Pamodzi ndi malonjezano a chikondi chosatha ndi kukhulupirika, mwamuna ndi mkazi wake amakhalanso ndi udindo ndi maudindo, omwe pakalipano akuyenera kumvera mosamalitsa, mwinamwake palibe mtendere kapena mgwirizano m'banja.
Izi zimagwiranso ntchito pa ntchito zapanyumba za wina ndi mzake. Momwe mungagawire maudindo m'banja, pamene mukuchita zonse mu nthawi ndi zolondola, zomwe zingakhale zopweteka kwambiri kwa zaka zopanda moyo.
Posakhalitsa, bwino.
Aliyense amadziwa kuti njira ya banja yochitira banja m'banja lililonse ndi yosiyana. Kulengedwa kwa banja latsopano kumatanthawuza kukhazikitsidwa kwa dongosolo latsopano lomwe lidzakhazikitsidwa pa zitsanzo za khalidwe la makolo, kuganizira zofuna za mbali ina. Pambuyo pake, mutha kuvomereza, izo sizikutembenuzika moona mtima, pamene wina wokoma mtima mtima ndi womverera akumasamalira chirichonse, ndipo wachiwiri yekha ayenera kuvomereza zipatso za ntchito yake. Pambuyo pake, pasanapite nthawi phwando la anthu ogwira ntchito lidzafuna kubwerera, koma silidzakhala lofanana. Kawirikawiri, udindo wa wogwira ntchito wolemekezeka umaganiziridwa ndi amayi. Kukonzekera chifukwa cha wokondedwa kuti azisenza katundu aliyense payekha, mpaka pamenepo, mphamvu zokwanira ndi chipiriro.
Choncho, kugawa ntchito ndikufotokozera dongosolo la khalidwe la banja. Ndipotu, moyo ndi gawo lalikulu la moyo wathu. Apo ayi, okhulupirika adzizoloŵera "ndekha", ndipo moona mtima sadziwa zifukwa zowonjezera mkwiyo wanu.
"Mkazi ayenera" ndi "mwamuna mnyumbamo."
Kwa nthawi yaitali ntchito yonse yagawanika kukhala yamuna ndi yachikazi. Kugawana uku ndi ntchito zachuma ndi zapakhomo za okwatirana sizinadutse. Malingana ndi zochitika zakalekale za makolo, mutha kukumanabe ndi iwo omwe ali otsimikiza kuti pali maudindo okhaokha, ndipo mwamunayo alibe chiyanjano chochepa kwa iwo. Zoona, maphunziro amapindulitsa kwambiri pano, koma dongosolo loyenera lazofunikira pokhapokha ukwati ukatha, kapena ngakhale usanakhalepo, udzakuthandizira kuthetsa vutoli pamzu. Kawirikawiri malingalirowa ndi osiyana kwambiri ndi amuna omwe amadziona okha pa udindo wopezera chakudya komanso mbuye m'nyumba, ngati akukonza ndi kumanga ntchito. Ngakhale kuti masiku ano, kupezeka kwa mautumiki osiyanasiyana, kumakhala ulesi m'dera lino. Koma mkazi ayenera nthawi zonse ndipo ayenera. Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, kuti kale mkazi sankakhala ndi ufulu wogwira ntchito anaiwalidwa, kotero iye amangokhala kunyumba. Akazi amakono ali ndi ufulu wofanana ndi amuna, amalephera kuchita bizinesi, komanso m'moyo wa banja angathe kuthandizira ntchito, ndikuchita ntchito zapakhomo kuchokera kwa amuna. Makamaka ngati ali ndi tsiku lomwelo logwira ntchito ndipo palibe kusiyana kwakukulu pamakwerero a ntchito.
