Zinthu 3 zomwe munthuyo sangasiye

Mutu wa nkhani yathu lero ndi "zinthu 3 zimene munthu sangakane." Monga tikudziwira, anthu onse ndi osiyana kwambiri. Onse ali ndi zofuna zosiyana, malingaliro pa moyo, kumvetsetsa kosiyana kwa nkhani inayake. Mwachitsanzo, mwamuna amene mumamukonda kapena amakonda amamuchitira chinachake chomwe chikuwoneka cholakwika kwa inu, kapena samachita zomwe mukuganiza kuti ndi zolondola. Kawirikawiri, mumayesetsa kusintha njira imodzi kapena ina. Inu mukufuna kusintha ndi kuchitseka khungu kuchokera kwa munthu wabwino amene mwakhala mukulota za moyo wanu wonse. Patapita nthawi, amayamba chifukwa chochotsera khalidwe lake, ndipo mwina amakhala ndi makhalidwe atsopano. Koma sakufuna kusintha chinachake. Ngakhale amamenyana ndi khoma beisya, koma kuchokera apa sakufuna kuchotsa. Ndipo, ngati iye sakufuna, ndiye izo sizidzatero. Kodi mungamvetsetse bwanji ndikukonzekera kuti izi sizichitika mmoyo wake? Pachifukwa ichi, tazindikira zinthu zofunika kwambiri kwa amuna, zomwe sangadzitsutse okha.

Ndipo kotero, chinthu chofunikira ndi chofunikira kwambiri kwa mwamuna aliyense, ndithudi, ndi mkazi. Aliyense wa abambo aamuna ali ndi ubwino wokongola wa akazi. Ena amakonda atsikana apang'ono, wamtali, ena - otsika ndi otsika, kapena mwinamwake - inchi kakang'ono. Izi siziri zofunika kwambiri. Ndikofunika kuti munthu asadzikane yekha polankhula ndi mkazi wokongola. Amakonda, mwinamwake, kuposa wina aliyense wa ife, akamamvetsera, akamamuyamikira komanso kumamuyamikira. Amatha kukondana ndi mtsikana, kuyitanira kuvina, kuwauza nthabwala ndikumuuza mawu okondweretsa, chifukwa mwanjira imeneyi amuna amafuna kutsimikiza kuti ali ndi zida zam'mimba, ndikudzikweza ndi kudzikweza. Iwo akhoza kuchita zonsezi ngakhale atakwatirana, kapena ali pachibwenzi chachikulu. Kusiyana kokha mwa amuna otero ndi okhawo, pokambirana ndi mkazi, samapitirira malire a khalidwe labwino, pamene ena angapange tsatanetsatane mwachangu ndi mwachindunji. Ena amatha kuthetsa zopanda pake, kusinthana ndikuyamikirika ndi kuyang'ana kwa coquette, ndipo amuna ena akuwonjezera mndandandawu ndi chibwenzi chakuthupi.
Chinthu chachiwiri, popanda chimene munthu sangathe kuchita ndipo sangatsutse - izi ndi zachibadwa zachiwerewere. Nthawi zonse komanso nthawi zonse kugonana kolimba kunkafuna mkazi yemwe amamukonda, ndipo amadziwa dziko lake lamkati. Ndipo iye sakanakhoza kumudziwa iye, chifukwa ngati iye sakanamukonda iye mu kugonana, iye sanafune kukhala 50% naye iye kenanso. Kodi mungatani pa izo? Tonsefe tili ndi maphala. Koma amuna pankhaniyi ndi olunjika komanso odzichepetsa. Ndiye, pamene tikusowa malingaliro, amafunika kuchita zinthu zofunika kwambiri kwa iwo. Amuna ena amathamangira kugonana pofuna kudzikwaniritsa okha. Iwo amaganiza kuti chifukwa cha zizolowezi zawo ndikuwonetsani theka la zovuta kuchokera ku Kamasutra, mumalitenga, chifukwa ndi mwamuna komanso mbuye mu bizinesi ili. Ndipo ndi ochepa chabe omwe amafuna mofunitsitsa kukondweretsa wokondedwa wawo ndipo samachita zizoloŵezi zomveka ndi iye, koma amangomupereka iye. Amuna oterewa amadziwa kuti