Madona okongola amakhala ndi mwayi waukulu kuposa amuna. Ndipotu palibe chomwe chingalepheretse kupanga chikondi monga momwe akufunira. Panthawi zovuta kwambiri, mkazi sangamve kuti ali ndi vuto. Ngati ndi kotheka, mukhoza kupanga chilakolako ndikuwoneka. Koma mwamunayo sangawonetsere kukonzekera kugonana pamene ali ndi zizindikiro zotsalira kapena erection yofooka. Ndipo msiyeni mkaziyo asayembekezere kumva zakuya kwa zochitika za munthu. Koma ayenera kuyesa kumvetsetsa mmene wokondedwa wake akumvera komanso kumuthandiza pa nthawi yovuta.
Mawu oti "kusowa mphamvu" akutanthawuza kuti palibe erection. Komabe, vuto la mwamuna wamwamuna pabedi silimangokhala gawo lachipatala. Sitidzafotokozera matenda osokoneza bongo omwe amachititsa kuti asakhale ndi mphamvu kapena kufooka. Tidzakambirana zokhazokha pamene mavuto amayamba chifukwa cha maganizo ena. Ndipotu, kuchira makamaka kumadalira mnzanuyo. Ndipo chifukwa cha ichi, mkazi ayenera kudziwa zomwe zingayambitse chifukwa cha kulephera kwake kwa wokondedwayo komanso momwe ayenera kukhalira pazochitika zinazake.
Koma musanayambe kuphunzira zifukwa, muyenera kukumbukira kamodzi ndi zotsatirazi zonse: vuto lanu silimomweko! Musati mutenge izi ngati umboni wokhuza kugonana kwanu. Choncho mmalo mozembera ndikuganiza mozama za momwe mukucheperapo, yesetsani kufufuza mkhalidwe ndi kuyerekeza ndi zotsatirazi: kodi pali zofanana? Kenaka tsatirani malangizo athu - momwe tingakhalire komanso momwe sitiyenera kukhalira.
Nthawi yoyamba
Osakhala ndi chiyembekezo chokwera, atakhala pabedi limodzi ndi mnyamata wamng'ono. Makamaka ngati muli ndi chidziwitso pa nkhani yogonana, ndipo mnzanu akadali namwali. Chifukwa, zimaphatikizapo mantha opatulika a zakusintha kwanu mu masewera achikondi. Ndipo izi, zikhoza kumuletsa kukhala "pamwamba". Chifukwa chosowa mphamvu ndi chakuti mnyamatayo amakhala zaka zambiri akuyembekeza nthawi yayikuluyi, amaganizira za iye nthawi zonse, kukambirana zomwe angathe kuchita ndi anzako. Chotsatira chake, pamene chokhumba chauchilakolakochi chiri pafupi ndi thupi, thupi lake ndi mitsempha ya mtima ndi yowonjezereka. Pachifukwa ichi, wokondedwa wamng'onoyo akupitiriza kukhulupirira kuti amadzilamulira yekha kwathunthu. Koma thupi silinganyengedwe, choncho matenda osakhalitsa kapena ophera erection si osowa. Mwadzidzidzi amayamba kumangokhalira kumangokhalira kumangoganiza.
Mwamwayi, matenda ake amatha kufalikira kwa wokondedwayo, amakhalanso wosasangalala. Izi zimaphatikizapo kapu ya madzi kumoto wa chilakolako. Liwu lachinyengo lachinyengo limayamba kung'ung'udza kwa iye kuti mkazi wokondedwa sakufuna kugonana naye. Ndipo posakhalitsa pambuyo pake, mwadzidzidzi amadziŵa ndi mantha kuti ngakhale akufuna, sizikanatha kugwira ntchito - chifukwa sangathe. Ndiyeno pali lingaliro latsopano, lochititsa manyazi kwambiri kuti tsopano ayamba kufotokozera aliyense ndi aliyense za chibwibwi chake choyipa pabedi. Ndipo apa munthu wosauka onse atsekeredwa mwamphamvu mwamphamvu.
