Poyankha funsoli: "Mmene mungapangire mnyamata kukhulupirira kuti ndine wabwino kwambiri? "- palibe chovuta. Chinthu chachikulu ndicho kukhulupirira mwa iwe mwini ndi mphamvu zako. Koma choyamba, choyamba, ndikofunika kuti mbuyeyo azikuyamika. Ndipo chifukwa cha izi, choyamba, muyenera kuchita zonse zomwe zingatheke kuti mumusangalatse ndikumusonyeza kuti ndiwe wamkulu kwambiri, yemwe ndiwe .... Funso lokhalo lomwe latsala ndi momwe mungachitire izi ndi momwe mungakhalire, kuti chibwenzi chizindikire zonsezi. Kotero, tiyeni tiyese kupanga wokonda wanu kuzindikira kuti "ndinu mfumukazi."
Kuwoneka ndilo chitsimikizo choyamba cha kupambana .
Kumbukirani kuti kuti mukhale wopambana, muyenera komanso muzimvera izi. Maonekedwe abwino ndi osamalidwa apa akuyimira pa imodzi mwa mfundo zoyamba. Inde, palibe ulamuliro wadziko lonse umene mungapereke molondola momwe mungayang'anire. Ndipo makamaka, kuti izo zinagwira ntchito pa chikumbumtima cha mnyamata. Amuna nthawi zonse amasiyanitsa ndi maonekedwe osiyanasiyana ndi malingaliro a amayi. Koma, ngati ali ndi inu, ndiye kuti mudakali m'chilakolako chake. Zimangokhala zokonzanso zojambula zanu, tsitsi lanu komanso zovala zapamwamba ndipo amakhulupirira kuti ndinu mfumukazi. Mwa njira, kwa mwamuna, ndikofunikira kwambiri mu mawonekedwe a mtundu womwe mumapita nawo kwa anthu ndi kukacheza ndi abwenzi ake. Iye, ngati "wakwiya mopanda malire, mwa nsanje" nthawizonse amasangalala mu kuya kwa moyo wake pamene mukuthandizira, kapena muzindikire kuti mnzanuyo ndi wokongola kuposa aliyense. Pachifukwa ichi, yesetsani kutsindika ulemu wanu ndikubisa zofooka (ngati zilipo). Kuphatikizanso apo, ngati muli ndi kukoma kokoma ndipo nthawi zonse muzivala bwino ndipo mulimonse momwe mungayang'anire oyenerera, zidzakuchititsani kukhala okondwa ndi inu. Kotero mulimonsemo, musamasuke ndipo musaleke kuonetsetsa bwino maonekedwe anu. Perekani wokondedwa wanu mwayi wakukuyamikirani ndikukhulupilira kuti pafupi naye ndiye mtsikana wokongola kwambiri komanso wokongola, yemwe "mwadyera" amawone amuna ena onse, koma ali ndi mwini yekha!
Osati thupi lokha, komanso moyo ...
Sizodabwitsa, koma anthu amayamikira dziko lapansi lolemera la mtsikanayo, komanso kuthekera kwake kukhala wopanda kuyesayesa pazovala zake "zachilendo". Ayenera kusangalala, zosavuta komanso zosangalatsa ndi inu kuti mukhale ndi nthawi iliyonse. Muyenera kuthetsa mnyamata mukakhumudwitsidwa ndi chinachake, kupereka malangizo, kugaŵana naye zokonda zake ndi zokondweretsa. Izi zonse zimatsimikizira kuti iwe udzakhala wabwino kwa iye osati msungwana chabe, komanso ngati bwenzi.
Mtsikana wabwino kwambiri ndi msungwana .
Momwe bambo wina adakulangizirani ndi kuvala m'manja mwanu, muyenera kukumbukira ndi malamulo awiri ovomerezeka a moyo wapamtima, omwe amati: "Kugonana kunali, ndipo kudzakhala" komanso "Zowona zogonana zimakhala zabwino kwa nthawi yaitali." Kumbukirani kuti munthu aliyense amakonda zosiyana pa kugonana. Ndichifukwa chake simuyenera kuopa kupereka kwa wokondedwa wanu. Khalani womasuka ndipo nthawi zonse muzilankhula molimba mtima za zilakolako zanu zogonana. Anyamata amakonda atsikana awa ndipo chifukwa cha izi amawakonda kwambiri.
