Nthawi yomweyo tidzatha kufotokozedwa, kukambirana kudzakhala pazochitika zomwe sizikugwirizana ndi inu. Kusewera-kukondana "ayi", yokonzedweratu kuzunzidwa kapena kuwonjezera mphamvu, ndiyo mutu wa zokambirana zosiyana.
Choncho, malamulo asanuwa ndi olimba "NO".
1. Ganizirani pasadakhale zomwe mukufuna.
Musanayambe kuchita chinachake, ganizirani zomwe mukufuna. Kwa fayilo yonjenjemera konse inathawa kuchokera kumayang'ana kwanu? Kuti Vasya ovuta kuchokera ku dipatimenti yoyandikana nawo ayambe kuusa moyo patebulo lanu, koma panthawi yomweyi adapitirizabe kuthandiza pakukhazikitsa ntchito zanu? Kwa mnzako wokondeka anasiya kuika patsogolo pa maluwa anu a maluwa, chifukwa mukuwakhumudwitsa m'mawa?
Malinga ndi zotsatira zoyenera, sanenani kulephera kwanu bwino. Kumbukirani kuti amuna amamvetsa mfundo zabwino koposa momwe akumverera, choncho yesetsani kuwakonzekera pasadakhale.
2. Lembani izi!
Mukamakhazikika mwakhama - mubweretseni ku mbali yina. Mwachilolezo, mwa kulemba, mwa njira ya miyala yamakono kapena m'chinenero chamanja. Chinthu chachikulu chomwe tanthauzo la uthenga wanu zinali zomveka bwino!
Olya, wazaka 35, yemwe ndi mlangizi: "Nditangoyesa kumudziwitsa kuti sindimkonda iye! Palibe zotsatira! Iye sakuwoneka kuti samvetsa! "Akulira mopweteka. "Kodi iwe umamuuza iye za izi mwa mawu?" Ine ndikufunsa. "N-e-em," Olya akudandaula, "koma mukufuna chiyani?"
Inde, okondedwa akazi, nthawizina muyenera! Mwachionekere, makamaka Chirashi (kupatula ngati, sikuti si mlendo) kuti amve mawu anu ndi kufotokozera mkhalidwewo. "Vasya, ndikupepesa, koma ubale wathu uyenera kukhala wokondana!", "Pyotr Semyonovich, sindikuona kuti ndizovomerezeka kuyamba chibwenzi kuntchito!"
3. Gwiritsani ntchito chisankho chanu.
Ngati mwalengeza dzulo kuti simukufuna kupitiliza chiyanjano chomwecho, ndipo tsopano, mwachizolowezi, munalumphira kwa woyandikana naye wa Cole chifukwa cha khofi ndi maswiti, sangathe kukana bwino. Kumbukirani izi ndikusintha khalidwe lanu m'njira yoyenera. Lekani kutenga mphatso ngati mwachita izi kale. Musamangokhalira kukondana, ndipo musamasewere kumverera kwa munthu. Tengani njira zonse zofunika kuti mukhale bwino.
4. Konzekerani zotsatira zotheka.
Mumapereka Vasya kukhala mabwenzi, akuwathandiza kuthandizidwa naye, ndipo adatenga, ndikufalitsa Allochka wothandizira kuchokera ku dipatimenti yowonetsera ndalama? Ndipo mkulu wa dipatimentiyi, Pyotr Semyonovich, sanayambe kulandira malipiro anu? Chabwino, izi n'zotheka. Mukafika pokwaniritsa cholinga, nthawi zina muyenera kupereka china. Yesetsani kufufuza zotsatira zowonongeka kuti zisakhale zodabwitsa kwa inu. Ngati mukuganiza kuti mtengo uwu ndi wovomerezeka, ndi bwino. Ngati ayi - mutenge chimodzimodzi. Umo ndi moyo!
5. Ndipo mwinamwake zofanana ...
Pamapeto pake mapiri akuyaka, kupereka "kutembenuka kuchokera pachipata" ndi zinthu monga choncho, kuganiza - ndizoopsa kwambiri? Inde, Petya ali ndi nkhope yowawa, koma nthawi yomweyo amamwetulira ndikudziwa momwe angasamalirire. Mwana wake wamwamuna anamupatsa masokosi mu khola la chikasu, ndipo sanafune kumukhumudwitsa. Ndipo mungathe kusankha zomangira zanu ... Kodi zolephera zomwe zilipo phindu la zomwe zilipo zili zofunika kwambiri? Kapena mwinamwake ndizochitika konse?
Lily, wazaka 32, womasulira: "Sindinatenge Ilya ngati mnyamata konse. Anapita nafe kupita ku filimuyo, adakatenga kampani yathu yazimayi ku nkhalango kumutu ndipo adakanikira ndi kukambirana zokambirana za pantyhose, zovala zamkati, masiku ovuta komanso anyamata. Mtsikana wa Ilyushka, ndinamuitana mpaka tsiku limene anabwera kwa ine ndi maluwa. Ndinachita manyazi kwambiri, ndinagwedeza chinthu china chokhudza "kukhalabe bwenzi" komanso "sindinakonzekere ubale wotere" pamene ndinadziwa kuti akhoza kuchoka, ndipo sindinali wokonzeka kutaya ... Ndipo m'malo mwa mawu akuti "Ayi" ndinati " Tiyeni tiyesere »» »
Ilya ndi Lily amakhala limodzi zaka zisanu ndi zitatu, ali ndi mwana wamtengo wapatali, ndipo akuyang'ananibe ndi maso okondwa.
Choncho, posankha, yesani phindu lililonse ndi zowonongeka, ndipo kenaka chitanipo kanthu! Mbuye wabwino kwa inu!