Ndipotu, palibe chinthu chapadera pazinthu izi, mkazi safunikira kuchita. Musayesere kuchita zina zogonana ndi zomwe ziri, ndiyeno mukutaya kwa luso kugwa pamtsamiro ndi kuusa moyo kwakukulu. Izo sizingathandize. Chinthu chokha chimene mungakulangize - khalani oleza mtima, musakakamize zochitika. Lolani mphunzitsi wanu wosadziŵa kuti amvetsetse kuti mumamvetsa vuto lake, kuti mwachibadwa. Mumpang'onopang'ono muzimusokoneza maganizo, ndipo yesetsani kuyambanso zonse, kuonjezera nthawi yoyambira.
Kudziimba mlandu
Ngati mnzanuyo ali woyesera, sichikutsimikizirani kuti pakati pa masewera achikondi iye sadzayamba kukumana ndi mavuto ena mwadzidzidzi - kutopa kapena kufooka. Malingana ndi kugonana kwa amuna, ndizochitika zabwino kwambiri, kukhalapo kwa zovuta zina kungayambitse mavuto. Mwina kukhala naye nthawi, amadzimva kuti ndi wolakwa pamaso pa bwenzi lake kapena mkazi wake. Kawirikawiri izi zimachitika mukamachita zinthu mwachikondi, zimapangitsa kuti mwamuna wina abwere mwadzidzidzi ndi lingaliro la kuperekedwa kwa mkazi wina. Ndipo izi ziribe kanthu kuti ola lapitalo bwana wanu adali kufunafuna kukhala pachibwenzi ndi inu. Mwamuna amayamba kudziona ngati munthu wodzikonda komanso wosayamika. Ndipo mapulogalamu amanjenje amachitapo kanthu mwamsanga kuti asinthe maganizo, mosakayikira amamuletsa iye mwayi uliwonse wochita chiwembu. Musamuuze nthawi yomweyi: "Ndikudabwa kuti chilakolako chanu choyambirira (mkazi) chomwe chinagwiritsidwa ntchito kukuthandizani bwanji?" Nenani: "Mwinamwake izi ndi zabwino. Muli ndi mwayi wobwerezanso zomwe mukugwirizana nazo. "
Kugonana popanda Chikondi
Mosiyana ndi chikhulupiliro chofala, ngati kuti amuna onse ndi "amuna", makamaka iwo ali ndi zochitika zakuya. Ambiri mwa iwo amakonda kukondana osati azimayi ena okha, koma ndi omwe amamukonda komanso amamulemekeza. Ndipo ndi omwe amawakonda komanso kuwalemekeza. Ndipo pamene munthu akukayikira chifundo chenicheni cha mnzako, ndiye kuti akhoza kukhala ndi chikhulupiliro chakuti akugwiritsidwa ntchito ngati "makina ogonana" kuti akwaniritse zosowa zathupi.
Okhulupirira za kugonana amaona kuti ndi zolakwa kukhulupirira kuti ndi mkazi yekha amene angakhale ndi malingaliro akuti akugwiritsidwa ntchito. Izi zikutanthauza kuti amuna amadziwanso kumverera uku. Iwo akumuyankha iye akutsutsa za kugwiritsidwa ntchito kosayenera kumeneku. Ndipo kawirikawiri chionetserochi chimayikidwa mu mawonekedwe opanda mphamvu kapena erection yofooka. Simungathe ngakhale kulingalira kangati pakulandirira amuna amthandizi, otsutsidwa ndi akazi awo mopanda mphamvu, kufotokozera khalidwe lawo losalankhula pozizira kwa mkazi! Iwo sakonda kukonda, pamene chikondi ichi sichinalibenso. Pamene mkaziyo adaumirira kugonana pofuna cholinga cha thupi.
