Mwachinsinsi ku kuwala konse
N'zotheka kuti pachiyambi mudzakwiya ndi munthu yemweyo yemwe "adawululira dziko lonse mwachinsinsi" chinsinsi chanu. Ndipo kunali koyenera kuchita izo? Dzifunseni nokha: mukanakhala bwanji mutachita zoterezi? Ndithudi izo zidzakhala zovuta kuti inu muyankhe funso ili. Pambuyo pake, ngati inu nokha simungathe kupulumutsa SVOYuTINA, mungayesere bwanji mofanana ndi munthu wina? Inde, ndipo kawirikawiri, kodi inu munali nkhani yofunika kwambiri komanso yocinsinsi? Mwa njira, ndi chinsinsi cha bizinesi cha nasamom chochita mofulumira kwambiri pakugawidwa kwa zinsinsi zonse?
Monga lamulo, kudalira aliyense mwa mtundu uliwonse wachinsinsi, nthawi zonse timakhala pangozi kuti maulendo omwe timasankhidwa ndi ife adzawombera. Ndipo zowonjezereka, malinga ndi akatswiri a maganizo, nthawi zina kutseguka kwa ife kumapangitsa chikhumbo chathu chopanda kuzindikira kuti vuto lathu lizindikiridwe momwe tingathere anthu. Choncho, kufunsa kwa bwenzi lake kuti "asunge chilichonse mwachinsinsi," nthawi zambiri timakhala osasamala.
Choyamba, musanafike
Njira imodzi yabwino komanso yotsimikizirika yosunga chinsinsi yayamba kuonedwa kuti ndi lamulo losavuta: "musamuuze aliyense chirichonse." Koma tiyeneranso kukumbukira kuti pokhala ndi chidziwitso chokha, ife eni timatenga udindo pa zotsatira zake zonse. Nthawi zina katundu wongosankhidwa ndi ife sungatheke. Ngati, komabe, pitirizani kupitiliza njira imodzi kuti mutenge nokha "bokosi la zinsinsi", ndiye kuti n'zotheka "kuswa" mwamakhalidwe ndi kupeza chisokonezo cha mantha.
Kodi, pambuyo pa zonse, ziyenera kuchitidwa kuti kusunga mitsempha mukhale bwino bwino ndipo musati muwononge kwambiri? Pasanapite nthawi, munthu ayenera kuganizira zomwe ayenera kunena. Ndipo, panjira, simusowa kutsegula munthu wapafupi kuposa nipopadia.
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"Mitsempha m'nyumba yosungira"
Pafupifupi banja lililonse liri ndi zinsinsi zake, monga kunanenedwa kuti: "Banja la wina ndi nkhalango yamdima!" Ndipo monga lamulo, chinsinsi ichi nthawi zambiri "chimayipitsa mpikisano".
Ndi ndani woti mugawane nawo? Muzochitika izi, ndibwino kuuza ena zinsinsi za banja ndi omwe akukhudzidwa. Makamaka ngati mwasankha kufotokozera munthu watsopano m'banja, ayenera kuuza zinsinsi za banja. Ndipo ngakhale ndizosamvetsetseka kudziŵa zimenezi, ndi bwino ngati munthu amene mumamukonda amadziwa za inu, osati mnzanu wodetsa nkhaŵa. Mwa njira, pokhudzana ndi "mdima" wammbuyo, ndiye, ku chuma chambiri, tsopano osasamala za kuyera kwa magazi.
"Chikondi sichikhala pano"
Kuvomereza chikondi kumakhala kosavuta, kusiyana ndi kuvomereza kuti kwatha. Kusunga chinsinsi cha kumverera, timakakamizidwa ndi zifukwa zingapo - mantha a kusintha, chifundo, umbombo, chizoloŵezi ndi ena ambiri. Monga lamulo, aliyense pano akhoza kukhala ndi chifukwa chake.
Ndi ndani woti mugawane nawo? Zina. ganizirani kuti iye sanaganizire konse. Pa msinkhu wosadziwika, mwamuna amamva "akuwopsya" kwa munthu wake. Ena ali ndi chipiriro kupirira zovuta izi. Koma zirizonse zomwe ziri, musati muwasokoneze abwenzi pa mutu uwu - izo zidzamufikabebe kwa iye.
