Koma, panali nthumwi yazimayi, ndipo tsopano mukuyenera kukhala ndi malamulo, omwe iye mwini amakhazikitsa. Mafunso ambiri: "Ndinu kuti", "nchifukwa ninji mudabwera mofulumira", "simungathe kutchula?", Monga choncho, akuyamba kukhumudwa. Tsopano, musanati muchite chinachake, muyenera kuwerengera ndi mkazi wanu, mwinamwake mudzadzikuza "ndipo mutha kuwononga maganizo anu madzulo onse ndi mawonekedwe okhumudwa, ndikudziwitsani kuti ndinu wolakwa pa zolephera zake zonse. Maulendo ndi abwenzi omwe akusambira amaloledwa ndi kudutsa m'masitolo, kumene amagulitsa chinthu chomwecho, koma sangathe kusankha. Ngakhale pamene iye apeza chinachake ndi funso: "Chabwino, zindivuta bwanji ine?", Inu mumachita zovomerezeka, amakoka ndipo amakhumudwa.
Mu mgwirizanowu mu lingaliro la amuna kumeneko muyenera kukhala ndi gawo lina la ufulu, mphamvu, mwinamwake ngakhale maudindo ang'onoang'ono apakhomo ndi mabanja amayamba kukwiyitsa . Kotero, ine ndinkafuna kuchoka kunja kwa tauni kuti ndipange picnic kapena sauna ndi abwenzi anga - ine ndinasonkhana, ndatsala. Mu moyo wokhudzana, sizigwira ntchito mwanjira imeneyo. Tiyenera kumudziwitsa mkaziyo za izi, kumukakamiza kuti agwirizane, ndiye moleza mtima kuyembekezera maola ambirimbiri akuphunzitsani, mvetserani kuti akuiwala chinachake ndipo chilakolako chofuna kupita kwinakwake chikutha.
Zotsutsa mu lingaliro la amuna, zimangopangitsa kuchita chinthu chosatheka. Mwachitsanzo, simungathe kusuta mu khitchini. Mkazi wake atangochoka kwinakwake, lolani kuti phulusa la ndudu liwonekere pa dacha kukhitchini. Zomwezo zimapita kukawonetsa masewero a masewera, kusamba, nsomba, ndi zina zotero. Pamene ichi ndi "chosatheka", ndipamenenso mukufuna kutero. Choncho, pali kukangana. Chifukwa chiyani masiku angapo kumapeto amatha kuthamanga kukagula, atha nthawi mu salons, kukambirana ndi abwenzi, ndipo munthu sangathe kuchita zomwe amakonda chifukwa sakuzikonda.
Moyo wothandizana umasintha kwambiri tanthawuzo la mawu oti "kulankhula". Ngati mkazi ali chete, ndiye munthuyo anachita chinachake cholakwika. Ndipo yesani, ndikuganiza. Kapena zowonjezereka - sangathe kuthandiza kulankhula. Ngati munthu ali chete pa nkhani zake, sakonda, amakhumudwa kuti samamvetsera. Ngati munthu akuika mawu, sangasangalale nawo, chifukwa amaletsa. Kawirikawiri, ndi akazi otero, moyo pamodzi umathera mwamsanga. Mwamuna akufuna mkazi amvetsere ndi kumvetsetsa. Ngati akamba za zomwe wanena kale ndikukumvetsa kuti akuwoneka ngati akumva izi kwa nthawi yoyamba, mwamunayo amatsimikizira kuti moyo wake suli wosangalatsa kwa iye, chifukwa nkhani zake zidutsa "ndi makutu".
Moyo wa mwamuna ndi mkazi si nthawi zonse "nkhondo". Ngati anthu adaganiza kuti azikhala pamodzi, ndiye kuti chidawagwirizanitsa. Mu moyo wokhudzana, akuyang'ana pa doko lachete, kumene mungabwere pambuyo pa ntchito ndikutsitsimula, khalani chete. Kuwonjezera apo, amuna amakonda chakudya chokoma ndipo amafunika kugonana, ngakhale simukufuna. Si anthu onse okonzeka kukhala abambo. Ngati, poyamba, atalandira mokwanira, kutentha ndi chikondi, ndiye kuti msanga mwanayo akuonekera mofulumira, chifukwa amatha kumbuyo.
Amuna akuyang'ana akazi omwe iwo ali "enieni enieni." Amuna amawakonda akamatamandidwa, pamene amavomerezedwa. Iwo sangakhoze kuima pamene akufanizidwa ndi amuna ena ndikuganiza kuti mkaziyo sanasankhepo kusankha, chifukwa amamvera ena. Amuna amayembekezera kwa akazi nzeru, kumvetsetsa ndi chikondi chamanyala.
Mu moyo pamodzi, iye ndi iye amaphunzira kukhala pamodzi.