Sitikuganizira tsopano momwe zinthu zilili pamene kutentha kwatha. Koma pambuyo pa zonse, kodi amai amaganiza kangati kuti akagonana ndi mwamuna, ndiye kuti amamvetsa kale za chikondi chake? Ndipo chifukwa chake sichiyenera kuwonetsa chikondi chake. Iye sakudziwa kuti mwamuna yemwe sanamvere mwachikondi kwa wokondedwa wake kwa nthawi yaitali, amayamba mwachikayikira kukayikira maganizo ake. Ndipo mawu ochepa omwe amamvetsera kuchokera kwa iye, amamukhulupirira kwambiri kuti amangogwiritsidwa ntchito. Musamuuze mwamuna kuti: "Bwerani, bwerani. Ndikudziwa kuti mukufuna izi! "Nenani bwino:" Sindinakuuzeni motalika kwambiri kuti ndimakukondani kwambiri! "
Mowa
Chifukwa ichi cha kusowa kwa "wosakwatira" kapena kufooka kochepa ndiko mwina kofala pakati pa kugonana kolimba. Iwo amawoneka kuti ndi olemekezeka kwambiri kuti azitsutsa amuna a fiasco. Vuto kwa wokondedwayo ndikuti sakudziwa pasadakhale ngati mowa umakhala ndi nthabwala yoipa ndi iye lero kapena ayi. N'zosatheka kuwoneratu momwe zidzakhalira, chifukwa thupi la munthu silidziwika. Wokondedwayo ayenera kukumbukira kuti sangathe kumuneneza munthu woledzera makamaka kuti alibe mphamvu. Chifukwa, atakhala wovuta, sadzakumbukira kuledzera kwake. Koma mawu a mkazi wokondedwa ponena za kusagwirizana kwake kwa mwamuna adzakumbukira. Ndipo izo zidzamuzunza izi kwa moyo wake wonse. Kotero ngati simukukondwera ndi zofooka za kugonana kwa mnzanu amene amayamba chifukwa cha mowa, ndi bwino kuwerenga mutu wakuti "Zokhudza Kuopsa kwa Mowa" tsiku lotsatira. Kum'kumbutseni za kuopsya kwa chiwindi cha chiwindi ndi zilonda zam'mimba. Koma palibe vuto musadandaule chifukwa cha kusowa kwa erection, musachichotse mndandanda wa ziphona zogonana! Mwa njira, zikutheka kuti m'mawa iye adzapambana - ngati izi sizidzateteza dziko la mzimayi. Musanene kuti: "Ndiwe nkhanza! Mudzaganiza, sindinamwe kanthu, koma ndatopa! "Nenani:" Tonthola. Tidzayesa kachiwiri mukakhala osamala. Ndibwino kuti mwakwanitsa kufika pabedi lanu mosamala ndi zomveka! "
Wopambana ndi mdani wa zabwino
Kawirikawiri izi ndizochitika kwa anthu okwatirana omwe amakumana ndi nthawi yaitali. Zingakhale zogwirizana ndi anthu omwe adagonana nawo kale. Chifukwa cha zovuta, mgwirizano wawo poyamba unakula kotero kuti nthawi yayitali sanapite pang'onopang'ono kumalo ena a paki ndi kumpsompsonana pansi pa mwezi m'mphepete mwa nyanja. Koma ngati anthu amakondana, amakhaladi pabedi limodzi. Ndipo iwo adzasangalala kuti posachedwa iwo adzakwaniritsa zomwe iwo alota. Pankhaniyi, kwa nthawi yoyamba, mkazi akhoza kukhala ndi chiyanjano chokwanira. Pamene mwamunayo ali mu msonkhano wapamtima wapamtima amayesetsa kutsimikizira kuti ndi wokonda kwambiri. Iye samangoganiza mwanjira ina, kukonzekera chochitika cha chochitikachi choyembekezeredwa kwa nthawi yaitali. Akufuna kuika chidziwitso chake chonse mu zosangalatsa, kuti athe kumenyana ndi mkazi wake wokondedwa pomwepo ndikumva mawu ake okondedwa: "Sindinayambe ndakhalapo ndi wina aliyense ..."
