Musamavale zodzikongoletsera nthawi zambiri amayi omwe amasungulumwa omwe awonetsa maonekedwe awo ndi kukongola kwawo, akukhumudwa ndi chikondi. Mwina zofunikira zake kwa amuna ndizochepa.
Ngati mosiyana ndi zimenezo, mkazi amadzimangirira kwambiri ndi mtengo wa Khirisimasi, ndiye izi zimayankhula zaumphawi komanso zopanda pake. Mwamuna amasankha nthawi zambiri kuti adzinenere yekha.
Mwini mwiniwake wa zotchipa, koma zipangizo zogwira mtima, kutsindika umunthu wake, kawirikawiri kufunafuna chiyanjano chatsopano ndikumupatsa munthu chizindikiro: Ndine wokonzeka kupita kuntchito ndipo sindikuganiza kuti ndikuwombera bukuli.
Mbuye wa zodzikongoletsera koma zoyambirira komanso zokongoletsera, zomwe nthawi zambiri zimapangidwa ndi manja, chikhalidwe chimakhala chachikondi, chosasinthika komanso chosalimba. Amayesetsa kupeza munthu wotetezeka, yemwe ali wokonzeka kuyandikana ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro.