Akatswiri a zamaganizo anazindikira kuti kusamvana ndi wokondedwa, ndi zina zotero kusudzulana, nthawi zonse zimapweteka kwambiri. Makamaka akazi. Mukudziimba nokha kuti simungathe kupulumutsa chiyanjano, pokupangitsani inu kudandaula za mwana wanu. Mungathe kuchoka mu mkhalidwewu ndi vuto la maganizo, kapena mungathe - kukhwima mwauzimu ndi kulimbikitsidwa. Kuiwala chikondi chachikale ndikupulumuka kugawana, kumadalira pa ife okha.
Dzizisamalire nokha
Malangizo oyambirira ndi kuganizira ntchito yanu. Ngati mwangoganizira za kusintha ntchito, ndiye nthawi yoti muchite bwino. Kawirikawiri ngati n'kotheka, konzekerani "nthawi yodzifufuza". Pewani maganizo ovuta ndikuiwala za kusudzulana komwe simungapambane. Koma kuchepetsa malingaliro osayenera kuchepa - mkati mwa mphamvu. Pemphani thandizo kwa achibale, ngakhale kunyada sikuli. Achibale ndi abwenzi enieni amadziwa kuti panthawi imeneyi muli ovuta kwambiri, musabise maganizo anu. Kawirikawiri pitani kukachezera, pemphani alendo nokha. Ngakhale ngati simukufuna kwenikweni, kuyankhulana kosangalatsa, kosasangalatsa, kokoma - ndithudi kukuchitirani zabwino. Samalani thanzi, zonse zauzimu ndi zakuthupi. Kusamalidwa kochuluka ndi mavuto a mnyumba sanapatse mpata wochita chidwi ndi mawonekedwe? Ino ndiyo nthawi! Pita patsogolo!
Musakumbukire
Kukumbutsa za chibwenzi, tsiku loyamba, kumpsompsona, maulendo olankhulana - izi ndi zomwe akazi amakhala kawirikawiri pambuyo pa chisudzulo. Chisangalalo sichibweretsa, kumangotayika chabe ndi kupanda chilungamo. Kodi kukumbukira maubwenzi akale kumathandiza kuiwala chikondi chakale? Kotero, musalole kuti kukumbukira kusunge moyo wanu. Siyani zakale m'mbuyo. Kumbukirani: kudzizunza kwabwino sikubweretsere munthu wabwino, ayi, ndipo sanabweretse mpumulo kwa wina aliyense. Komanso yesetsani kusanthula mavuto ndi kusakhala ndi chidwi ndi moyo wa munthu wakale. Nthawi zonse, tcherani tsamba lino la moyo wanu!
Zindikirani zokhumba
Njira yabwino yothetsera mtima wosweka ndi kupulumuka kusudzulana sikuti tiganizire zomwe zinachitika ndi kupitirizabe kukhala ndi moyo. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti moyo wa banja susiya nthawi yochita zinthu zosangalatsa, tsopano mungathe kuzipeza. Yesetsani kufufuza bwinobwino zomwe zakhala zikuchitika. Ganizilani kuti muli ndi nthawi komanso mwayi wozindikira zilakolako za nthawi yaitali popanda kuganizira momwe mwamuna wakale angatengere. Kupulumuka kusudzulana kudzathandiza kutulutsidwa kwa maloto anu - ulendo wa panyanja, ulendo. Kusudzulana sikusangalatsa, koma ichi si chilango cha imfa, kani, ndi vocha kumoyo watsopano!
Zimene munganene kwa mwana
Kupuma kwanu sikumangokhala nokha. Ndi kovuta kuthetsa banja ndi ana. Ntchito ya makolo ndi kufotokoza kwa mwanayo molondola chifukwa chake amayi ndi abambo sangakhale pamodzi ndi kusudzulana. Ndi bwino, ngati aliyense atenga nawo mbali pazokambirana izi: inu, mwamuna ndi mwana. Limbikitsani mwanayo kuti kuchoka kwa abambo sikukugwirizana ndi khalidwe la mwanayo (nthawi zambiri ana amadziimba mlandu kuti akuswa makolo), palibe chomwe chidzasintha mu ubale wanu. Poyamba, yesetsani kuonetsetsa kuti abambo nthawi zambiri amachezera mwanayo.
Ubale watsopano
Pambuyo pa chisudzulo, amayi ambiri safulumira kukonza maubwenzi atsopano. Iwo amawopa kubwereza kwa mkhalidwe wolekanitsa. Ndipo komabe musapewe mtundu wa amuna. Chilichonse chimene anganene, timamva kuti ndife akazi okhaokha ozunguliridwa ndi amuna. Musaiwale kuyang'ana pozungulira - chikondi chikhoza kubwera mwadzidzidzi!
Dziwani chisudzulo ngati chiyambi cha moyo watsopano, momwe mudzakhalira osangalala! Ndibwino kuti muzindikire zovuta, ngati mukuganiza kuti mudzaiŵala konse za chikondi chakale ndi chilekano. Kukhumudwa ndi kuvutika maganizo sikungakuthandizeni m'njira iliyonse. Koma chikhulupiliro chakuti chirichonse chidzasintha ndi moyo udzakhala bwino, zidzakuthandizani kuti pakhale njira ina yoposa.