Koma, monga mukudziwira, tonse timafuna, monga zabwino, koma nthawi zambiri zimakhala ngati nthawi zonse. Pazochitikazo, nthawizina sizigwira ntchito konse. Chifukwa munthu akufuna kudumphira pamwamba pa mutu wake ndipo kuyesetsa molimbika kumawonekera pang'ono kuposa momwe ayenera kukhalira. Dzilimbikitseni, madona okondedwa - kulephera kwake kumayesedwa ndi malingaliro amphamvu kwambiri kwa inu. Ndipo izi zikutanthauza kuti sizinatayika zonse. Musanene kuti: "Ndipo chifukwa chake bedi limeneli linali lofunika! Mwinamwake tidzangoyendayenda? Mulimonsemo, mutandigwedeza pandekha, ndinamva bwino kwambiri. " Nenani: "Chifukwa chiyani tifulumira, chifukwa takhala tikuyembekezera nthawiyi kwa nthawi yayitali! Tiyeni tiyesenso kenaka pang'ono. "
Nkhani ya nyumba
Ambiri amadziwa kuti kugona ndi msungwana wodziwika m'nyumba yomwe amakhala ndi makolo ake kumatanthauza nthawi zonse kumverera "pansi pa nyumba." Chifukwa chakuti nthawi zambiri makolo sangapewe kuchita zinthu zochepa chabe komanso kumangokhalira kumangoyamba. Zoona, mtundu wina wa makolo, otchedwa omasulidwa, si wabwino kulikonse. Azimayi oterewa, komanso kawirikawiri apapa, amayesa kumenyera mnyamata, kapena kupitilira-kumugwedeza pamapewa pamaso pa nkhunda kukondana ndi bedi. Koma ngakhale ngati makolo sadziwonetsera okha motere, mawu omwe adalandiridwa kwa mlendo akuwonekera momveka bwino: "Tikudziwa zomwe muchita ndi mwana wathu wamkazi!"
Malingaliro a odwala opatsirana pogonana, mphamvu zoterozo zimakhala ndi zotsatira zolepheretsa munthu aliyense wamba, kuchititsa kusowa mphamvu kapena kufooka kochepa. Winawake akhoza ngakhale kusanthana kukana chiyanjano mwa onse, podziwa, izo sizidzakhala mu mawonekedwe. Koma ambiri akupitirizabe kuyembekezera zotsatira za mlanduwo, osakayikira kuti ali ndi vuto liti limene akukonzekera vutoli. Mkhalidwe wofanananso ukhoza kuchitika pamene wachinyamata mwiniwake atenga mtsikana ku nyumba ya makolo. Pambuyo pake, chiwerengero chake cha ubale ndi eni nyumba pano sichigwira ntchito yaikulu. Zonse zakumvetsetsa munthu yemwe anthu kumbuyo kwa khoma ali ndi chidwi chenicheni pa nthawi yachisangalalo. Ndicho chifukwa chake phokoso lirilonse, lochotsedwa pamilomo ya okondedwa anu kapena lofalitsidwa ndi akasupe a bedi, limaphunzitsidwa mobwerezabwereza mu ubongo wa wokondedwayo. Zikuwoneka kuti zonsezi zimamveka ndi anthu ena. Ndipo pamene akuganizira kwambiri zomwe zimachitikira banja, zofooka zake zimakhudza chilakolako cha kugonana.
Ntchito ndi kusamalira
Chifukwa china cha kusowa mphamvu kapena kufooka kofooka ndi katundu wa mavuto osathetsedwa. Winawake akuganiza kuti amuwotcha. Ndipo kwa wina, chifukwa cha chisokonezo chikhoza kukhala tsiku la kulipira kwa ngongole. Choncho, mutapanda kukonda chikondi, ngakhale ngati mukuona kuti palibe chifukwa chodera nkhawa mnzanuyo, yesetsani kuyitchula mosapita m'mbali. Mwinamwake, iye adzakugawanizani nanu mavuto ake, chifukwa kuyambira izi mpaka kwa munthu aliyense nthawi zonse zimakhala zosavuta. Ndipo ngati sakufuna kuvomereza chilichonse, mofananamo, lembani zovuta zake zamasiku ano mochititsa mantha kwambiri chifukwa cha mavuto osiyanasiyana. Pambuyo pake, iwo adzapezeka mwa aliyense.
Koma zirizonse zomwe ziri, musamangoganizira za kusadzikweza kwa munthu wokondedwa - ngakhale pa mphindi yomweyo, kapena mtsogolo. Musati muzichita nthabwala, ngakhale pambuyo pa fiasco yake nthawi yambiri yadutsa, ndipo iye nthawi zana amatsimikizira kukhalapo kwake kwachangu potency. Chigamulo chanu pamtundu umenewu chiyenera kukhala chikhumbo chokwanira cha mawu ochokera ku chojambula chodziwika bwino: "Tidzapulumuka chisokonezo ichi!"