Mwatsoka, m'moyo sitiyenera kukomana kokha, komanso kuti tipewe ndi anthu. Ndipo magawanowa, nthawi zina, amakhala zovuta kwambiri kwa mtima ndi moyo. Kodi mungaphunzire bwanji kulola anthu kuti apite kuti musamavutike ndi mabala a mtima kwa zaka zambiri?
Kulingalira
Nthawi zina zimachitika kuti timamva - timayenera kumasula munthu, chifukwa zingakhale bwino kwa ife ndi iye. Pankhaniyi, m'pofunika kufufuza mkhalidwe kuti muzindikire: popanda izo, moyo wanu udzasintha. Ziribe kanthu momwe zilili zovuta mumtima, ziribe kanthu kuchuluka kwa zowawa, yesetsani kuganiza moyenera. Mosakayikira, zingakhale zovuta kwambiri, koma nthawi zina ndizofunikira kuti muzimitsa maganizo. Choncho, ngati mutapanga chisankho chodzipatulira nokha ndi munthu yemwe ubale wake umabweretsa mavuto, tidzilimbikitseni chifukwa chodziwika bwino ndipo musalole kuti mupereke maganizo. Aliyense wa ife ayenera kusankha moyo umenewo ndi anthu omwe amatibweretsera ife zosangalatsa zauzimu. Choncho, ngati mukumva kuti simukumvetsetsa pafupi ndi anthu, nthawi zonse muyenera kusiya. Ndipo sizingokhala za tehsituation mukakhumudwa. Izi zimachitika kuti ubalewu ukuwoneka ngati wachilendo, ngakhale wabwino, koma umamvetsa kuti ndi munthu ameneyo, kuti muli ndi malingaliro osiyana, malingaliro osiyana ndi zina ndi zina zotero. Pazifukwa izi, simuyenera kugwiririra nokha, kufotokozera khalidwe lanu poti mumamvera chisoni munthu, mwakhala mabwenzi nthawi yaitali komanso mwachidwi. Nthawi zina timayenera kusiya anzathu akale, chifukwa timakula, timasintha, timaphunzira, komanso ndi anthu ena, sitimagwirizana. Ndipo kuti pamapeto pake ubale wanu suli ndi kutha kwa chidani, mumangofunika kuthana ndi kusiya wina ndi mnzake.
Nenani ayi kuti musamangoganizira
Ambiri aife sitingalole kuti munthu apite, chifukwa amangokhalira kuganizira za izi, kukumbukira zosiyana, kumvetsera nyimbo zomwe zimayambitsa maubwenzi ake, penyani mafilimu ndi nkhani zofanana. Pokhala ndi chilema ndi maganizo, iwe, mwachibadwa, sungaiwale kwa nthawi yayitali kwambiri za yemwe mukufuna kuleka. Nthawi zina, amuna pa nkhaniyi ndi ophweka, chifukwa alibe chizoloŵezi cholankhula maulendo zana pa chinthu chimodzi, kukumbukira kanthu kakang'ono ndi zina zotero. Koma atsikanawo akufuna kukumbukira nthawi zonse, kambiranani ndi anzanu munthu amene wasiya moyo wawo, ngati kuti akuwabweretsera zosangalatsa. Ngati mukudziwa kuti ndinu mkazi wotero, yesetsani kudziletsa nokha kuti mulowe mumtendere. Mukangomva kuti mukufuna kulankhula za chinachake, mvetserani nyimbo kapena muwoneni kanema - ndi chifuniro chanu, sankhani china. Poyamba zidzakhala zovuta kwa inu, komaliza mudzazizoloŵera ndikuphunzira momwe mungadzitetezere. Kulowa mu chisokonezo, ife tokha tikufuna kuvutika, chifukwa timakhulupirira kuti ngati tilira misozi yonse kuti iume, zidzakhala zosavuta. Izi ziridi zowona: kuti tipulumuke chinachake, munthu ayenera kuyamba kulira. Koma chisoni chanu sichiyenera kusandulika kwa nthawi yaitali, chomwe chimayambitsa chisokonezo nthawi zonse. Choncho nthawi zonse yesetsani kukhala ndi moyo lero komanso osaganizira za zomwe kale. M'mbuyomu, muli ndi nthawi yabwino kwambiri ndipo ayenera kukhalabe mukukumbukira kwanu, koma ngati mukukhala okhawo okha, pamapeto pake moyo wanu lero udzaima. Nthawi zonse kumbukirani izi ndikuyesera kuganizira zonse za tsogolo.
