Nchiyani chimasiyanitsa anthu odzidalira? Monga lamulo, iwo ali opambana. Kwa nthawi yaitali kale mawu akuti "chidaliro" ndi "kupambana" akhala ofanana. Anthu omwe sasiya pansi kuchokera pansi pamapazi atawona interlocutor, ali ndi chisangalalo, ali olimbika, amadziwa kupanga makalata ndi kuchita zomwe zayambika kumapeto. Anthu oterewa amatha kugawa ntchito ndikupuma. Ngati mukufunikira kugwira ntchito mwakhama, ngakhale kusokonezeka maganizo ndi kuvutika maganizo, kapena matenda aakulu ndi mapiri a mapiritsi sizingakhale chotchinga. Koma pamene nthawi ya mpumulo ifika, iwo osasunthika pang'ono amachotsa foni yam'manja ndikuchita zosayenera. Mapulani a kutalika kwa kudzidalira ayenera kuyankhidwa ali mwana. Pali mfundo zambiri zomwe zimapangidwira.
Nthawi yobereka komanso kubereka
Chifukwa cha kusatsimikizika, malinga ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, amayi amawopa kukhala mayi wam'tsogolo. Amawonekera asanabadwe, chifukwa pokhala m'mimba, mwanayo akumva momwe amafunira ndi kuyembekezera. Ngati mayi akuganiza za kupereka munthu watsopano kudziko kapena kuchotsa mimba, mwanayo amayamba kumva kuti ndikumvetsa chisoni ndipo nthawi zambiri amakhala wamkulu komanso osadziwika kwa anthu oyandikana naye.
Mpaka posachedwa, azamba anawomba ana apachibale papa, kotero anayamba kulira ndi kuyamba kupuma. Nchiyani chikuchitika? Mwanayo anali kukonzekera kubadwa kwa miyezi 9, kuvutikira, kugonjetsa chitoliro chobadwa, ndipo chinthu choyamba chimene dziko linamugunda chinali kumugunda. Kodi angamukhulupirire bwanji ndikumva kuti ndi wotetezeka? Ndibwino kuti lero msonkhano wotero suli, - a psychologists amasangalala nazo.
Choyamba chopanga. Kodi zimawoneka bwanji? Popanda kumwetulira, simungachite popanda izi: Nthawi zina mwana akhoza kujambula ndi zomwe adadya theka la tsiku lapitalo. Makolo, musamukakamize kuti adziwonetsere nokha ndipo musanene kuti fu, mwinamwake kuyambira ali wamng'ono mwana akhoza kukhala ndi chikhulupiliro kuti chirichonse chimene amachilenga ndikuchigwiritsa ntchito ndi choipa ndipo amachititsa kutsutsidwa.
Njira zoyamba. Ngati mwanayo akukwawa kwa kanthawi kochepa ndipo mwamsanga anaphunzira kuyenda chifukwa cha thandizo la makolo, mwinamwake, mu moyo, iye adzapita molimba mtima. Kumverera kwothandizira ndi nthaka yolimba pansi pake kudzakhala ndi iye kwamuyaya. Momwe mumakhalira otetezeka komanso otsimikiza mu timu yatsopano, momwe mungalowe m'chipinda ndi alendo simadalira ngati inu munaloledwa kutsegula makina anu muubwana wanu ndikuyika "dongosolo" kumeneko. Zikawonetsa kuti kuletsa kwa kupezeka kwatsopano kumakhala kukumbukira kosatha.
Mphunzitsi woyamba . Amayambitsa wolemba woyamba kulowa m'dziko latsopano kwa iye, momwe amachitira udindo wa amayi. Ndiyo amene angathe kuthetsa kapena, kulimbikitsa chikhulupiriro chanu mwa mwana wanu. Zonse zimadalira ngati kalasi igawikidwa ophunzira abwino ndi akuba mumzimu komanso "mwana" angakhale mwana.
... ndimaphunzira ndikuyenda
Kudzidalira kumachokera pazinthu zamkati ndi zakunja. Yoyamba imaphatikizapo chidziwitso, luso, chidziwitso, makhalidwe apamtima, zokondweretsa. Galimoto yamtengo wapatali, nyumba yaikulu ya dziko ndi mkazi wa chitsanzo amapereka kumverera kopanda chidaliro. N'zochititsa chidwi kuti anthu amagazi amaoneka ngati chikhulupiliro cha mkati - chifukwa cha malingaliro abwino a dziko lapansi, koma anthu a kolera ambiri amakhala osakhulupirika. Zikuwoneka kuti ngakhale pakuwonekera munthu amatha kusiyanitsa anthu omwe ali ndi ulemu wapamwamba komanso wotsika. Mmodzi wa iwo ali ndi manja ake, nkhope, nkhope, mtundu wa kulankhula, zomwe zimapanga chomwe chimatchedwa chidaliro cha corset.
Njira yodalirika
Gawo 1. Chotsani mantha. Njira yosavuta - kuilemba pamapepala, kumwetulira ndi kuwotcha - moto ukuwonekera.
Khwerero 2. Sungani zolemba zapambano, lembani kupambana kwanu kochepa tsiku lililonse. Mwachitsanzo: "Lero ndinayankha ndipo sindikumva kuti ndine wolakwa chifukwa cha izi." Kukana kumatanthauza kukhala ndi malingaliro anu.
Khwerero 3. Gwiritsani ntchito ndemanga. Zokondedwa zanu zidzakukumbutsani chinthu china chofunikira, kulimbitsa malingaliro anu ndikudzidalira.
Khwerero 4. Chitani zomwe mumakonda, - zokondweretsa, zosangalatsa, kucheza ndi anzanu. Chisangalalo cha zotsatira chidzalimbikitsa kudzidalira nokha.
Gawo 5. Limbikitsani bwino moyo wanu. Pa ndondomeko ya tsiku ndi tsiku, ndi 60% yokha yomwe imachitidwa, kotero kuika patsogolo patsogolo ndikupanga zosankha zomveka.
Gawo 6. Ikani zolinga zenizeni, zitsatireni ku malo omwe "Ndili nawo kale". Kumbukirani chikhalidwe chanu.
Khwerero 7. Kulankhulana nthawi zambiri ndi anthu okhulupilika ndipo phunzirani kwa iwo kudzipereka, manja, kudziletsa ndi makhalidwe ena omwe simukusowa.
Gawo 8. Lembani mfundo za makhalidwe abwino pa pepala. Malo anu ndi nthaka, malingaliro anu, popanda zomwe zimakhala zovuta kulingalira munthu wodalirika.
Gawo 9. Lembani zolembera, izi zidzakuthandizani kuchotsa mantha a kulankhula ndi anthu atsopano m'deralo.
Gawo 10: Yesetsani kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi tsiku ndi tsiku kwa mphindi zingapo. Imani ndi msana wanu mpaka kumtunda pamwamba pa khoma, kumani kumbuyo kwa mutu, mapewa, zidendene. Izi zidzakhala zofunikira, mudzawoneka ngati apamwamba, ndipo anthu apamwamba amalemekezedwa.