Mudakumana naye - wokongola, wolimba mtima, wanzeru, mu mawu amodzi bwino (osachepera, tsopano mukuganiza choncho). Ndipo mtima wanu ukugunda mwamsanga kuchokera ku lingaliro chabe la izo. Mukufuna kukhala pafupi naye monga momwe mungathere, kuyankhulana naye, kuyenda, kukhala moyo wake. Koma pakadali pano, mwatsoka, simunadziwe bwino ndipo angathe, ngakhale kwathunthu ndipo osakayikira za momwe mumamvera. Funso lanu lalikulu mu mkhalidwe uno, ndi momwe mungayambitsire kukambirana ndi mnyamata amene mumamukonda?
Kumbukirani, kuyankhulana konse kumayambira ndi dongosolo limodzi lokhazikika. Uku ndiko kukhazikitsidwa kwa mauthenga (mawu oyambirira kuti ayambe kukambirana), ndemanga yanu (kumbukirani, simudzakhalanso ndi mwayi wachiwiri kuti mupange kaye kaye kaye momwe mudzakhazikitsire nokha, kotero mutha kuzindikira). Kenaka, izi ndizo zokambirana (zokambirana, mafunso - ziwonetsedwe pakulankhulirana) ndipo nthawi yomweyo zokambiranazo ziyenera kukhala ndi mawonekedwe omwe ali ndi zifukwa zomveka (kuchokera kumbali zonse) ndi zolinga zowonjezera kukambirana kwanu (kusinthanitsa manambala a foni, msonkhano wotsatira). Ambiri aife, mosiyana ndi momwe zingawonekere, akukayikira, kubwera ndikudziŵa choyamba ndi chinthu chawo chokondweretsa. Choncho, atsikana ambiri sadziwa momwe angayambitsire kukambirana ndi mnyamata amene mumamukonda.
Zonsezi ndizoyamba, chifukwa chakumverera kwanu, zochitika zanu komanso maganizo anu okhudzana ndi munthu uyu. Sinthani maganizo anu pa iye. Panthawiyi, munthu uyu akuwoneka kuti ndi wokwezeka kwambiri, wosatengeka ndipo kotero iwe, msungwana wamba wamba, amawopa kuti abwere kudzakumana. Mukuwopa ndi mtunda wamalingaliro pakati pa inu. Pankhaniyi, m'pofunika kuchepetsa mtunda umenewu mu chikumbumtima chanu. Ikani munthu uyu payekha, dzimikize nokha kuti "ali chimodzimodzi ndi iwe". Ndipo chifukwa cha ichi muyenera kuganizira kufunika kwake, kuwuonetsa mosiyana, mu mitundu ina ya maganizo anu. Mukazindikira izi, mosakayika mumvetsetsa kuti kuti muyambe kuyesetsa ndikudziŵika bwino, zidzakhala zosavuta kwa inu.
