Ndipo ali mwana, makamaka ... Ana okhawo amatha kudya chidutswa cha keke, chofiira ndi madzi otsekemera otsekemera, sakhala ndi chotukuka ndi chokoleti, ndiyeno muzijambula zonse ndi makeke ndi khumi ndi awiri. Ndipo ubweya wokoma wa thonje pa ndodo! Ndipo chipale chofewa cha ayisikilimu, kusungunuka pamaso pa maso anu, choncho mumangofunika kuzinyoza kuti zokhazokha ndi zokoma zisakhale pa kavalidwe katsopano kapenanso akabudula.
Choncho, n'chifukwa chiyani ana amakonda zokoma? Tiyeni tiyankhule pamodzi. Kodi ndi liti komanso liti? Ndikuganiza kuti zonse, monga nthawi zonse, zimachokera muubwana. Pankhaniyi, kuyambira kubadwa. Ndipotu, mkaka wa amayi uli ndi kukoma kokoma. Ndipo kuyambira maminiti oyambirira a moyo wake, kuyamwa koyamba kumene mwana aliyense adzazindikira ndi kokoma! Kodi sizodabwitsa, osati zowawa, osati zowawa, osati zatsopano, zomwe ndi zokoma, mwinamwake moyo umenewo pambuyo pake unali wokoma? Ndani akudziwa? Mwinamwake ndichifukwa chake timadya zokoma, ngati tili ndi kupsinjika maganizo ndi kukhumudwa. Chabwino, inde, izi ndizochokera ku mutu waukulu wa zokambirana zathu.
Chakudya choyamba cha munthu ndi mkaka wokoma. Pambuyo pake, akukula, ana akupitiriza kuphunzira dziko la kukoma. Iye ndi wamkulu komanso wosiyana. Ife, akuluakulu, takhala tikudziwika kuti ndibwino ndipo ndi mdani wathu wamkulu, timayambitsa mavuto ochulukirapo, matenda osiyanasiyana, kuchokera ku matenda a mano ndi kutha kwa shuga. Zonsezi ndi zomveka komanso zomveka. Izi zimatsimikiziridwa ndi madokotala ochokera m'magazini a zachipatala komanso otchuka, amayiwa akunena izi, mapulogalamu ambiri a kanema ndi mafilimu awomberedwa. Zikuwoneka kuti ndi zophweka - timasiya zokoma ndipo sitizipereka kwa ana athu. Tidzakhalanso ndi zipatso, zokometsera, zachilengedwe ndi zokometsera! N'chiyani chingakhale chokoma kwambiri? !! !! Chophweka kwambiri. Koma ndi ana angati amene inu simudziwa ndi kukoma kwa maswiti. Ndipo kodi mungayankhe funsolo, bwanji ana safuna kudya apulo mmalo mwa pipi? Musandikhulupirire? Yesetsani kupereka mwana wanu kusankha ayisikilimu kapena mandarin, chokoleti kapena apulo, maswiti kapena peyala. Chabwino, mwangoyang'ana? Ndipo motani? Ine ndikuyesa kuti chipatso chinatayika mu nkhondoyi yosiyana! Kodi chinsinsi n'chiyani? Ndipo ife, akuluakulu, nthawi zina timafuna kuti tizitha kukonzedwa ndi mkate wobiriwira, wa mpweya kapena mkate umene uli muwindo la sitolo ndipo satipatsa mpata kuti tipite ... Inde, yesero lalikulu, ndipo siyense amene angathe kukana.
Koma ife tokha taphunzitsa ana athu kuchisangalalo chokoma ichi, chomwe chiri chosavuta kuti chizolowereke ndipo chovuta kwambiri kutichoke ku machitidwe a chizolowezi ichi. Kumbukirani, panali zochepa kwambiri pamene mukupita kunyumba komwe muli ana aang'ono. Kodi mutenga chiyani ndi inu ngati mphatso? Zowonjezereka, zidzakhala keke, bokosi la chokoleti, mikate, chabwino, kapena ngati mwadzidzidzi, bala la chokoleti. Inde, inde, musatsutsane, osati maapulo, osati mapeyala, osati apricots, osati mapichesi, ngakhale ali okoma. Kotero ndizovomerezeka. Ndipo akuluakulu akakhala otanganidwa okha, akuluakulu amakambirana za mavuto akuluakulu, ana athu amapatsidwa mwayi wokhala mapiri a maswiti omwe abwera ndi alendo osamalira. Ndiyeno timadabwa chifukwa chiyani ana amakonda zinthu zokoma? Tsopano tiyesera kumvetsetsa nkhaniyi yovuta komanso kuthetsa mavuto onse omwe adzakhalepo panthawiyi.