Musakhale odzikonda
Zili choncho kuti sitingalole kuti munthu apite, chifukwa ndife odwala komanso oipa popanda iye. Ndipo tikukamba za momwe tingamasulire munthu wina mumzinda kapena dziko lina, ndikumangopatsa munthuyo ufulu wochulukirapo komanso osadzimangiriza yekha. Chowonadi n'chakuti kaya tilibe ubwino uliwonse ndi wokoma mtima, munthu aliyense ndiwe wodzikonda. Mwachidule, ena amatha kuletsa ndi kudziletsa okha, adhl wina monga khalidwe ili ndilochibadwa. Ngati simungathe kumasula munthu pa chifukwa chomwechi, kumbukirani zomwe zikutanthawuza kutanthauza "chikondi chenicheni". Ngati timakonda munthu moona mtima komanso moona mtima, timamulakalaka nthawi zonse, nthawi zonse timafuna moyo umene adzakhale wosangalala kwambiri. Ndipo ngakhale moyo uno ukuyamba kuyenda mumzinda wina, ngakhale dziko, ngati pa moyo uno amafunikira anthu ena osati inu, muyenera kugwirizanitsa ndi izi ndikumufunira munthuyo chimwemwe. Mumamukonda, amamukonda kwambiri moti simungamulole kuti apite. Kotero, motsogoleredwa ndi chikondi chanu, muyenera kuzindikira kuti ndi munthuyu kuti adzakhale ndi mwayi wokwanira kuti amupatse mwayi wofuna zomwe akufuna. Inde, palibe amene akunena kuti mudzakhala wosavuta komanso wosavuta. Koma yesetsani kulingalira mmene akusekera mosangalala, mmene maso ake adzawala. Taganizirani izi nthawi iliyonse yomwe mumachezera ndichisoni ndikufuna kumangiriza munthu nokha. Mukamaganizira za chimwemwe chake, zimakhala zosavuta kuti mudziwe kuti simuli pafupi kwambiri. Tembolee, ngati munthu uyu ali mbadwa kwa inu. Mungayamikire kukambirana zambiri.
Malonda Amalonda
Nthawi zambiri sitingalole kuti munthu apite, chifukwa timangokhalira kugwiritsidwa ntchito pazinthu zina, nthawi yopuma, ndi zina zotero. Zoonadi, sitingagwirizane kwambiri ndi munthu ngati moyo wowonongeka, momwe mulibe zodabwitsa ndipo zonse zikuwoneka kuti zikujambula. Mwachibadwa, pamene munthu woteroyo amatha, timakhala ndi nthawi yambiri yowonjezera, yomwe tifunika kutenga ndipo timachita mantha. Ndichifukwa chake timayamba kuphonya mitengo ndikuyesera kubwezeretsa. Ndipotu, mmalo momangophunzira zochitika zakale, muyenera kuphunzira kuyang'ana ntchito zatsopano, zosangalatsa ndi zina zotero. M'malo movutika popanda munthu, ingosintha moyo wanu, yambani kuchita zinthu zomwe simungathe kuzichita. Ndikutsimikiza kuti munali ndi zikhumbo, zomwe zinalibe nthawi yokwanira. Kenaka zikuwoneka kuti mungathe kuchita izi, koma ngati mutasanthula mkhalidwewo, tsopano mutakhala ndi nthawi yaulere, khalani otsimikiza kuti mukumvetsa zinthu zambiri zomwe simunachite ndi ziyembekezo zingati zomwe simunakwaniritse. Choncho samalirani, mmalo moyang'ana khoma ndikudzizunza nokha kuti moyo wanu wokonzedweratu walephera kulumikizana ndi ndondomeko, yomwe idakhazikitsidwa ndikukhala yodziwika bwino. Onetsetsani, zidzatenga nthawi ndipo mukumvetsa kuti chikhazikitso chatsopano cha inu sichinali chosangalatsa kusiyana ndi chakale. Simukusowa kuti mukhale taxied ku njira inayake ya moyo. Nthawi ndi nthawi ndibwino kusintha chirichonse. Ndipo kumbukirani izi, ndipo kuti munthu yemwe mumamukonda komanso kumukonda, adakupatsani mwayi wophunzira china chatsopano.