Zikuwoneka kuti chimwemwe ndi lingaliro losagonana. Ndipo ndithudi, mu lingaliro la padziko lonse, ife tonse tikufuna chinthu chomwecho - kuti winawake angayembekezere winawake kunyumba, monga aliyense ali wathanzi ndi chirichonse mu mzimu umenewo. Koma inu muyenera kuvomereza, chifukwa aliyense wa ife ali ndi chimwemwe chachikulu ndi chimwemwe chochepa, chimene nthawizina timachitcha "chimwemwe chochepa." Kotero tiyeni tiwone momwe chisangalalo cha mwamunayo chiriri. Nanga udindo wa amai ndi chiyani pa "chimwemwe"?
Galimoto
Kulankhula, ndithudi, kudzayenda pagalimoto. Awa ndiwo malo opatulika a osankhidwa anu. Malo ake, ana ake, wachiwiri wake wokondedwa. Udindo wa galimoto pakati pa amuna ndi wofanana ndi udindo wa bwenzi kapena mwana. Zofunikira sizomwe ziri zokwera mtengo, koma chifukwa chakuti amuna athu ndi tacostroenes. Gulani radiyo yatsopano chifukwa cha "kukongola" kwawo - ichi ndicho chisangalalo. Ndipo samasowa thukuta latsopano mpaka matayala a chisanu amagulidwa. Ndipo ndalama sizomvetsa chisoni ngati zimakhala zosangalatsa zawo.
Amayi anu ndi amayi anu
Anecdotes za apongozi ake adawonekera chifukwa. Ngakhale wokondedwa wanu ali ndi ubale wabwino ndi kholo lanu, sizikutanthauza kuti ali wokonzeka kuziganizira tsiku ndi tsiku kunyumba kwanu kapena, poipa, kuti mugawane nawo. Ngati chiyanjano pakati pa mnyamata ndi mayi anu, cholankhulana momasuka, ndiye kuti chikhale chosangalatsa chidzakhalanso chosavuta - kuchepetsa chiwerengerochi. Wina anganene kuti izi ndi zolakwika, koma kwenikweni, inuyo nokha simukufuna kuwona nkhope yake yosakhutira kapena kumumvetsera. Simungathetse vutoli, koma musasokoneze maganizo anu ndipo musangalatse wosankhidwa wanu. Zokwanira kusonkhana pamodzi pa maholide.
Ntchito - yachiwiri kunyumba
Ndani mwa ife samalota ntchito yoteroyo, yomwe tikufuna kuthawa m'mawa. Mosakayikira, ntchito yanga yomwe ndimakonda ndi chimwemwe. Ndi nkhani ina pamene mavuto amabwera kuntchito. Atsikana amatha kuchoka pa iwo ndikudziiwala okha mukulumikizana kwa wokondedwa, chifukwa izi ndizovuta kwambiri. Iwo ndi nyumba zidzakhala zikukonzekera ndondomeko yothetsera vutoli, ndipo kuleza mtima kwanu ndi kusafuna kwanu kumvetsetsa chifukwa chake kuli kovuta komanso osayang'ana pa inu kungangowakwiyitsa. Muzochitika zotero, nkofunikira kusonyeza kumvetsetsa. Phunzirani kuzindikira pamene mwamuna wanu akukufunani, ndipo mukamusiya yekha.
Pali_ndi zabwino, koma ndi zabwino kudya - ndi bwino kwambiri
Njira kumtima wa munthu .... Aliyense amakumbukira zomwe mwambiwu umathera. Palibe amene angatsutsane ndi mfundo yakuti ngati mtsikana akhoza kuphika, izi ndizophatikizapo mu mbiri yake ya mkazi wamtsogolo. Ndipo ngati msungwana angadzitamande ndi maluso osakanizika ophika, ndiye kuti alibe mtengo. Choyamba, amuna amakonda kudya mokoma, komanso chakudya chopangidwa ndi kunyumba nthawi zonse chimakhala choperewera kusiyana ndi zakudya zogulitsira zakudya kapena zinyenyeswazi. Chachiwiri, zidzitamandeni pakati pa abwenzi kuti madzulo adadya Tabaka nkhuku, mwakachetechete wophikidwa ndi wokondedwa wake, maloto mwamuna aliyense. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, inunso mumakondwera, mukuyang'ana nkhope yosangalala ya mwamuna wanu, pamene adzaluma mafupa.
