Kodi mwazindikira kuti pali anthu omwe nthawi yomweyo amapereka mpweya wabwino? Zikuwoneka kuti palibe chinthu chapadera pa iwo, koma kumwetulira, mawu amodzi - ndi dziko lonse pamapazi awo. Kodi chinsinsi cha chidwi chawo n'chiyani? Kodi izi ndi ziti: chisangalalo, luso la kulankhulana, kusagwirizana, kudziŵa momwe mafupa amaseŵera kapena kukonda zachiwerewere? Tayesayesa kuyankha mafunso awa ndikuwona malamulo okongola. Ndipotu, ndani sakufuna kusangalatsa aliyense? ..
CHIYAMBI CHA SELF-REPRESENTATION
Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira: chisangalalo, ndiko kuti, kukonda ndi kupindula bwino si mphatso yobadwa, koma khalidwe lopatsidwa. Zoonadi, zimadalira kwambiri chikhalidwe ndi umunthu (monga kutseguka / chinsinsi, kufotokoza / kuchotsedwa), koma ngati mukufuna kuphunzira kusangalatsa ena sikovuta. Monga momwe zilili ndi banal, koma kudzipereka kumachita mbali yofunikira, ndiko, kuthekera kudzipambana. Ndipo sikuti ndi zokhazo komanso osati momwe mumavalira komanso kuswa (maonekedwe akuyenera kukhala apamwamba kwambiri), koma momwe mumadzionera nokha. Kwa munthu yemwe sadzidalira yekha ndikutemberera dziko lonse lapansi, palibe amene angamvetsere. Anthu odabwitsa amamva maganizo athu ndi maganizo athu. Ndipo chotero, ngati mukufuna kuti ena akukondeni, ndiloleni ndipemphe ndekha. Choncho, musanapite ku phwando, ntchito, msonkhano ndi anzanu akusukulu, kuyenda mofanana), yang'anani mosamala pa kalilole ndikuyang'anitsitsa ulemu wanu ("Ndi maso otani, milomo, mabere!", "Kodi ndimapita bwanji ku skirt iyi! "). Ganiziraninso nkhani yosangalatsa, kumbukirani mnzanu wokondedwa, amwe kapu ya khofi ndi cognac, idyani nthochi kapena chidutswa cha chokoleti cha mdima ... Mwa njira iyi, mogwirizana ndi inu nokha ndi maonekedwe anu, mukhoza kusangalatsa anthu ena ndi kupeza zokondweretsa kulankhulana.
MALAMULO OTHANDIZA
Komabe, kudzidalira nokha sikukwanira. Charisma ndizochititsa luso loyankhulana, lomwe liri ndi malamulo ake onse. Tiyeni tiphunzire malamulo a zosangalatsa za anthu ...
Khalani aulemu! Kotero inu simungangokhalira kumvetsa chifundo kwa ena, koma mudzatha kukhalabe ndi ulemu pamene mukukumana ndi nkhanza. Pa mkangano, kunja kwawonekeratu kumafuna kuzindikira kuti munthu amene samayankha mwachibwana amanyengerera. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, muyenera kuphunzira kunena "mawu amatsenga": "chonde", "khalani achifundo", "pepani ine". Njira yabwino yoti "zikomo" ndikufotokozera zomwe mumayamika. Fotokozerani chifukwa cha "zikomo" wanu ndi mawu ena owonjezera (mwachitsanzo, "zikomo kundilola kudziwiratu"). Mu zana chifukwa cha kuyamikira kwakukulu kumeneku mudzalandira kumwetulira kwakukulu ndi mawu abwino.
Pita patali! Simungayandikire pafupi ndi munthu wina wosadziwika bwino, mumalo ozungulira malo ake a maganizo, kumene anthu omwe ali pafupi kwambiri amaloledwa kupeza. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalangiza nthawi zonse kuti asayandikire munthu pafupi ndi masentimita 50, chifukwa kuthawa kwazomwe zimayambitsa zokha kungachititse kusakhutira komanso kukwiya.
Musati mubise maso anu! Apo ayi, anthu angaganize kuti simunena zomwe mumaganiza. Kuwoneka kosauka, kuyang'ana kumbali kapena kupitilira oyankhulana osakhala nawo oyankhulana. Osonkhana maso amasonyeza chidwi pa msonkhano. Koma musaiwale kuti kuyang'anitsitsa, kuyang'anitsitsa kungathe kusokoneza. Gwiritsani ntchito njira yeniyeni yeniyeni, yomwe ikuthandizani kuthetsa nkhawa zomwe zimachititsa kuti muyang'ane nthawi zonse. Muziyang'ana osati ophunzira ake, koma pamwamba pa mlatho wa mphuno.
Zikomo! Ndi munthu yemwe amasangalala, ndi kosavuta kulankhulana. Ali ndi maubwenzi abwino ndi anzako ndi achibale. Sungamitsani mwangwiro kukhazikitsa zolumikizana pakati pa anthu. Ngati simukumwetulira kumwetulira, yesetsani kutsogolo pagalasi, ndikugwiritsanso ntchito lusoli. Mudzadabwa kuti dziko lozungulira inu, komanso chofunika kwambiri, malingaliro anu pa inu adzasintha.
Zikomo! Anthu onse amakonda pamene akutamandidwa (chifukwa cha chidziwitso chawo, luso, maonekedwe, makhalidwe awo). Choyamba, zindikirani zonse zomwe mumakonda za anthu ndi khalidwe lawo. Lankhulani za makhalidwe awo. Poyamikiridwa, munthu samadziŵa kuti amvetsere zomwe akuyembekeza, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti amve chisoni kwambiri ndi inu, amachotsa maganizo ake ndi kuyandikana naye.
