Maloto obisika a mkazi wokhwima .
Malinga ndi kafukufuku wa zaumoyo, amayi ambiri omwe ali ndi zaka makumi atatu ndi zisanu akufuna kukhala paubwenzi ndi mnyamata. Kotero, kuchokera pa zikwi zitatu anafunsidwa madona a usinkhu wa pakati, makumi asanu ndi atatu pa atatu aliwonse samabisa maumboni awo kwa achinyamata osachepera khumi kapena ngakhale makumi awiri. Koma azimayi makumi atatu ndi asanu ndi awiri pa 100 aliwonse amavutika kuti apereke yankho ku funso ili, ndipo otsalira omwe anafunsidwa adavomereza kuti amatsogolera anyamata m'maloto awo, koma m'moyo weniweni sangagwirizane nawo. Malinga ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, chifukwa cha zochitika zakale za amayi kwa anyamata ocheperapo kuposa iwowo akhoza kutchulidwa mosamala chilakolako cha amayi achikulire, kuti akhale ndi "achinyamata" omwe ali pafupi ndi mnyamata wamng'ono.
Mwa zina, ubale wotere ndi munthu wamng'ono kwambiri umathandiza mkazi kuti adzinenere yekha kuti ndi munthu, amadzipangira yekha ndi kudziwonetsera yekha kuti ndi wokongola komanso wokondweretsa munthu woteroyo. Mwamwayi, akatswiri a zamaganizo omwe ali ndi funsoli adatha kuyankhulana ndi akazi ochepa mu msinkhu uwu, makamaka, amayi oterewa omwe amakhala ovuta kwa anyamata ndipo amafuna kuwona pamsana pawo pachibwenzi.
Chizoloŵezi cha amayi kwa achinyamata ndi mphekesera .
Kuyanjana pakati pa anthu ndi mphekesera kwa nthawi yaitali. Ndipotu maubwenzi oterewa "adathamangira" m'diso la munthu. Ambiri a iwo amatsutsa, ndipo ambiri amawathandiza. Kawirikawiri, ndi anthu angati, maganizo ambiri pankhaniyi. Mwa njira, chokondweretsa ndi chakuti kusagwirizana pakati, pamene mwamuna wamkulu kuposa gulu la amayi amachiza, mwachibadwa, koma ubale umene mkazi ali wamkulu - kukhala pangozi kukhala magwero a mikangano ndi nedomekov. Nthawi zambiri, maubwenzi oterewa amatha kuweruzidwa osati ndi anzanu komanso anzako, komanso achibale. Ndi chifukwa chake, awiriwa amayenera kuthana ndi mavutowa ndipo nthawi zonse amangokhalira kumenyera okha chimwemwe, komanso kutsimikizira ena chikondi chawo ndi ufulu wawo. Mwa njira, maubwenzi oterewa nthawi zambiri amatchedwa opambana ndi olemera, omwe amachititsa kuti akhale m'banja. Sikuti anthu onse ozungulira amakhulupirira zotsirizazo, akukwaniritsa zolinga ndi zofuna za mkazi wokhwima ndi mnyamata.
Kufunika kwa ubale wosagwirizana .
Kawirikawiri amai amawasamala anyamata, pamene safuna chidwi ndi zinthu zakuthupi. Akazi oterewa, monga lamulo, kwa nthawi yaitali adadzizindikiratu okha m'moyo ndipo adachitika ngati munthu. Akaziwa ali kale ndi malipiro abwino, nyumba zawo ndipo safuna chilichonse kupatula chikondi ndi chikondi. Ndicho chifukwa chake, kuyembekezera munthu wamng'ono kuposa iye mwini, thandizo lachuma, dona wa msinkhu sakufuna. Choyamba, mu ubale woterewu, ukhoza kukhala ndi moyo wogonana ndi wachinyamata. Izi makamaka chifukwa chakuti amayi alibe chidwi chokwanira kuchokera kwa amuna a msinkhu womwewo, ndipo amafuna chinachake chapadera ndi chikhalidwe: usiku umadzazidwa ndi chilakolako, chomwe chidzamuthandiza kuti asamve zosangalatsa zokha, koma kachiwiri. Ndipo pambuyo pa zonse, amuna makumi anayi ndi ovuta kumupatsa mkazi chilakolako chenicheni, motsutsa kuti akhoza kupereka mnyamata wamng'ono. Chodziwikiratu ndi chakuti zaka makumi atatu zisanachitike, amayi amatha kuchita chiwerewere, pomwe amuna, mosiyana, amachepetsa.