kuchokera ku zibwenzi zoterozo onse awiri amatha kumverera komanso kumayandikana kwambiri. Nthawi zina kugonana kwa mwamuna kumatha kumangokhalira kumangokhalira kupanikizika, kapena mwinamwake mosiyana, kumamupatsa mphamvu ndi mphamvu. Kugonana moyenera kumapatsa chidaliro kuti msungwanayo ndi wake, chifukwa amuna onse, kaya ali ndi usiku umodzi, mwezi kapena zaka zambiri. Ubale wapamtima ndi chimodzi mwa zigawo za ubale, popanda zomwe zina zonse ziyamba kutaya katundu wawo. Ngakhale mutakhala wokongola tsiku lililonse kwa munthu wokondedwa wanu, mudzapita ku chipinda cholimbitsa thupi, mudzadya bwino ndikudya chakudya chokoma, ndipo mukugonana simudzamukwanira, kapena poyipa, sadzakhalapo, ubalewo udzachepa. Pang'onopang'ono inu mudzayamba kudzipatula nokha kuchokera kwa wina ndi mzake, ndewu, zowopsya ndi kufotokozera maubwenzi, kapena vuto lopweteka koma lopweteka la vuto ili, lidzalowetsa m'malo opweteka ndi kumpsompsona. Ndiyeno kusakhulupirika kungayambe ndipo moyo udzasanduka gehena. Mulimonsemo, banjali likufunika kuphunzira momwe angalankhulirane. Ndipo musamangomvetsera kwa wokondedwa wanu, komanso kumumvetsera, kumvetsa ndi kudalira.
Choncho, pazinthu zitatu zomwe amuna sangakane, malo achitatu amakhala ndi nthawi zina kuchokera ku theka lachiwiri kapena banja lonse. Zikhoza kuwonetseratu kukhala paokha, komanso pokhala mabwenzi. Mwamuna wanu ayenera kupumula kuchokera kwa inu, komanso inu kuchokera kwa iye. Ndikudziwa kuti izi sizikumveka bwino, koma ndizoona. Amasowa nthawi yoti aganizire zinthu zambiri, kulota, kumiza kapena kusiya basi. Mwachidziwikire, iye, monga munthu aliyense wamba, amafunika kuti nthawi zina azichotsedwa m'banja. Amatha kuchita zinthu zomwe amakonda, mwachitsanzo, kujambula chithunzi, kulemba vesi, kujambula zithunzi, kuimba, kuvina, chinthu chachikulu ndikuti palibe amene amaziwona kapena kuzilepheretsa. Kapena mwinamwake ali ndi zokwanira kuti aziwonerera TV payekha, kotero kuti palibe wina amene amawonetsa kanema yemwe amakonda kwambiri kapena sakufuna kusintha makina ojambulajambula.
Amuna ena amafuna kugwiritsa ntchito nthawi yawo yaufulu mu bwenzi la abwenzi ndikungoyankhula za chirichonse, koma zidzakhala zokambirana za amuna. Yang'anani nawo mpira kapena bokosi, imwani mowa ndi nsomba. Pitani kukawedza kapena kusaka. Mwachizoloŵezi, sungani moyo ndi kuchokera kwa mkazi wake wokongola ndi wokondedwa. Kenako mubwere kunyumba ndi maganizo abwino, ndi mtima wowala, ndi kumpsompsona iye yekha, wokondedwa ndi womvetsetsa mkazi.
Nazi zinthu zitatu zomwe nthawi zonse zimalemekezedwa ndi munthu komanso zomwe amatsutsa. Iwo akhoza kuthandizidwa payekha payekha payekha. Mwachitsanzo, kukwapula, monga kukhala mu chimbudzi kwa mphindi 20-30 mutatha kuwerenga buku lochititsa chidwi ndi magazini. Kapena atapachikidwa mu galasi, atayang'ana kale mafuta a injini kwa nthawi zana kapena nthawizonse amamangiriza chinachake pamwamba apo. Chabwino, mwachidule, zinthu zing'onozing'ono zoterozo zingakhale zazikulu, chinthu chachikulu ndikumvetsa izi ndi kutenga mwamuna wanu monga momwe aliri, pamodzi ndi ntchentche zake.