Kupsompsona kwenikweni, kokongola ndi kokondweretsa, kungakuyembekezerani inu ndi munthu yemwe amachititsa mtima wanu kukulira zambiri, omwe ali ndi malingaliro anu usana ndi usiku, zomwe zimakuchititsani kupenga. Iye ndi mmodzi yekha. Kupsompsona kwanu koyamba kudzakhala wamba, palibe chodabwitsa, ngati simukumverera kumverera kwapadera kwa mnzanuyo. Koma osadandaula, ndani akudziwa: mwinamwake kukupsompsona koyamba kukuyembekezerani patsogolo? Ndipo mwinamwake iye adzakhalanso ndi munthu uyu pamene maganizo anu amakula.
Ndipo tsopano mphindi yabwera. Zimayandikira pafupi ndipafupi, zimakhala zovuta kuti mupume, mutu wanu umayamba kuyendayenda, thupi lanu silimvera, ndipo mtima wanu umatuluka m'chifuwa chanu. Simungathe kunena kalikonse, koma maso anu adzisunga okha ... Milomo yake mofatsa komanso mwachikondi imakhudza anu. Kwa kanthawi dziko lonse lapansi likusowa. Khalani inu awiri okha, ndipo palibe china chomwe chingakhale chofunikira pa nthawi ino. Palibe, iwe ndi iye yekha. Mphindi - ndipo mwadzidzidzi mumadziwa: apa pali, kukupsompsona koyamba kumene simudzaiwala.
Kodi mungaganizire bwanji mphindi?
Kuyanjana ndi wokondedwa wanu ndi nthawi yabwino yopsompsonana koyamba. Izi, mwinamwake, ndizo zomwe mukuyembekezera kuchokera kwa wina ndi mnzake. Kupsompsona pa nkhani iyi kudzakhala chizindikiro cha kuyamikira kwa madzulo abwino okha.
Pa tsiku loyamba, mwinamwake, ndipo musafulumizitse zochitika, ngakhale chirichonse chikupitirira monga mwachizolowezi. Koma musachedwe, chifukwa osankhidwa anu akhoza kukhala ovuta, osamvetsa ngati izi ndizo ubwenzi kapena chikondi. Ndibwino ngati mutakhala nokha, kuti wina asakulepheretseni. Nenani zikomo madzulo abwino. Ngati, poyankha, mnzanuyo akuyamba kukopa, akuwombera m'malo, akuyang'anitsitsa kapena amanyazi, ndiye akuwerengera kupsompsonana koyamba. Ndipo inu, mwina, muyenera kumuthandiza.
Sitikukayikira kuti tsopano mudzakanidwa kukupsompsona, koma ngakhale izi zitachitika, musakwiyitse, nthawi yoyenera ikubwera. Sikuti anthu onse angathe pa nthawi yoyenera kuthetsa mantha awo ndikugonjetsa manyazi.
Momwe mungakupsompsone?
Tiyeni tipitirire kuzinthu zothandiza.
Ngati muli ndi kukayika, ngati mnyamata wanu ali wokonzeka kumpsompsona, mungamufunse funso ili: "Kodi ndingakupsompsone?" Ngati mukufuna, nenani mawu ena, kunena zoona: "Ndikufuna kukupsompsonani." Koma, ndithudi, izi siziri zachikondi kwambiri. Kapena mwinamwake muyenera kuchita popanda mawu?
Kotero, dongosolo lanu lachitapo.
- Inu ndi mnzanuyo mukuyang'anizana. Mukumwetulira bwino ndikukuuzani zikomo chifukwa chosangalatsa.
- Yandikirani kwa iye kuti mukhale pafupi kwambiri. Panthawiyi, mwinamwake, mudzamva chizungulire ndipo "nthaka iyamba kuchoka pansi pa mapazi." Zomwezo ndizochitikira ndi mnzanuyo.
- Tsekani maso anu ndi kutambasula pakamwa pake.
- Kupsompsona kuyenera kukhala pang'onopang'ono ndi wofatsa. Musachedwe, khalani pamilomo yake pang'ono.
- Osamaliza kumpsompsona - ndi kusangalala kwa mphindi. Tsopano inu mukhoza kutsegula maso anu. Mwina, kupitiriza kukutsatira, ndipo mwina ayi. Musafulumizitse. Pambuyo kumpsompsonana kotero, mnyamatayo adzakuganizirani mpaka msonkhano wotsatira ndikufulumizitsa msonkhano wanu watsopano.
Tsopano ukudziwa chomwe chipsompsone choyamba chiyenera kukhala! Ndikukufunsani kukupsompsone koyamba kosaiwalika!