Kodi mukuyembekezera chiyani mutatha chisudzulo? Kodi mungavomereze bwanji chokhumudwitsa ichi? Bwanji kuti musataye cholinga cha moyo ndi kusakonza vuto ndi chisoni chake?
Kusudzulana nthawi zonse kumatonza, kukhumudwa, kukhumudwa mu moyo ndi wokondedwa, chisoni ndi kukhumba.
Koma, nkhani yathu idzakuphunzitsani momwe mungakhalirebe, mutatha chisudzulo. Kodi mungakhale bwanji olimba mtima mutatha kusudzulana? Mukufunsa, kodi n'zotheka, sichoncho? Mwina chinthu chachikulu ndicho kusonyeza chikhumbo chachikulu chokhalabe olimba ndi kulimba mtima pambuyo pa chisudzulo!
Lamulo loyamba: nenani "ayi" chisoni . Phunzirani kukhala ndi chidaliro kuti nthawi zonse mumachita zonse, monga nkofunikira. Ngakhale mutachita zolakwitsa, zikutanthauza kuti moyo umakuphunzitsani momwe mungagwiritsire ntchito mtsogolo. Chisudzulo chanu chimavomerezedwa ngati chenicheni. Yesani kuchotsapo chinthu chabwino. Yesani kukhala olimba mtima.
Palibe zodandaula zowawa za kale. Kodi mukuganiza kuti ngati mutagona usiku ndikukumbatira mtolo ndi kukumbukira chimwemwe choyamba - izi zidzakuthandizani kukhala olimba mtima mutatha chisudzulo? Musadzipangitse nokha. Lembani zambiri za tsogolo - okondwa ndi okongola.
Kumbukirani kuti simuli gulu lovulala . Kodi mukuganiza kuti ndinu wozunzidwa? Kodi mumadzimvera chisoni? Chabwino, ngati inu mukufuna, ndiye dzifundo nokha. Koma, madzulo amodzi. Sindikudziwika kuti ndi ndani yemwe anali ndi mwayi: Mwamuna wanu, yemwe anasiya sikumveka bwino, ali kuti kapena kwa inu - mkazi wokongola ndi womasuka yemwe tsopano ali ndi ufulu wosangalala ndi moyo komanso kumvetsera mwamuna.
Chimene sichikutipha - chimatipangitsa kukhala olimba. Ndipo, ndiye ichi ndi chifukwa china chokhalira olimbika pambuyo pa chisudzulo.
Makhalidwe a mkazi pambuyo pa chisudzulo.
Mumasokonezeka ndi maganizo oipa komanso omvetsa chisoni. Zikuwoneka kuti dziko lonse lagwa, ndipo inu mwatsala nokha ndi chisoni chanu. Nthawi ina munapereka wokondedwa komanso munthu wokondedwa kwambiri.
Atsikana, okongola ndi okongola zolengedwa, yesetsani kukhala olimba mtima mutatha chisudzulo, khalani otsimikiza kwambiri nokha. Ndiwe cholengedwa chokongola kwambiri cha Wam'mwambamwamba. Khalani wonyada kuti ndinu mkazi. Wokwatirana naye adakali ndi chisoni chachikulu kuti iye mwiniwake wataya mkazi ngati inu.
Yang'anani mkhalidwewo ndi maso osiyana. Tsoka linasokoneza moyo wanu ndipo, mwinamwake, lakupulumutsani kwa munthu amene sali woyenera kumvetsera.
Kusudzulana ndi vuto lalikulu kwa maganizo. Koma, tiyenera kudzipangira tokha ndikuyesetsa kuti tikhale olimba mtima. Musadzitengere nokha mu ngodya, tipeze tanthauzo la moyo.
Sangalalani - pita nthawi ndi anzako kapena anzanu. Palibe amene anavulazidwapo ndi anzanga osangalatsa, kuseka ndi kuseketsa.
Kuwongolera ndi amuna, kumwetulira kwa otero-mudzatsimikiziridwa kuti muli osiyana.
Panthawi imene mudali ndi mkazi wakale, munagwiritsa ntchito bwanji nthawi yanu yaulere? Nyumba zogwiritsa ntchito chitsulo kapena zitofu? Tsopano simusowa kuchita izi. Kodi munalota chiyani muunyamata wanu? Kodi mulibe nthawi yotani? Ganizirani za nkhaniyi - tsopano muli ndi mwayi womasulira malingaliro anu ndi maloto anu.
Ntchito ndi njira yabwino yodzidzimitsira nokha kuvutika maganizo ndikuzindikira kuti mukusowa ena ndikudalira kwambiri.
Tiyeni tifotokoze kuti, kuti mukhale olimba mtima mutatha chisudzulo, musalole kukhumudwa ndi choonadi chonse osati choonadi, mungakonde bwanji kulowerera mmenemo. Inu mwaima pambali pa moyo watsopano. Ndipo kaya izo zidzakhala zokondwa kapena kudutsa mu chikhumbo cha kutayika ubale - ziri kwa inu.
Ndikutsimikiza kuti mumadzikonda nokha ndipo mukukhumba zokhazokha. Kumbukirani kuti ndinu mkazi wamphamvu - mukukumanga moyo ndi manja anu.
Kupambana ndi mwayi kwa inu mu moyo wanu watsopano, waulere, Amazon wolimba mtima komanso wokongola!