Wachitatu ndi wopusa kapena momwe angasankhire

Moyo ndi chinthu chovuta. Pambuyo pake, sizichitika kuti munthu ali ndi zonse mwangwiro. Ngakhale chikondi. Kwa wina, imayenda ngati bwalo - anthu awiri amayenda limodzi panthawi yomwe amapewa, nthawi zina amalowa m'matope, ndipo, kulimbana nawo, samaima, samasiyana, samagawanika, ndipo zonse zimapita ndi kupita, zopanda malire ... Izi, mwina , "mawonekedwe" abwino kwambiri. Koma nthawi zambiri zimakhala kuti chikondi chimakhala "chamtatu" ...

Ngati wina alowerera mu chiyanjano - sizoipa. Koma ngati mumalola munthu uyu kuti ayime pakati pa awiriwa, ndiye kuti zonse zimayamba. Chifukwa polola "gawo lachitatu" losayerekezereka mu dziko lanu, mumapanga "mawonekedwe apamtima" omwe aliyense amakumana nawo, njira imodzi. Aliyense amaganiza kuti amakhala mu clover ndi theka lake lachiwiri. Koma pamene pali "gawo lina", chirichonse chimasintha. Mwinamwake ife tonse tinadzipeza tokha mu zochitika izi.

Mukusangalala ndi wokondedwa wanu kwa nthawi yaitali. Iye ndi wokoma mtima, wosamala, wanzeru, womvetsetsa kapena wokondwa, wokongola, wogwira ntchito, wokondwa. Ziribe kanthu chomwe ... Chinthu chachikulu kwa inu ndizo-kwambiri. Munthu uyu ndithudi anapanga moyo wanu bwino. Ngakhale ngati mulibe zofuna zambiri, mumangokhalira kukhala chete ndi iye, mumangoyang'ana maso anu kuti mumvetsetse chilichonse. Mumamva bwino pamodzi. Ngati ndi choncho, ndiye kuti nthawi yomweyo mukufuna kufunsa, nchifukwa ninji mumalola munthu wina wachitatu? Kotero, iwe sumangomaliza chinachake, iwe umanyenga aliyense, poyamba pawekha. Choncho, vutoli laikidwa mozama kwambiri.

Mwinamwake inu simukumverera kuti ndi inu amene angakhale mthandizi wanu masiku onse? Kapena, mmalo mwake, mumamva naye ngati khoma lamwala, kotero inu mukuwopa kutayika, koma inu simukukwanira ndipo mukuyang'ana chinachake mwa munthu wina? Pakhoza kukhala njira zambiri. Ndipo kusankha kumayenera kupangidwa. Sikoyenera kuti uchite ma hares awiri, aliyense amadziwa bwinobwino momwe izi zingathetsere.

Kodi mungasankhe bwanji? Pambuyo pake, nonse aŵiri ndinu okondedwa kwa njira yanu. Choyamba dikirani pang'ono, pitirizani kuyankhula kwa onse awiri. Ndizovuta, mwinamwake posachedwa mudzayamba kuthana ndi ululu wa chikumbumtima. Koma nthawi zina zimathandiza. Monga akunena, nthawi idzaika zonse pamalo ake. Ngati mukumvetsa kuti izi sizingapitilirebe, ndi nthawi yomaliza.

Ganizirani zomwezo kachiwiri - mverani mtima wanu. Kodi ukukuuzani chiyani? Palibe? Ndiye, mwinamwake, simumakonda munthu nkomwe. Ndipo ngati mtima ukupatsani yankho: "Ndimakonda chimodzimodzi," zikutanthawuza kuti zasokonezeka ndi inu, chifukwa izi sizingakhale mwanjira iliyonse.

Tsopano mukufunika kuti mukhale ndi logic. Nthawi zina zimathandiza kupanga mndandanda wa makhalidwe abwino ndi oipa. Ndiyeno, poyerekeza, inu mukhoza kale kuganizira.
Njira ina yothandiza ndikulankhulana za ubale weniweni ndi onse awiri. Mvetserani momwe akuwonera tsogolo lawo ndi inu, zomwe iwowo amafuna ndi kuziyembekezera pazinthu zonsezi. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti timaganizira zinthu zonse tokha, koma zimakhala zosiyana. Tiyerekeze kuti mukuganiza kuti moyo wabwino ndi munthu, banja, ana ambiri, ndipo akufuna kuti azikhala ndi nthawi yabwino, adzalandire bwino, azichita ntchito, osati kumanga chikondi.

Mutasankha, nthawi yomweyo muuzeni "wotayika" wa chisankho chanu. Musaope kumukhumudwitsa. Iwe sumakhala ndi ngongole kwa wina aliyense, usadzidzudzule wekha. Inu mumasankha njira yanu nokha. Lankhulani naye momveka bwino ndi molimba mtima, mwinamwake iye akhoza kuzindikira mawu anu ndi chiyembekezo cha mtsogolo, chimene simungathe kumupatsa. Mupempheni kuti akhalebe mabwenzi, koma ngati inu nonse mukumvetsa kuti mukufunikira.

Sikuti nthawi zonse timasankha bwino. Ndipo izi, ndithudi, sizikutonthoza nkomwe. Chifukwa chaichi, anthu akuopa kuchita zinthu zovuta, poganiza kuti adzadandaula. Chabwino ndiye. Mwina ... Koma aliyense amaphunzira kuchokera ku zolakwitsa zawo, ndipo ndi momwe moyo umayambira. Zochitika zopanda phindu ... Musayang'ane njira zosavuta, musazengere zopinga, nthawizonse mukwaniritse zotsatira, pindani zomwe mumadzifunira nokha.