Kodi mumadziwa zomwe zinachitikira mwana wanu atagwa mwadzidzidzi ndikuvulaza bondo lake, kapena adangokugwetsa misonzi chifukwa chadzidzidzi, kodi mukuchita chiyani? Chabwino, ndithudi, mumayenera kumupatsa maswiti okoma kwambiri. Dali? Iye, ndithudi, anafooka. Ndipo chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa chakuti ana athu amakonda kale zokoma, amachizoloŵera kale. Mwinamwake chifukwa kukoma kwa zokoma kumamupangitsa kukhala wamtendere ndi wotetezedwa, monga pafupi ndi mawere a amayi, ndiye, poyamba, ali mwana. Pambuyo pake, tonsefe timafuna mtendere, chitetezo ndi kutentha. Sizachabe chimene asayansi amanena kuti chokoleti chiri ndi chomwe chimatchedwa "chisangalalo cha hormone". Ndipo ife tonse timamuphonya iye mu moyo wovuta uwu ndi wovuta. Izi sizosadabwitsa. Kotero ife tikukonzekera, kuti zokondweretsa zonse ndi zosangalatsa zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi maswiti. Kumbukirani Chaka Chatsopano! Patsikuli limakondedwa ndi akulu ndi ana. Chinthu choyamba chimene chimabwera m'malingaliro anu? Chabwino, ndithudi, mphatso zomwe ana athu amapeza masiku ano ndi zazikulu. Amapatsidwa ndi makolo, grandmothers, grandfathers, aliyense amene amabwera kudzacheza. Ndipo mungathe kulingalira zokondwerera tsiku lobadwa la mwana wanu popanda keke ya kubadwa ndi makandulo, phokoso ndi maswiti ena. Ndipo tchuthi lirilonse liyenera kutha ndi mchere, wopangidwa ndi mbale zosiyanasiyana zomwe ziri ndi shuga. Ndipo pokhapokha ngati mwadzidzidzi pali mavuto ena ndi thanzi la ana athu, timayamba kuganiza za momwe tingaonetsetse kuti ana athu amasiya kukonda zokoma, kapena osagwiritsa ntchito pang'ono. Koma izi ndi zovuta kwambiri. Pambuyo pake, chizolowezi chakhala chikhalidwe chawo chachiwiri. Ndi mawu akuti "okoma" m'malingaliro athu mawu akuti "chimwemwe", "zokondweretsa", "kukhutira", "zokondweretsa" zimabwera. Ndipo kusintha zinthu mu zokonda za ana athu, padzakhala kulimbana kovuta. Kotero, ganizirani za izo, koma kodi si zophweka kuyamba pomwe kuponyera. Tiyeni tibwezeretse filimuyo mmalo mwake ndipo m'malo mwa maswiti oyamba tidzamupatsa mwana apulo. Muloleni iye agwe mu chikondi ndi kukoma uku. Ndiye tidzamuyitanira ku dziko lalikulu la zipatso zosiyanasiyana zomwe zingapatse ana anu chimwemwe ndi chimwemwe ndi zosangalatsa, chofunika kwambiri, thanzi. Ndipotu, ndizofunika kwambiri kuposa izi, mwinamwake, palibe chilichonse padziko lapansi. Thanzi silingasinthidwe ndi zosangalatsa ndi zowawa zilizonse. Ndikuganiza kuti palibe chifukwa chowonetsera ndikufotokozera izi. Pangani lamulo mu nyumba mwanu, palibe maswiti, opanda madzi okoma, okonzedwanso, komwe kuli bwino kuphika compote. Inde, ndi zina zambiri, musaiwale kuchenjeza abwenzi anu ndi anthu omwe mumacheza nawo kuti mukadzabwera, simufunika kugula chokoleti ndi keke, chipatso chokha kapena chidole chodabwitsa, buku. Izi ndi zothandiza ndipo sizikupweteka. Ndiyeno mukhoza kukhala wodekha kwa mwana wanu, adzakhala ndi thanzi labwino! Ndipo sungakonde zinthu zokoma!