Ndipo izi zimadziwika bwino. Iwe unagonjetsa mantha ako, manyazi, kunyada ndipo unapita kwa iye poyamba. Poyamba, pa nkhaniyi, sankhani nthawi yabwino, kuti mnyamatayu asafulumire kulikonse, sakuyembekeza wina aliyense, koma anali muulendo waulere. Mwachitsanzo, phunzirani zambiri zokhudzana ndi iye, zofuna zake, malo opumula. Ataphunzira izi kwa iwe komanso makadi onse ali m'manja. Malo ake opumula ndi abwino kwambiri kuti azidziwana bwino. Momwe mungayambitsire zokambiranazo? Musaiwale kuti achinyamata nthawi zambiri amatha kukambirana ndi atsikana kusiyana ndi atsikana, choncho sikofunika kupanga chilichonse chachilendo. Yambani ndi mawu omveka: "hello", ndiyeno mukhoza kuseka kapena kubwera ndi chinachake choyambirira chomwe chingamukhudze iye. Ndi bwino kuti mnyamata afunse funso, ndi limodzi lomwe silingayankhidwe m'mawu amodzi. Inde, njira yabwino, ngati nkhaniyi ikugwirizana ndi mphindi kapena malo pomwe chirichonse chikuchitika. Musaiwale kumwetulira - khalidwe lalikulu la mtsikana mwachinyengo cha kugonana kolimba. Ngati zili zoyenera, pa zokambirana, mutha kumuyamikira. Anthu onse amakonda kulankhula za iwo eni (makamaka anyamata). Khalani ndi chidwi pa zokonda zake, zosangalatsa, zokonda. Zachizoloŵezi, ngakhale zazing'ono, nkhani zimathandizira nthaŵi zonse. Pofuna kuti mwana athe kudziwulula, mungathe kudziwa, mwachitsanzo, nyimbo zomwe mumakonda, ndiyeno mufunseni za zomwe amakonda. Funsani momwe akukondera. Malo ati mumzinda amakonda kwambiri. Lankhulani za zomwe zikukuzungulirani, ndipo mitu idzadzipezera nokha ndipo mwamsanga muuzeni mmene zokambirana zanu zidzakhalire paokha. Ngati mutayika ndipo simudziwa choti mungamufunse, mum'funseni za chinthu china chachilendo kuchokera ku moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku (mungathe kuphunzira za filimuyo kapena filimu yotsiriza yachisangalalo), kuchokera ku yankho lake mupeze tsatanetsatane ndi kufunsa za izo. Pano pali mutu wa zokambirana zanu zoyamba. Ndikuganiza, kotero kuti zokambirana zanu zidzadutsa pambali ya zofuna zake. Apa chinthu chachikulu ndikuwonetsa kuti kumvetsera ndi kuyamikira womverayo ndi ndani yemwe amadziwa kulingalira ndi malingaliro ake. Mwa njira, sizodabwitsa kukumbukira kuti khalidwe la kukambirana ndi nkhani ya anthu awiri omwe amatha kukambirana. Kotero musayese kusonyeza mphamvu zanu. Kuitana atsikana - mvetserani komanso mochepa kuti musokoneze mnyamata.
Kuphatikiza kwakukulu kwa kudziwana kudzakhala kukutha kwanu kuti muwonetsere koyamba. Kudalira chikhumbo chake chakudziwani bwino. Koma, musaiwale, ndinu mtsikana ndipo nthawi zonse muyenera kusamala, musatsegule nokha zana. Anyamata amakonda anyamata - puzzles ndipo nthawi zonse amafuna kuwadziwa momwe angathere. Mwa njira, mwa kukondweretsa iye, mudzatha kulongosola ubale wanu nokha monga momwe mukufunira nokha. Kupititsa patsogolo mbiri yanu "yodziphatikizana" ndikuwonekera mwachindunji, kuchokera kuyankhulana kwanu koyamba, pambuyo pake wokondedwa wanu adzisankhira yekha, ndiye kuti ali ndi chiyanjano chotani ndi inu. Choncho, yesetsani kukonda kwanu, malingaliro anu, kuseketsa, nzeru ndi chithumwa, kotero kuti wosankhidwa wanu ali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi inu. Kuonjezera apo, kwenikweni kuchokera kwa oyamba pachibwenzi mwamuna ayenera kudziwa chimodzimodzi (osaganiza), ndi udindo wotani mumamupatsa. Zoonadi, kulira momveka bwino za momwe akumvera sikunali konse, koma kudana mopanda mantha ndi nkhani ina.
Ndipo potsiriza, ine ndikufuna kunena, iwe ndiwe woyambitsa - iwe ndi kumanga. Ndipo yesetsani kukhala achilengedwe, woona mtima, okondwa. Khalani nokha ndi munthu amene mumakonda kwambiri. Chitani kuti panthawi yomwe mukukwatirana ndi mnyamata wina mumakhala womasuka komanso wokondweretsa. Dziwonetseni nokha momwe mungathere, ndipo mosakayikira mudzapeza mnyamata amene mumamukonda.