Tsopano ndizabwino kwambiri kukhala munthu woulenga. Aliyense amene akufuna kupeza ntchito yodalirika ayenera kutsimikizira mzerewu pamene ayambiranso. Komanso, chilengedwe sichifunika kokha kuntchito, koma panyumba mumoyo wamba tsiku ndi tsiku, chifukwa chimakuthandizani kuthetsa mavuto ambiri popanda khama. Tiyeni tikulitse chilengedwe!
Atsikana ambiri amalota za ntchito ya wokonzekera maholide a ana, koma amapereka pang'ono kusukulu. Kuti akope chidwi, wina akhoza kufunsa mafunso mwadongosolo, mwachitsanzo, musabwere naye pa suti, koma mu suti ya munthu wina, ndiye kuyankhulana, m'nkhani yochititsa chidwi. Kampaniyo idzakutengerani!
Anthu awa amalenga mu miyoyo yawo. "Chilengedwe" amatembenuzidwa kuchokera ku Chilatini, monga "chirengedwe", "kulenga kuchokera kuchabechabe." Komabe, tanthawuzo limene mumayika pachilengedwe lingakhale losiyana kwambiri. Kumbali imodzi, kulenga ndi luso loganiza ndi kulenga, ndipo, kwina, kukwanitsa kuthetsa ntchito zodabwitsa.
Mwachitsanzo, kupeza njira yokakamizira mwana kuchita zomwe sakufuna kwenikweni, kukopa katundu wake kwa makasitomala pogwiritsa ntchito malonda osadziwika kapena kapangidwe koyambirira. N'chifukwa chiyani timapanga luso? Poyamba, zidzakhala zokondweretsa komanso zosangalatsa kukhala ndi moyo, komanso zowoneka bwino ndi mwayi wotseguka, mwachitsanzo, ntchito yatsopano yosangalatsa.
Masewera
Anthu opanga ali ndi ulemu wosaneneka, amakhala ndi zothetsera nzeru zedi, amadziwa kupanga. Zochita zamalonda zimaganiziridwa kuti ndizo ntchito: wolembapo, wojambula, wojambula, wojambula, wotsatsa malonda wogwira ntchito, wojambula, wolemba nkhani, wolemba, wolemba, "PR munthu" ndi ena ambiri. Komabe, izi siziri malire, mukhoza kukhala mayi wamkazi ndikuwonetsa zokhazokha. Mofananamo, njira ina mozungulira: dokotala amayesa kupeza chifukwa china cha matendawa ndi kusankha momwe angachiritse, aphunzitsi amapanga njira zatsopano zophunzitsira, wolemba mapulogalamu amalemba pulogalamu yatsopano ndi zina zotero. Moyo wa anthu oterowo ndi wodabwitsa, wokondweretsa, ndipo ntchito ya ogwira ntchitoyi imaperekedwa bwino, ngati, ndithudi, mukulimbikira ndipo zinthu ziri bwino. Kwa anthu olenga, akuluakulu a boma amakhululukira zambiri: kusakhazikika, kusalekerera, mawonekedwe osamvetsetseka, kusokonezeka patebulo, kusokonezeka maganizo, kusokonekera - amadziwa kuti ntchitoyo idzachitika.
Komabe, ngati mukupanga - sizitanthauza kuti simuli bungwe. Ngati munabadwira munthu woganiza bwino ndipo ngati mukukakamizidwa, ndiye kuti mu moyo mudzapeza bwino. Komabe, pali mbali zolakwika ...
Sinthani kusinthika
Zoonadi, mumavomereza kuti makamaka moyo wa anthu olenga ndi wovuta kwambiri. Iwo amakhala okhumudwa, amalingaliro, omvera ndipo nthawi zambiri amakumana ndi mikangano ya mkati. Ichi ndi mbali yolakwika ya kulenga.
Ndipotu, mukamawona njira zoposa imodzi, ndipo ena khumi, zimakhala zovuta kusankha, pali nkhawa. Kuwonjezera apo, anthu opanga, monga lamulo, amagwira ntchito mozama, ndipo mphamvu ikatha, kusayera kumabwera m'malo mwake. Kukonzekera kumachititsa kuti thupi ndi maganizo awonongeke, motero, pambuyo pa zochitika zimenezi munthu ayenera kupumula nthawi zonse. Koma moyo wamakono umakana kukana izi. Gawo lofooka kwambiri la anthu olenga ndi luso lopulumutsa mphamvu ndi ndondomeko. Kotero, iwo atha msinkhu kwambiri, zovuta, zojambula zobwereza ndi zovuta zikubwera ... Ndizosatheka kwathunthu kuthawa izi. N'zosatheka kubereka malingaliro atsopano ndipo nthawi yomweyo kukhala osangalala. Koma pali njira yotulukira, ngakhale iye, mwatsoka, ndi mmodzi - nthawizonse amayang'ana magwero atsopano a kudzoza!
Zimatha!
Munthu wolenga sali wobadwa, koma amakhala. Izi zimatsimikiziridwa ndi kuchuluka kwa kafukufuku komwe kunkachitika m'mayiko osiyanasiyana padziko lapansi. Si umoyo umene umakhudza chitukuko chosachita zinthu ndi luso, koma chilengedwe chimene mumakhala, chilengedwe chimene munthu amakulira. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti ngati mwana wapatsidwa malovnimaniya, sagonjetsa khalidwe lake ndikupanga mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya zosagwirizana, ndiye akhoza kukhala wopanga. Ndikofunika kwambiri kuti mayi kapena abambo atengedwe ndi kulimbikitsa kuganiza kosadziwika. Akatswiri amanena kuti chilengedwe ndi chibadwa mwa munthu aliyense, zikhalidwe zake zimazimitsa ndi kuziletsa. Choncho, pokhala wamkulu, kuti ndikhazikitse chidziwitso ndikumasula zolinga zanga. Ngati mukumva kuti zowoneka bwino, ndiye kuti pali njira zingapo zothandizira kuti mukhale ndi mbali imeneyi.
