tinayamba kuganiza mosiyana, kumverera mosiyana, kuzindikira kuti dziko lotizungulira, nawonso, lasintha kwambiri. Ife tinayamba ngakhale kuthana wina ndi mzake mosiyana.
Mayi wina wazaka za m'ma 2100 anakhala wamphamvu mwakhama komanso mwamaganizo kuposa munthu. Pazaka zingapo zapitazi, tayamba kuzindikira kuti amayi akuyamba kupanga choyamba pa msonkhano wa amuna. Ife, atsikana, nthawi zambiri timayesetsa kuchita izi kapena izi. Kumbukirani, ndi angati mwa inu omwe munakumana ndi zochitika ngati inu mukuvomereza, ndipo mumapempha wokondedwa wanu zomwe angafune (ndiko kuti, kumvera kumvera chifuniro cha munthu, kusiya zomwe akufuna), amatiyankha chiyani? Kawirikawiri yankho limamveka ngati izi: "Zokonda, monga udzanenera, zidzakhala." Ndipo kotero pafupifupi pafupifupi chirichonse. Kenaka akudandaula za okonda, kuti iwo akuti, msungwana wanga samandilola kupita ndi anthu osauka kuti akhale. Ina, mkazi wake ndi wolimba, amasankha chirichonse kwa iye, ndi zina zotero. ndi zina zotero. Amuna, wokondedwa, inuyo nokha ndiye kuti muli ndi mlandu pa zonsezi, mumapatsa mkazi ufulu wosankha, amasankha, ndipo mumakonda kusankha kwake. Komanso, mumapereka njira yowonjezera nthawi zonse. Ndipo kale popanda kuzindikira, mumadutsa theka lanu, motero, mapeto a boma. Ndipo akazi, nayenso, atatenga udindo wonse wa udindo, ndithudi, adakhala amphamvu ndikukayikira kupanga zosankha ziwiri. Choncho, amayi amadziwanso kuti angathe kulamulira mwamuna, koma bwanji? Chifukwa iye mwiniyo anapereka ufulu woyenera pa iye ... ndipo mofunitsitsa. Kotero, izo zikusonyeza kuti dziko lasintha! Amuna anayamba kusewera ndi amai, komanso amai - udindo wa amuna.
Zaka zaposachedwapa, atsikana ambiri, omwe ali ndi chiyanjano pakati pa abambo, akuluakulu kapena osakhalitsa, adayamba kuzindikira kuti amuna adasiya kutenga zochitika zawo zoyamba komanso zoyamba za amuna. Anakhala opupuluma kwambiri, omwe nthawi zambiri amakhala azimayi. Anayamba kukhala ndi zovuta zamtundu uliwonse, zomwe zimayambanso akazi. Amuna ena amakhalanso ndi gawo (komanso lachikazi), kulingalira vuto lawo, kukhumudwitsidwa, ndi kulakwa theka lachiwiri la chirichonse. Amuna oterewa m'fumbi ndi phulusa amawononga mawu awo omwe amalamulira dziko lapansi. Amuna, ganizirani, ndani akukulamulirani?
Kodi izi zikuchitika ndi ndani?
Inde, sitidzatsutsana, sikuti anthu onse ali choncho, koma pali zambiri zoterezi. Zaka zaposachedwapa, amuna ambiri omwe akusowa zofooka ayamba kudziika okha pansi pa "chidendene chachikazi". Amuna ofooka omwewo, amakopeka ndi amayi olimba osati osati olimba, koma kwa amayi ovuta. Aliyense ayenera kudziwa chithunzicho pamene mkazi akulangizanso mwamuna wake, ndipo mwamuna womvera amatsatira mwatsatanetsatane malangizo. Mwinamwake iyi ndiyo dongosolo la zinthu ndi kukonza zonse ziwiri, koma inu mukuvomereza, chithunzi chonse chikukhumudwitsa.
Pali amuna oterowo amene amafunikira amayi amayi. Ndipo pali akazi omwe amakhutitsidwa ndi mwamuna yemwe amakhala ngati mwana wamwamuna. Amachiphika, amachichotsa, amachotsa, amakhala pansi mwakachetechete, amawonerera TV, amawerenga nyuzipepala, podziwa kuti chirichonse chidzachitidwa ndi "Amayi".
Akazi, ndithudi, ndi osiyana. Mzimayi yekha, pamene azindikira kuti angathe kuthetsa mafunso ambiri awiri, aliyense amachita mosiyana. Ambiri samangodziwa chochita ndi mphamvu zoterozo. Yambani kunena motero ndi kukwiya kwa mafuta, chifukwa chakuti aliyense angathe kusankha, ndipo ndithudi, kudzidalira kumadzuka. Akazi oterewa amaganiza kuti palibe chimene chingachitike popanda iwo, chifukwa ndi okhawo omwe amadziwa kuti, ndikuti ndi ziti zomwe zidzachitike. Palinso akazi omwe amachita mwanzeru, amathamanganso mwamuna, komanso amasankha awiri. Koma iwo amachita izo, kumukakamiza munthuyo kuti aganize kuti iye mwiniyo anabwera ku izi kapena chisankho chimenecho. Amalandiridwa monga filosofi yachigiriki: "mutu wa mutu, khosi la mkazi, kumene khosi limatembenuka, apo ndi mutu umawonekera." Kawirikawiri, mtundu wina wa chisokonezo umachitika, anyamata. Dziko limatembenuka mozungulira. Tiyeni tibwererenso zonse ku magulu.
Kuti izi sizinachitike ...
Pofuna kupewa zovuta zonse ndi kusintha kodabwitsa, muyenera kukhalabe omwe tili.
Akazi - akhalebe akazi, kuwala, airy. Musakweze mau anu-iyo imayankha. Musaganize udindo wa ubale ndi osankhidwa. Ife, amayi ndi amphamvu kwambiri, koma pofuna kuti wokondedwa wathu amve mphamvu, nthawizina wina ayenera kudziyesa wofooka. Vomerezani, mumatopa kwambiri ndikusankha zochita ndikukhazikitsa mavuto ena. Nthawi zina mumangofuna kumasuka komanso kumverera ngati mkazi. Musaganize za chirichonse ndipo musasankhe chilichonse.
Amuna, khalani amuna. Khalani olimba mtima, ndipo chitani zochita zanu zachimuna, chifukwa ife, akazi, tilibe kusowa. Sankhani zochita. Valani akazi, chikondi ndi kuwateteza. Tengani masitepe oyamba kwa ife, ngakhale mukuwopa, chitani chomwecho. Ndikhulupirire, timayamikira.