Komabe, anthu akhala ataphunzira kale kuphunzitsa ngakhale nyama zakusalankhula kuti zikhale zosiyana. Ndipo ngati galu wa mnzako angabweretse tchuthi ndikupereka pawindo, kodi simungaphunzitse kuwona molondola ndi kusunga nthawi kwa mwamuna wanu?
Chinthu chachikulu ndikutengera zochitika za aphunzitsi.
Amuna ndi anyani.
Amuna nthawi zambiri amauyerekezera ndi nyama zamphongo zokongola, timaphatikizapo kufanana kwake. Anyani, mofanana ndi amuna, nthawi zambiri amakhala osasinthasintha, osamvera, osasamala. Ngati muli ndi mwamuna wamtundu wotere, ndiye kuti zifukwa zomveka, zopempha ndi zifukwa zomveka zogwira ntchito sizingagwire ntchito.
Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Ndi zophweka! Pita kumalo ake, yang'anani dziko lapansi ndi maso ake ndipo zambiri zidzawonekera bwino.
Amuna amasewera makadi, chess, masewera a pakompyuta ndi mpira. Gwiritsani ntchito zofooka izi kuti mupindule. Zonse zomwe mukufunikira ndikumunyengerera ndi masewera. Konzekerani mpikisano, mutenge chidwi chake chokhala woyamba komanso pamene chisangalalo chimamugwira bwino, asiye masewerawo, kuti mupitirizebe atasambitsa mbale, apite nawe ku sitolo, kwa amayi ake, kapena atayendetsa msomali pamtambo. Njirayi idzagwira ntchito mosalekeza ngati nthawi zonse mumatsatira malonjezo anu, ndipo musaiwale kulimbikitsa.
Amuna ndi njovu.
Zimakhala zazikulu, zowonongeka, zowonongeka komanso zosokonezeka. Kodi mumamuzindikira munthu wanu? Ndipo munthu woteroyo amatha kuphunzira luso lomwe mukusowa. Chikhalidwe chokha: sichikhoza kuthamanga. Musadalire ufulu wake. Kuti aphunzitse mkazi kapena chibwenzi chotere kuti asabalalitse zinthu, azikhala ndi nthawi yochuluka, koma alibe chiyembekezo.
Ngati mukufuna kuti akuthandizeni ndi kuyeretsa, yambani kuyamba. Chotsani zinsalu, chotsani zinthu kuchokera m'mabotolo, pezani njira zotsuka zonse mu beseni m'mabotolo. Powona izi, mwamunayo adzakhala omveka kumvetsetsa ndi kugwirizana ndi zomwe mukufuna kuchokera kwa iye. Kenaka mupatseni ntchito zosavuta, mwachitsanzo, kupeza chinachake kuchokera ku mezzanine kapena kusuntha kabati yaikulu. Pambuyo pake, mutangotenga tsache, adzaphunzira momwe angaperekere thandizo. Musadwale - simukusowa munthu kuti ayambe kukonzanso zinyumba pakhomo.
Amuna ndi agalu.
Sikuti munthu aliyense angafanane ndi nyama, zanzeru ndi zowona. Koma ngati wanuwo ndi okondwa, ngati osakayika kapena odalirika, monga St. Bernard, ndiye kuti mumvetsetsa zithunzithunzi zonsezi.
Kuti munthu wanu azichita bwino, amafunikira chidwi chanu, chikondi chanu ndi kuleza mtima kwanu.
Zoonadi, mwazindikira kale - mukayamba kumunyoza mwamuna wanu, amakhalabe wogontha ku milandu yonse, pamilandu yapadera kwambiri, amangotchera mchira ndikubisala kuntchito, m'galimoto, ndi mabwenzi. Yesetsani kunyalanyaza khalidwe lake loipa, chifukwa chosowa kanthu kwa munthu wotero - choipa kuposa chilango chilichonse. Kumulimbikitsa ndi kokha kofunikira, mwinamwake munthu sangathe kusiyana pakati pa zoipa ndi zabwino.
Amuna ndi mikango.
Kodi mukuona muzochita za munthu wanu zofanana ndi za mfumu ya zinyama? Mwinamwake akutsatira ku lingaliro lakuti mwamuna ayenera kudzikuza kwathunthu kuti amve mokwanira ndi wokondwa. Sikophweka kumuchotsa chikhumbo chokhala ndi akazi, koma n'zotheka.
Muyenera kukhala anzeru ndipo musayerekeze kukhala mtsogoleri, koma musasonyeze zofooka zanu kwa iye kuti musakhale wozunzidwa. Yesani kukhala mofanana ndi munthu - mkango, pokhapokha adzakuchitirani mozama.
Mukamupempha kanthu, kambiranani momveka bwino, molimba mtima, musamufunse, musamufunse, koma mundidziwitse kuti pempho lanu kapena chikhumbo chanu chiyenera kukwaniritsidwa. Mukangokweza mawu anu kapena kuyamba kugwirizana ndi kuyang'ana kolakwa - mumataya.
Amuna ndi akavalo.
Mahatchi amaoneka ngati okongola kwambiri, okoma mtima, onyada ndi amphamvu. Amakonda ufulu, koma amayamikira mtima wabwino. Amuna omwe ali ndi ndondomekoyi amangozindikira okha amayi omwe sangathe kuwafunsanso chinthu china.
Pofuna kumudziwa mwamuna kuchokera kumisonkhano yam'mbuyo, kusonkhana mwadzidzidzi ndi abwenzi, kugwiritsira ntchito zokhudza, chikondi ndi makhalidwe ake onse abwino kwambiri. Mwamuna woteroyo amayamikira kuti mumatha kukonda komanso kumvetsetsa ngakhale mutakhala wokwiya kwambiri. Ndikhulupirire, iye sangakhale ndi chikhumbo choyendayenda payekha, chifukwa adzachita mantha kukutaya iwe.
Zikuoneka kuti pakati pathu ndi zinyama pali zambiri zofanana kuposa momwe timaganizira. Analogies amatha kusunga zopanda malire. Choncho, n'zotheka komanso koyenera kugwiritsa ntchito zomwe zimapangitsa ophunzirawa kuti azichita bwino, makamaka chofunika kwambiri, musagonjetse ndodo ndipo kumbukirani kuti anthu adakali osiyana ndi nyama.