Chida chimodzi chikugwira ntchito apa: ngati mukutsimikiza kuti palibe chomwe chidzachitikire munthu uyu, muyenera kuvomereza kwa iye. Ndithudi iye ali ndi ufulu wodziwa! Ndipo muli ndi ufulu wakulemekeza kuwona mtima!
"Kutumikira nthawi"
Kodi mukusiya kapena kudziwa za kukambitsirana komweko, kapena mukugwiritsa ntchito bwino ndalama ndi "ntchito yowopsya" kwa mpikisano wothamanga ndipo musagone kwa maola, mukufuna kugawana ndi mnzako? Inde, chirichonse chiri pano, palibe amene adzachipereka icho!
Komabe zidzatha bwanji! Mu ofesi iliyonse ndi imodzi yokha yomwe imaona kuti ndi yoyenera kulengeza zonse kwa akuluakulu a boma. Ngakhale kuwuza mnzanu kuti adziwe kuti achotsedwa, mungamupangitse kukhala ndi udindo woganiza ngati wapeza malo, ndipo sizinasinthe.
Ndi ndani woti mugawane nawo? Ndi munthu yemwe amagwira ntchito ndi kampani yanu, koma sagwirizana ndi anzake. Adzasunga zonse mobisa, zimakhala zophweka, chifukwa samayankhulana ndi anthu omwe angakhale okhudzidwa ndi chidziwitso ichi.
"Ndipo pano pali wanga wakale ..."
Chimene chiri choyenera kukhala chete payekha ndizochitikira zakuya. Koma nkhaniyi ndi yomwe imakambidwa kwambiri mu chipinda chogona. Mwamunayo samayambitsa zokambiranazi, poopa kuyerekezera, kotero ziri kwa mkaziyo.
Ndi ndani woti mugawane nawo? Osati ndi wokondedwa weniweni. Zindikirani zokumbukira, zitsanulirani pamasamba a msonkhano. Lembani kalata ndi kuwotentha kapena kumbukirani ndi abwenzi anu osasangalatsa. Amuna, pokamba za kale, amanyalanyaza. Ngakhalenso ngati wokondedwayo ali ndi maganizo ambiri pa moyo. Chimodzimodzinso ndi zokonda zamakono: kujambula kudzera pa intaneti - sungani zinthu zonse nokha!
"Mnzanga waponya vuto"
Zimakhala zabwino pamene abwenzi amakukhulupirirani ndi zinsinsi zawo. Ndipo nthawi zina izi ndi zabwino kuti musadziwe, mwachitsanzo, chiwembu. Ndi chinthu chimodzi ngati mukusangalala kuti wapeza munthu wabwino. Ndi nkhani ina ngati wokondedwa wanuyo ndi bwenzi lanu labwino, omwe alibe tsogolo lawo.
Ndi ndani woti mugawane nawo? Apa, ndithudi, mumasankha. Koma akatswiri a zamaganizo samalimbikitsa kusokoneza popanda kufunika kwa ubale wa vchuzhie. Msungwana kapena kusudzulana kapena kugwirizanitsa, ndipo iwe udzakhala razluchnitsey. Chinthu chachikulu chimene mungachite ndi kupereka mnzanu nsonga, ndipo chinsinsi sichingasangalatse!
Choyamba Chothandizira
Msungwana wanu samadziwa "kutseka pakamwa panu," ndipo mwamuuza chinsinsi mwamseri.
Chipulumutso: Pemphani kuti musakuuzeni kanthu kalikonse kopanda phindu, yesetsani kumusonyeza kanthu kena.
Inu bwenzi munakhulupirira chinsinsi, ndipo inu, kuwonjezera pa chifuniro, munauza za munthu wachitatu.
Chipulumutso: Kutaya mtima kukana. Ndikofunika kumenyana chirichonse kuti wothandizana nawo ayambe kukayikira zowona. Panthawi zovuta kwambiri, ingolapa pamaso pa bwenzi lanu. Koma ndi bwino kusankha nokha.
Bwenzi limanena za zinsinsi zomwe simukufuna kuzidziwa tsiku lililonse.
Chipulumutso: M'patseni cholembera cha mawu ndi khadi la bizinesi la katswiri wa zamaganizo, mwinamwake inu mudzakhala "chitsime chake" chosatha!