Tsopano, pokhudzana ndi kudalirana kwa dziko lonse, mkazi wamalonda, wokwanira, yemwe safuna kuti akhale "chizindikiro cha amuna", amadza patsogolo. Iyeyo amadziŵa momwe angakwanitsire kufika pamitengo ina ndipo amafunikanso kukhala ndi mwamuna pafupi naye, zomwe zingakhale chizindikiro cha kupambana kwake. Vomerezani, kupeza munthu wotero amene adzasamba mosamala mu mbiri ya bwenzi lake si kosavuta. Choncho, bizinesi yambiri, osati yolemedwa ndi mavuto a nyumba ndi mavuto a amayi, ndi osakwatira. Nthawi zambiri sakhala ndi nthawi yoti akhale azimayi, opanda ufulu, okonzeka kukhala pachibwenzi ndi mitu yawo. Akazi oterewa nthawi zambiri amatengapo mbali pachibwenzi.
Monga momwe chiwonetsero chimasonyezera, amayi amzeru amavutika ndi kusungulumwa nthawi zambiri. Kuwonetseratu kwa zomwe amai akuchita mu chiyanjano kumabweretsa kulekanitsa, kuzizira (sizili zokhudzana ndi kugonana, koma za kupirira, za kuwonetseratu koyambirira mu chiyanjano). Mwa amuna, motero, chibadwa cha msaka sichikukhutira. Choncho, kugonana kolimba kumapangidwira, kuti ndizofunikira kuti thupi lawo lifunefune, kuti atenge nsanja yozungulira. Zoona, pali ziphuphu. Nkhondo yopanda kuyandikira kapena kuzingidwa kwa nthawi yayitali kumapangitsa kuti anthu ena asatenge chidwi, amawopsya ena, amakhumudwitsa ena. Pano, monga mu zonse, muyenera kuimapo panthawiyi, fufuzani kutanthauza golidi. Zimakhalanso kuti pamene cholinga chikukwanirizika, phokoso lidagwa, palibe yemwe "adzamenyana" - chilakolako chimatha kwinakwake. Tsopano zidzakhala zoyenera kusewera pamodzi ndi mwamuna. Panthawiyi, zomwe amayi angathe kuchita zingakhale zopindulitsa kwambiri popititsa patsogolo maubwenzi. Ngakhale izi ndizovuta kwambiri, chifukwa kwa ena ogonjetsa ndondomeko yokhayo ndi yofunikira kuposa zotsatira. Pano, chisonyezani, musati muwonetsedwe, chirichonse chimakonzedweratu. Ngakhale ... Pakuti mkazi alibe kanthu kotheka. Zonse zimadalira munthuyo. Muzoyanjana ndi anthu, chiyambidwe chikhoza kukhala, monga kuvomerezedwa ndi "hurray", ndi kukanidwa konse.
Mwina tiyenera kulingalira za kuwonetseredwa kwachitsikana pochita zogonana.
Pano, malingaliro amagawikana kwambiri. Mwamuna wina amakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi mfundo yakuti mayi ali pabedi amayamba kugwira ntchito. Monga taonera ndi anthu ogonana, kwenikweni, awa ndiwo amuna omwe ali ndi atsogoleri, kapena mwachikhalidwe cha mkwiyo wawo, amagwiritsidwa ntchito kutsogolera chirichonse ndi aliyense. Mu chibwenzi, amangofuna kumasuka ndikusintha maonekedwe awo, kukhala kumbali ina ya "ziboliboli". Cholinga cha amayi, pa nkhaniyi, chimalandiridwa komanso chikhoza kuyembekezera.
Mtundu wina wa amuna omwe amatsutsana kwambiri ndi mawonetseredwe aakazi pabedi amakana mawonetseredwe awo, kapena kulola kuti ziwonetsedwe kokha ndi chikhumbo chomwe chinatchulidwa kale, kapena masiyeso ang'onoang'ono. Ngati chiyanjano chawo chigwirizana, amakhutira ndi zochitikazi, ndipo palibe mafunso. Mavuto ayamba kumene mwamunayo akulephera kuti asonyeze kumasulidwa, ndipo mkazi, mosiyana, akugwira ntchito mwakhama ndipo safuna kuti azigwirizana nawo. Awiri awiriwa sangachite nsanje, simungapereke uphungu. Zonse zimathetsa anthu awiri okha omwe ali ndi mavuto.
Choncho, kufotokozera zonse zomwe tafotokozazi, zikhoza kufotokozedwa momveka bwino kuti mawonetseredwe a chiyanjano cha amayi ali ndi chikhalidwe chachiwiri, monga chirichonse. Zonse zimadalira kupeza malo abwino kuti mugwiritse ntchito ntchitoyi ndi luso lanu, kumene muyenera kuletsa mphamvu yanu. Apanso, zizolowezi za akazi. Chabwino, ife tiri kuti popanda iwo!