Zimayambira, m'maganizo mwathu mosayembekezereka kuti timasokonezeka, ndikuyang'anitsitsa mabala, mabala, suti, kufunafuna yankho la funso - Kodi tiyenera kuvala chiyani?
Kuti asakhale ndi mafunso ngati amenewa, ndi zosafunikira komanso chifukwa cha kusokonezeka maganizo, munthu ayenera kukhala ndi zovala tsiku lililonse mu zovala zake.
Kodi mungasankhe bwanji zovala zabwino tsiku lililonse? Koma musanayankhe funso ili, tiyeni tiyesere kuyankha funso lina - zomwe ziyenera kukhala, zovala za tsiku ndi tsiku. Ndipo nthawi yomweyo imabwera yankho. Othandiza. Zosangalatsa, zothandiza, zapamwamba. Iyenera kutsindika ulemu wathu ndi kubisala zofooka zathu, chifukwa zovala zomwe timabvala ndizo zida zothandizira anthu omwe ali pafupi nafe. Momwe timavalira, momwe timaonekera, nthawi zina zimadalira kwambiri. Tsoka, monga akunenera mwambiwo: "Iwo amakumana ndi zovalazo, amazikumbukira." Kotero izo zinali, kotero, izo zidzakhala chomwecho.
Kaya kuchuluka kwa zinthu zimene ife ntchito, kaya ndi chikhalidwe ndi chipembedzo mu zovala zathu ziyenera kukhala zovala kuti ife tikhoza kuona poyera ndipo samaona nthawi yomweyo kumverera cha ululu chakuti si choncho ankavalira.
Kodi mungasankhe bwanji zovala zabwino tsiku lililonse? Choyamba, tiyenera kufufuza mosamalitsa chiwerengero chathu. Iwe sungakhoze kuchita izo wekha, pemphani bwenzi, iye adzakuuzani mwaubwenzi momwe muliri woipa. Musakhumudwe. Anthu angwiro padziko lapansi salipo. Tengani izo kuti mutumikire. Mukhoza kulingalira m'maganizo mwanu kuti kalembedwe kake, kachitidwe ka mtundu wanji, ndi zovala zotani zomwe muyenera kuchita tsiku ndi tsiku. Simungathe kulingalira, ndiye m'masitolo! Koma musadutse pakhomo la nyumba yanu, muwerenge ndalama zofunikira kuti mupite ulendo wopita kumalo ndi kubwerera kwawo, ndipo muzisiya ndalama zonse pakhomo.
Yesani mabala ndi mabala, mathalauza, suti, miketi, zovala, jekete. Iwo samatenga ndalama kuti aziyenerera. Yesetsani kukhala ndi moyo. Ganizirani ndondomeko yonse ya mtundu, kuphatikiza osati kuphatikizidwa. Dzifunseni nokha. Cholinga chanu ndi zovala zabwino tsiku lililonse. Momwemo mukhoza kupita kuntchito, kupita ku cafe, kuresitilanti, ku msonkhano wina ndipo simukumva ngati bakha wonyansa. Zovala zomwe mwakonzeka kulandira vuto lililonse.
Sankhani zovala zabwino tsiku ndi tsiku, ndizovuta kwambiri, ndipo muyenera kupatula ola limodzi, kapena tsiku, kuti mupange chithunzi chanu - munthu wokongola, wopambana, wokhutira. Koma izi ndi zofunika za moyo wathu wamakono.
Musayese kujambula chithunzicho mumagazini atsopano, izi sizikugwirizana ndi inu nokha. Pitirizani kuwona kuti ziwoneka bwino pa chiwerengero chanu. Bisani chidzalo chikhoza kukhala jekete yonyamulira, kukweza mmwamba pansi pamwamba pake. Tsegulani chifuwacho, abiseni mapaundi oposa m'chiuno ndi mimba, mathalauza ndi chiuno choposa. Kuwoneka mwakukula kumakula kungagwiritse ntchito nsapato pa zidendene. Kutalika kwa mkanjo kumabisa kachipangizo ka bondo kudzawonekeranso kwakukulu pa chiwerengero chonse. Yesani !!!
Zovala zimatha kuchititsa ulemu wanu, ndipo zimakhala zosiyana ndi inu, choncho mutenge nthawi yanu kuti musapange fano lanu, musagule zinthu pazikhumbo zoyambirira za mtima, ndiye kuti fumbi pamapewa anu.
Zovala za tsiku lirilonse, zofanana ndi kukoma ndi kulingalira zochitika za fanizo lanu zidzakupulumutsani inu kamodzi kuchokera ku funso loopsya limene timadzifunsa kawirikawiri - Kodi tiyenera kuvala chiyani?