Kuwonjezera pa pamwambapa, ubale woterewu uli ndi chisamaliro chapadera ndi chitetezo. Kwa anyamata, mkazi wotero angalowe m'malo mwa mayi, kukhala mlangizi ndi walangizi m'moyo, kumuthandiza kudzizindikira yekha ndi kupeza chikhalidwe chake mwa anthu. Mtundu woterewu wotetezedwa ndi amayi nthawi zonse umayamikiridwa ndipo amanyalanyazidwa ndi amayi.
Kodi mungatani kuti mukhalebe ogwirizana komanso omvetsetsa ?
Choyamba, mkazi yemwe ali ndi zofooka kwa anyamata wamng'ono kuposa iye yekha ayenera kudziyang'anitsitsa kuti aziyang'anitsitsa nthawi zonse pafupi ndi mwamuna wotere woyenera komanso wamng'ono kuposa zaka zake. Amafunikanso zonsezi kuti athe kupikisana ndi atsikana aang'ono. Koma lingaliro loti ngati nsanje yaikazi, mwatsoka, ndilo gawo lalikulu la chiyanjano. Ndicho chifukwa chake mayi ayenera kukhala ndi makadi onse opanga malipenga kuti azisunga mnyamatayo pafupi naye.
Zina mwazinthu, chibwenzi chachinyamata sayenera kuika pa "mwana". Izi ndizo chifukwa chakuti anthu onse (ngakhale ali ndi zaka makumi awiri) amalowerera ku utsogoleri mwa zonse. Ndicho chifukwa chake mwamuna akuyenera kulimbikitsa chisamaliro ichi ndi kuti asamangonena za kusowa kwa moyo.
Mmodzi sayenera kugwirizanitsa chiyanjano ndi ndalama. Ngati mayiyo ndi wolemera ndipo nthawi zonse amamukumbutsa mnyamatayo, ngati akugula chidwi chake, akufuna kumangogonana ndibwino basi, mnyamata angangowoneka kuti akugwiritsa ntchito. Ndichifukwa chake kukhala ndi moyo wabwino pano sikuyenera kusewera, koma kumvetsetsa ndi kutseguka ndilo cholinga chachikulu cha kugwirizana pakati pa mkazi wamkulu ndi mwamuna.
Mu ubale wotero, musamasuke ngakhale mutalowa m'banja. Musamukakamize munthuyo, azidzudzula ndi kukhala ndi nsanje za hysterical dicks, ngati atasankha mkazi wamkulu kuposa iyeyo, nayenso, ayenera kudzitama!
Ndipo potsiriza kumaliza mutu wathu, ine ndikufuna kunena kuti chikhumbo cha akazi kwa amuna omwe ali achichepere kuposa iwowo ndi chachilendo ndipo ubale wotere umapangitsa anthu ambiri kukhala osangalala. Ndicho chifukwa chake, simuyenera kuopa mphekesera za anthu ndi miseche zomwe zingayende limodzi. Choncho, ngati nonse muli ndi chikhumbo chokhala limodzi, onetsetsani kuti mukuyiyika pambali ya ubale wotero. Pambuyo pake, kusiyana kwa zaka zapitazi sikunayendepo gawo lalikulu, chinthu chachikulu apa ndikumverera!