Gwiritsani ntchito malingaliro anu okhudzana ndi kugonana, kuti mukhale osangalatsa komanso osakumbukika usiku uliwonse, ndipo mnyamata wanu adzakuuzani nthawi zambiri kuti ndinu wabwino kwambiri ndipo mumayamikira maubwenzi anu. Kuphatikiza apo, mnyamatayo amamva ngati maso enieni, ndi kuyamikira chifukwa cha izi zidzagwa pamapewa anu.
Ubale umene ungapangitse mnyamata kuzindikira kuti ndiwe wabwino kwambiri .
Mnyamata nthawi zonse amafuna kukhala wamphamvu, wanzeru komanso wokongola. Musaiwale kumuthandiza kuti akhale wotsimikiza. Pambuyo pake, ndani, ngati si inu, ndi womuthandizira wanu kapena ndi mawu okoma, mukhoza kutsimikizira mwamuna wake "Ine" kuposa ena onse. Kotero musaiwale kuti, choyamba, muyenera kunyada ndi chibwenzi chanu, ndipo musaiwale kumuuza za izo, ndipo iye, panthawi yake, adzanyadira ndi inu. Pangani chikhalidwe chanu chomwe mumakonda chitonthozo chonse m'mawu onse a mawu awa ndikuwonetsetseni zomwe inu muli. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti ayenera kuzindikira ndi kukhulupirira kuti ndibwino kwa inu nokha. Izi zonse zimakhala pansi pa maubwenzi omwe si mnyamata yemwe amamukonda chibwenzi chake, koma mosiyana.
Mwa njira, kwa omwe, monga ife sitiri achilendo, ndi chinyengo cha akazi. Inu simungakhoze kuchita popanda izo apa. Ndi chithandizo chake, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito osankhidwa anu pang'ono pothandizidwa ndi caress ndi kuyang'anitsitsa. Kotero inu mukhoza kuwapangitsa wokondedwa kukhulupirira chanu chabwino. Koma, chofunika kwambiri - musagwedeze ndodo ndipo musawonongeke.
Kuika maphunziro omwe aphunzira kwa "Queens" .
Pomaliza, tinasankha, pogwiritsa ntchito zomwe tatchulazi, kuti tipeze mapeto ndikupatseni malangizo omwe angamupangitse kuti mwanayo azikhulupirira kuti ndiwe mtsikana wabwino kwambiri kuposa wina aliyense.
Mnyamata sangakuuzeni kuti ndiwe wabwino kwambiri, ngati mukufuna:
- kumangokhala moyo wake wokha, kumusangalatsa yekha ndi kumutsatira iye;
- nthawi zambiri amamufotokozera kuti ndiwe wabwino kwambiri;
- yerekezerani ndi amuna ena (makamaka anyamata akale);
- womangidwa ndi kumenyedwa pabedi;
- Musamadziyang'ane nokha ndi maonekedwe anu;
- kumuthandizani nthawi zonse ndi nsanje ndi kusakhulupirika;
- kuyika maganizo ake ndi zisankho zake pa iye.
Mnyamata adzakuyamikirani ndikuganizira zabwino, ngati mukufuna:
- nthawi zonse muzidziyang'anira nokha ndi mawonekedwe anu;
- khalani ndi chidwi pa moyo wake ndipo muzindikire zonse zomwe zimamuchitikira;
- Musawope kukambirana ndi iye zokhumba zanu zogonana ndi malingaliro;
- osati kutseguka kwathunthu pamaso pake, khalani ndi zeni zake zomwe, zomwe zidzamusunga wokondedwa mwazochita;
- musamamuvutitse mwamunayo ndipo chitani kuti ali ndi nthawi yakuphonya;
- kumupatsa cere, kukhudzidwa, chikondi ndi chitonthozo, kutsimikizira kuti iye ndi munthu weniweni;
- kuti mukhale nokha komanso kuti musaiwale kuti ndinu mkazi!