Akazi okondedwa, musanapemphe, chinthu chochokera kwa mwamuna wake chiyenera kuganiziridwa, komanso kuti mu moyo wanu wonse wosakhulupirika mukhoza, ndipo simukudziwa za mavuto ndi zovuta za tsiku ndi tsiku, monga momwe adachitira makolo ake moyenera . Choncho, musanagawire maudindo m'banja, banja loyamba likhale ndi chipiliro ndi chipiriro. Ndipo musadabwe ngati pempho lanu loyambirira ndikutulutsa zinyalala, kapena kutsuka mbale kuti mukumane ndi kudodometsedwa kwenikweni, ndipo ngati izo zatha, ndiye choncho, ngati zikanangoganiziridwa. Pakapita nthawi, ngati mungathe kupirira nthawi yomwe imatchedwa "kusintha", mwamuna adzizoloŵera maudindo ake atsopano, ndipo sadzawoneka ovuta kwambiri ndipo adzalowa mu lingaliro lachizoloŵezi ndi zikhalidwe.
Chopempha ndi chikumbutso.
Mabanja achichepere ayenera kuganizira mfundo imodzi yomwe pempho lanu la nthawi imodzi, ponena za chinachake, komanso mogwirizana ndi kukhazikitsidwa kwake, silingakhale theka lanu lachiwiri nthawi yomweyo. Izi zikutanthauza kuti ngati mukufuna, mwamuna amachotsa nsapato zake mu sitolo ya nsapato ndipo sasiya mapazi ake, musayembekezere kuti pambuyo poyambirira, nsapato zidzakhala nthawi zonse . Pempho lanu loyambalo lotsatira dongosolo linalake liyenera kuthandizidwa ndi zikumbutso zokhazikika, koma pokhapokha mutha kukwaniritsa zotsatira. Chinthu chachikulu sichimasulira zikumbutso kuti zidzakwiyitsa ndi kukwiya.
Yesetsani kugawa zonse moyenera, ndikukonzekera zonse kuti banja lirilonse likachite maofesi omwe mumawafotokozera kuti ndi ofanana. Pokhapokha mutha kuwona bwinobwino ntchito ya mnzanuyo ndi funso la yemwe ndi "kugwira ntchito mopitirira malire" sichidzakhala chovuta kwambiri.
Mukasankha momwe mungagawire ntchito zonse zapakhomo m'banja, mutha kuganizira zofuna zanu. Pali anthu amene amakondwera kapena kukwiya mtima pochita izi kapena ntchito yotereyi. Choncho, ngati onse okwatirana amavomereza, ntchito zina zikhoza kugawanika malinga ndi zomwe amakonda, kuti zitheke monga akunena pazifukwa.
Kutsatsa.
Ntchito iliyonse iyenera kupindula. Kupatulapo komanso kugwira ntchito zapakhomo. Pachifukwachi, sikoyenera kulembetsa mndandanda wamtengo wapatali pa firiji, ndikulipilira malipiro (ndithudi, izi ndizo zosangalatsa), ndizokwanira, kungokuthokozani kuti muthandizidwe, kapena ntchito yochitidwa, kuyamika ngati zotsatira za ntchitoyo ndi zabwino, ndi kupeza kutamandidwa - pazomwe sizinapangidwe bwino. Kuvomerezeka kwanu ndi kuyamikira kwa zochita za theka lanu lachiwiri kudzakhala chilimbikitso chabwino chobwerezabwereza. Ndipotu, timakondwera kwambiri kubweretsa chisangalalo kwa anthu omwe timawakonda ndikuwona kusekerera kwawo, kuti ndikufuna kutero nthawi zambiri.
Choncho, tingathe kunena kuti chinthu chachikulu pakugawa maudindo a m'banja ndi kulemekeza, kuleza mtima ndi chipiriro. Ndiponso, malingaliro abwino ndi luso sizingasokoneze. Khulupirirani ine, khama pang'ono ndipo mudzapambana. Chikondi, kulemekezana wina ndi mzake, ndipo nthawizonse khalani wokonzeka kuthandiza, chifukwa kuthandizira wokondedwa ndiwonetsedwe kopambana ya kuwona mtima ndi kuya kwa malingaliro anu.