Cholinga, cholinga, cholinga!
Sikuti anthu onse ali mafani a mpira, koma ambiri ndi awa. Ndipo popanda ichi palibe chomwe chingachitike. Ngati masewero ofunika kwambiri ali pa TV, ndiye kuti atsikana, mutha kupita kumbuyo, ndipo ngati mnyamatayo ali ndi tikiti ndipo masewerawa alipo, mukhoza kuiwala za usiku wamakono pogwiritsa ntchito makandulo. Chochita? Pali njira ziwiri zomwe zimachokera: yoyamba ndi kuvomereza ndi kusuntha, pambuyo pake, mpira sungasonyeze tsiku lililonse; lachiwiri ndilololumikizana naye, kuti agawane zofuna zake. Zoona, si atsikana onse okonzekera njira yachiwiri. Masewerawa atangomaliza kutha, ndipo maonekedwe ake onse adzakambilana pa gulu la amuna, wokondedwa wanu abwereranso ku manja anu amphamvu ndikusangalala.
Msirikali Wonse
Zofunikira za amuna za khalidwe la chikazi ndi khalidwe likhoza kuchepetsedwa, koma zonsezi zikhoza kulembedwa mwachindunji chimodzi: kukhitchini - mbuye, pabedi - wonyenga, pagulu - wamanyazi. Choncho zimakhala kuti mkazi ayenera kukhala msilikali pafupifupi konsekonse. Ndiye iye adzakhala wokondwa. Tsopano amayi ali ndi kudzidzimvera, amati, chifukwa chiyani ife tonse titha kuchita izi? Rasslabljtes, atsikana, tonsefe tikukhumba izi, popanda zofuna za munthu. Kotero kwenikweni, aliyense wa ife ndi kasupe wa matalente, sikuti tonsefe tatsegula iwo kapena alibe wina woti titsegule. Choncho nkotheka kuti chinsinsi chenicheni cha chisangalalo cha wokondedwa wanu chili mwa inu.
Anzanu ndi opatulika
Pokhala wakhanda, mwamuna amagwiritsidwa ntchito pokomana ndi abwenzi pamene akuganiza. Ndipo tsopano, pamene ali ndi iwe, ayenera kusintha chinachake. Mlingaliro langa, izi ndi zosalungama. Ndipo ndithudi iye ali wolondola. Ziri bwino, zovala zoyera ziyenera kuimitsidwa kapena kuchepetsedwa, koma izi sizikutanthauza kuti madzulo madzulo a Lachisanu adzathetsedwa. Tulutsani leash, ndipo mwamuna wanu adzakhala ndi abwenzi okondwera kubwerera kwa inu.
"... Ndikanabereka mwana wolimba kwa atate wa tsar"
Kubadwa kwa mwana kwa mwamuna ndikofunika kwambiri, ndipo kubadwa kwa mwana ndi holide yonse. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mtsikanayo angakonde pang'ono, zangochitika kuti kubadwa kwa "ochepa mu banja" oimira kwambiri kunyada kwambiri. Inde, pano simungathe kuwonetsa zotsatira zake, koma mukhoza kuyesera zambiri.
Monga mukuonera, amuna amakhala ndi chimwemwe chawo, chomwe chimapanga chithunzithunzi cha chimwemwe. Ndipo kutenga nawo gawo mu njirayi ndizovuta kwambiri.