Tiyeni timasule zolinga zathu!
Kukulitsa luso kumalo oyamba, lidzakulitsa malingaliro ndi zovuta. Pitani ku museums, malo owonetserako masewera, muwerenge mabuku atsopano, penyani mafilimu atsopano ndi ofunika kwambiri-kuyankhulana ndi anthu osiyanasiyana, izi zidzakuchititsani kuyang'ana pa dziko ndi maso ena. Nthawi zonse muzidziwana ndi anthu atsopano, alankhulani ndi anthu, musayimilire, yang'anani zosangalatsa ndi ntchito zatsopano! Tsiku lililonse muyenera kupeza malingaliro atsopano - izi ndizowonjezera zowonjezerapo kuti zitheke komanso zogwiritsa ntchito.
Ngati simukudziwa choti muchite ndi kumene mungayambe, yesani zotsatirazi:
- Yesetsani kusonyeza mwano ndi chiweruzo kwa iwo omwe sakhulupirira maganizo anu. Tangoganizani, chifukwa chake anthu amanena ndi kuchita monga choncho, ndi zifukwa ziti izi.
- Werengani bukhuli, playballball, fufuzani zomwe amuna amakonda masewera a mpira, funsani mlongo wanu wamng'ono zomwe akufuna, nyimbo yamtundu umene amamukonda, pitani ku barani ya Japan ndi kuyang'ana filimu ya Mexico.
- Zowonjezeranso kuti muwonetsetse anthu, kuyerekeza, kumverera, kukhala ndi chidwi mwa iwo.
- Musatenge lingaliro loyamba limene limabwera mumutu mwanu. Musakhale pa malo a anthu ena.
- Onetsani zosangalatsa nthawi zina pamene palibe chifukwa chapadera - kutsutsa, kunyalanyaza ndi mawu osangalatsa.
- Werenganinso nkhani ya anthu a ku Russia, ndipo mukawawerenganso, gwiritsani nkhani za anthu ena. Kumeneko, mudzapeza tanthauzo lobisika, mwinamwake mudzaphunzira chinachake chatsopano kwa inu nokha.
- Sungani.
- Musawope kukhala ndi udindo wogwira ntchito, ndondomeko, malingaliro, moyo wanu, musamamveke pamaso pa maganizo a anthu ovomerezeka - mwinamwake iwo akulakwitsa.
- Fufuzani malo ndi malo omwe mungapindule nawo. Konzani alloy, kulima nsomba, zomangira zingwe, zomangaza ndi mtanda kapena zosalala, ndevu ...
Njira zonse zophweka zidzakuthandizani kuona zinthu zachilendo muzinthu zowoneka, ndikupatsani mwayi kuthetsa ntchito zoyambirira za tsiku ndi tsiku. Musaope kupereka malingaliro anu opusa. Osamamatira pa zomwe aliyense amachita, khalani ndi malingaliro, musati mulole, koma mukuganiza. Mumasankha momwe mungakhalire ndi kugwira ntchito!
Zochita zitatu
Zochita izi zidzakuthandizani kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro, kuwunika, kulingalira za kugwirizana, malingaliro ndi kuthekera mwangwiro kulenga.
Chitani nambala 1. Sherlock Holmes.
Onetsetsani anthu omwe mumawaona (woyandikana nawo pa bar, woyenda mnzako), yesetsani kumvetsetsa kuti munthuyo ndi ndani, banja lake ndi chiyani, zomwe amamukonda, yemwe amagwira ntchito. Samalani kwambiri pa zokambirana zake ndi kayendedwe kake. Ndipo kumatsimikizira kuti mukuganiza kuti, chifukwa chiyani munaganiza choncho.
Chitani nambala 2. Msonkhano.
Mawu osamvetsetseka omwe simugwiritsa ntchito pazokambirana, mwachitsanzo, ndi "carbine." Taganizirani za mayanjano omwe amachititsa? Ndipo tsopano pumulani, kumasula malingaliro anu ndi kukhazikitsa mndandanda wa mayanjano: "carbine - chovala cha okwera phiri - mapiri okwera - tchuthi - mphatso yochokera kumudzi wamadzi - mnzanga amene ndinamupatsa chikumbutso - thumba limene tinagula palimodzi - chodyera chimene ndinatenga chikwamachi - chakudya chosazolowereka cha eggplant wamba - agogo aakazi a dacha-agogo ndi agogo awo "... Bweretsani zonse zanu Impso yomwe inakutsogolerani kuchokera ku carbine kupita kwa agogo ndi agogo ake. Zidzakhala zovuta pang'ono, koma zothandiza komanso zosangalatsa.
Chitani nambala 3. Mawu.
Pali mau angapo omwe samagwirana wina ndi mnzake, mwachitsanzo: "Maluwa, simulator, mchenga". Tsopano aphatikize iwo mu chithunzi chimodzi chachikulu. Ganizirani kumene zinthu zonsezi zingakhale. Ndipo chofunika kwambiri - tumizani maganizo anu!