Lowani malo ake
Tsopano anthu ambiri amadulidwa kuntchito zawo, ndipo omwe sanadulidwe amadulidwa ndi malipiro, mabhonasi ndi mabhonasi ena kuchokera ku moyo wathunthu. M'mabanja achi Russia, abambo amapeza ndalama zambiri, amatenga ngongole zazikulu kwambiri ndipo amachititsa kuti banja liziyenda bwino, motero zimadalira ndalama zomwe amapeza. Ngati mwamuna wanu wakhudzidwa ndi vutoli, yesetsani kumumvetsa - amamva bwanji akamadziwa kuti sangathe kusunga moyo wake wokhazikika kwa okondedwa ake? Ngakhale mukuganiza kuti iye alibe chidwi ndi izi, mwinamwake, izi siziri chomwecho, amuna okha amadziwa momwe angasunge maganizo mwaokha.
Musamunyoze mwamuna wake
Amamvetsa bwino komanso popanda inu kuti mumayenera kulipira ngongole, kuti muzivala ana, kugula zidole ndi mabuku, kuti mupeze diresi yatsopano ndi kumwera. Koma ngati pakali pano chinachake cha zomwe mumakonda, mwamuna sangakupatseni, musamuneneze. Ngati mulibe ndalama zokwanira zosangalatsa kapena zosangalatsa, ganizirani za nthawi yomwe inuyo nokha mungakhale chithandizo cha banja? M'malo mopenya kosatha mwamuna wake, ndi bwino kupita kuntchito kapena kukwaniritsa kuwonjezeka, ndiye kuti zonsezi zidzakhala zosavuta.
Musakwiyitse
Tili okonzeka kwambiri kuti nthawi zovuta zimakhala zolakwa zambiri kuposa kudzidziyimira okha. Kusudzulana ndi mavuto zingagwirizane ngati simukuyesera kudzipangira nokha. Yesetsani kuti musalankhulane mochuluka, osati kuyambitsa mikangano. Mumatha kumvetsetsa chomwe chinali chenicheni cha mikangano yopanda mikangano kapena kusowa kwa zooneka bwino kapena ndalama. Pangani zolingalira zolondola ndipo musalole kuti zinthu zikhale zolimba kuposa inu.
Yesetsani ku yankho
Panthawi yamavuto, mutha kuyang'ana olakwa nthawi zonse. Boma, mabwana, makasitomala, abwenzi, oyandikana nawo, mwamuna kapena inuyo - mlandu wa zomwe zinachitika ukhoza kupachikidwa pa aliyense. Ngati kusudzulana sikuphatikizidwa m'zinthu zanu, yesetsani kupereka njira yothetsera vutoli. Kulingalira mozama, kukhala wodekha kumbaliyi kudzakuthandizani kuona kuti chirichonse chingathe kugonjetsedwa ndipo pamapeto pake chidzasintha.
Sungani ndalama
Chodabwitsa, ngakhale panthawi yamavuto, amayi sakonzeka kupulumutsa pa zosowa zawo. Ambiri amakhalanso akupita ku malo odyera okwera mtengo, kuvala zinthu za okonza mapulogalamu otchuka, kumasuka ku malo okongola otchuka. Mavuto osakhalitsa amachititsa kuti izi zisatheke. Ngati simukufuna kubweretsa chisankho kuti mutha kusudzulana, yesani kuyesa bajeti ya banja. Muthandizidwa pogwiritsa ntchito mapulani, kusintha kwa zinthu zotsika mtengo ndi zinthu, kupereka zinthu zina zomwe simungathe kuzikhalitsa. Mwachitsanzo, mungagulitse galimoto yamtengo wapatali ndikugula galimoto yotchipa, komanso kusiyana kwa mtengo wogula ngongole, ngati sikunali kwathunthu, ndiye zambiri. Mungakane kugula madiresi okwera mtengo ndikuyang'ana zinthu zogula. Chakudya chingathe kugulitsidwa pamisika yambiri. Zonsezi ndi zosasangalatsa, ndizofunikira kuzindikira kuti izi ndizeng'onoting'ono zomwe zingakuthandizeni kupirira pa nthawi yomwe mabanja ambiri asudzulana.
Chifukwa cha banja timatha zambiri. Ngati banjali likugwirizana ndi chinthu china choposa chitonthozo chokhazikika, ndiye kuti aliyense wa iwo adzakondwera chifukwa chakuti kusudzulana ndi mavuto zinawaphwanya ndi banja. Izi zimafuna kuleza mtima, nzeru, kufunitsitsa kuthandizana komanso kupanga mgwirizano. Pamapeto pake, nthawi zovuta zidzatha, ndipo mudzatha kusunga chinthu chamtengo wapatali chomwe muli nacho - banja.