Masiku apitawo lirilonse lidakhala masiku oyembekezera ndi kuyembekezera. Kodi ndi nthawi iti yomwe padzakhala nthawi ino? Mwatsoka, sikuti anthu onse amatha kupereka mphatso kwa amayi awo. Anthu ena ogonana kwambiri amaganiza kuti chikondi sichiyenera kutsimikiziridwa ndi mphatso. Ndiye kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani kuti mupeze mphatso tsiku losaiwalika?
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amanena kuti amuna omwe sadziwa maganizo a akazi sali opusa kapena opweteka. Chowonadi ndi chakuti chidziwitso cha theka lolimba la umunthu sichimvetsetsa mawu ngati akazi. Ndipo kuti kudabwa kwa holide sikukuphimba mtima wanu, muyenera kuuza wokondedwa wanu zinthu monga "wokondedwa, musadandaule, palibe chifukwa chodabwitsa". Kawirikawiri amuna amakhala ndi maganizo chifukwa cha kufunika koyenera komanso mosayembekezereka kusonyeza maganizo awo lero. Pambuyo pa mawu amenewa iye, mosakayikira, adzamasuka, akufuula mwaulere ndipo adzakumbukira chinthu chinachake, chowala, chokumbukira. Ndikofunika kuti munthu asatayike kufuna kukondweretsa mkazi wake, ndipo kumverera koteroko kumayenera kudyetsedwa nthawi zonse, ndikuchita bwino, mokweza, ndikupambana.
Choyamba, lembani munthuyo ndi kumverera. Akatswiri a zamaganizo anayamba njira yatsopano, mtundu wapadera. Choyamba, kwezani manja onse awiri pamwamba pa mutu wanu, tulutsani mpweya ndi mphamvu, ngati kuti mukukhumudwa ndi mpweya. Kenaka, panthawi ya kudzoza, gwirizanitsani manja a manja anu ndi kuwachepetsera pachifuwa chanu, gwiritsani mpweya wanu kwa kanthawi. Tangoganizani kuti thupi lanu limangodzaza ndi chikondi ndipo limadzaza mtima wanu. Lolani kukhala mtsinje wa emerald mu malingaliro anu. Ndipo tsopano ganizirani kuti mumawakonda pamaso panu. Apanso, pangani mpweya wolimba, pamene mukuwonetsa kuti palinso mitengo yomwe ili pansi. Pa nthawi ino, kuchokera pamtima kupita ku manja emerald kuthamanga kwa chikondi kudzatulukira, iwe uyenera kuti uwonetsere ku mbali yomwe mnzako ali. Zimakhulupirira kuti kusinkhasinkha kotereku kuli kolimbikitsa kwambiri kwa munthu, amamva kuti ali wouziridwa.
Chachiwiri, liwuzani zokhumba zanu. Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti chikhumbocho chiyenera kukhala chenicheni kwa munthu wanu ndipo chikugwirizana ndi mphamvu zake, zosapitirira 30%. Ngati wokondedwa angakugulitseni zovala zamkati, musapemphe diamondi yamatumba angapo. Ngati nthawi zonse akukumbutsa mwamuna kuti sakukwaniritsa zosowa za mkazi ndipo sangakwanitse kukwaniritsa zopemphazo, zotsatira zake zidzakhala chimodzi: munthu amayamba kudziona kuti ndi wotsika. Wokondedwa ndi kudzidzimva sangakupatseni chimwemwe.
Malangizo othandiza momwe mungamufunse munthu kuti akupatseni mphatso
Tiyerekeze kuti mumalota thumba la ndalama. Uzani munthu wanu za izo molimbika, mwamtendere, mwachikondi ndi kumwetulira. "Wokondedwa, ndikufunikira ndalama zowoneka ngati zomwe tinaziwona m'sitolo. Mwinamwake mungandipatse ine? "Ngakhale atakana, yesetsani kukhalabe ofatsa ndi okoma, bwanji simungakuwononge. Komabe, nthawi ndi nthawi mumakhala wokhumudwa, nthawi zina mumagwidwa chisoni. Ndiyeno, ngati kuti mwadzidzidzi, avomerezeni kwa iye kuti thumba silikuchokerani pamutu mwanu. Ndikhulupirire, izo zigwira ntchito.
Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti anthu amaganiza mozama, choncho tauzani za mphatso ya maloto anu mwatsatanetsatane: kuti, ndiyani, kukula kwake, ndi mtundu wanji. Zidzakhala zabwino ngati mungasonyeze chithunzi chenicheni cha mphatso yamaloto.
Musakhale kapolo wa chikhumbo
Nthawi zonse kumbukirani kuti mwamuna ayenera kudzipangira yekha zochita, alole kuti achite. Chofunika kwambiri kuti mkazi azikhala yekha, pomwe wokondedwayo amatha kupanga chisankho ndipo samadzipangitsa yekha. Ndipo kuti zilakolako zosakhutitsidwa sizibweretse mavuto ambiri, phunzirani kuwalola kuti azipita momasuka. Apo ayi, ubalewu ukhoza kukhala wopanikizika, umene ungapangitse zoyembekeza zosakwaniritsidwe, ndipo mosakayikira umachepa. Zirizonse zomwe zimapereka munthu wanu, nkofunika kutenga mphatso yake kuti chikhumbo chokondweretsa mkazi wake ndi mphatso zomwe sanatayike, koma chimangowonjezera ndikupatsa chimwemwe. Kulongosola chikondi ndi chiyamiko panthawi yolandila mphatso ndizolimbikitsa kwambiri kwa mwamuna, chifukwa amayembekeza kuti mkazi ayamikila mphatso, nthawi yochuluka, khama, ndipo ngati avomereza, ayesa kupitiliza.