Musati mutengedwere ndi kudzudzula kwanu! Musadzidziwe nokha, musadzitchule nokha: "Ndine woipa," "Ndine wolemera," "Ndine waulesi." Anthu akhoza kukhulupirira izo. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kubisala zolakwa zanu. Ingolankhulani za iwo mwamtendere, ndi kumwetulira, podziwa momwe mungakonzekere.
Sonyezani chidwi chenicheni kwa ena! Lolani anthu amve kuti ndi ofunikira. Khalani ndi chidwi ndi munthu yemwe ali pafupi ndi inu. Mufunseni za banja, ntchito, zokondweretsa. Musasokoneze ndipo musayesere kudzifunira nokha, lembani mbiri yonse ya moyo wanu ndi mfundo zochepa kwambiri. Ngati munthu akamba za iye yekha akakumana, ndithudi adzakhalabe yekha. Kuwonjezera apo, chinsinsi ndi kuponderezedwa kwa anthu nthawizonse zimakhala zokopa kwambiri kuposa chinachake chosasulidwa ndi chodziwika.
Phunzirani kumvetsera! Muzichita moleza mtima komanso mwachidwi. Yesetsani kudziyika nokha pamalo a wolemba nkhani, kuti muthe kumvetsa bwino chidziwitso chatsopanocho. Osasokoneza zokambiranazo ndi ndemanga. Lankhulani pamene mnzanu akufuna kudziwa zomwe mumaganiza za vutoli. Mnzanu wabwino ndi womvetsera kwambiri. Pano pali chidziwitso choyankhulana.
Itanani munthuyo ndi dzina! Mukakumana, nthawi zonse yesetsani kutchula dzina la munthuyo pazokambirana kangapo. Mwinamwake, iye ayamba kukuchitirani inu chifundo chachikulu ndi kudalira, chifukwa inu mwawonetsa chidwi kwa munthu wodzichepetsa.
KUKHALA NDI ZINTHU ZOPHUNZITSIDWA.
Koposa zonse, timakonda ena chifukwa cha manyazi. Komabe, ndi zophweka kudzigonjetsa nokha, akatswiri a zamaganizo amati, ndikofunikira kuti mupeze. Pano pali ntchito zina zolemba kunyumba zomwe anthu sakudziwa okha. Ngati mukupirira nawo, zidzakhala zosavuta kuti mupange chidziwitso chatsopano.
"Kodi Nophelet ndi kuti?" Ziribe kanthu kuti zingamvetsetse bwanji, koma choyamba muyenera kuphunzira momwe mungakhalire oyanjana ndi alendo. Lembani chinthu chomwe sichipezeka (mwachitsanzo, laibulale ya Semenov), ndipo funsani anthu za izo. Zochita zosavutazi zidzakusonyezani kuti ena ali okonzeka kukuthandizani ndipo sali nkhanza.
"Ndiyimba tsopano." Mayesero otsatila ndi klabu ya karaoke. Kumvetsetsa, ndi zofanana ndi momwe mukuyimbira, chofunikira kwambiri, ndizoyembekeza ndi zokondweretsa zomwe mumaziwonetsa.
"Mmodzi mumzinda." Potsiriza, pitani payendo. Koma musalowe mu malingaliro anu, koma samverani anthu oyandikana nawo. Sungani pa iwo - ndipo adzakuyankhani chimodzimodzi. Chifukwa ndinu wokondweretsa, ndibwino ndikupempha chikhumbo chomwetulira.
"HELLO, NDASULIDWA ..."
Zingakhale zoopsa kwambiri kuposa kukhala nokha mu kampani yosadziwika ?! Ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Kodi n'zotheka kusiya mphindi 15 chiyambireni tchuthi? Ndipo apa ayi. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amalimbikitsa kuti akhalebe osangalala. Pezani wina wosungulumwa m'khamulo, kumwetulira kwa iye ndikubwera pafupi, kuyang'ana m'maso. Dzidziwitse nokha ndikupempha moona mtima thandizo. Nenani: "Zangokhalapo, koma ndakhala ndiri ndekha, kodi mungandiuze zomwe zikuchitika ndikudziwitsa alendo?" Ndipo ngati mutamwetulira ndikusiya manyazi - mnzako watsopano adzakuthandizani kuti musamve ngati khwangwala woyera pa holide ya moyo. Chinthu chachikulu - musachite mantha. Kwa mafunso angapo osamala, palibe amene angadye ndi kukupha!
CHITSANZO CHA OPENDA
Anna Karnaukhova, katswiri wa zamaganizo:
Chifukwa cha kusiyana kwa zilembo, malingaliro pa zinthu kapena zinthu zina, anthu ambiri amatha kuona chilankhulo chodziwika bwino, ndipo zowonongeka zimakhala zachibadwa. N'zosatheka kudziwa luso mu maminiti asanu. Choyamba, muyenera kudziyang'ana nokha kuchokera kunja ndikuyang'ana mphamvu zanu ndi zofooka zanu. Ngati mutuluka ngati machesi, pazifukwa zilizonse, kapena pitani mwa inu nokha ndipo mukhale chete kwa maola ambiri, simungapange zofuna zanu. Ngati muli okoma, akumwetulira, aulemu ndi ena, ndiye kuti anthu ambiri adzakuyankhani. Kuwonjezera pamenepo, ndikofunika kuti mumvetsere munthu wothandizana nawo popanda kusemphana kapena kutsutsa. Muyeneranso kuyesa munthu, makamaka ngati ndizosiyana ndi zovuta zina, ndi bwino kukambirana zochita zake, koma wina sayenera kutsutsidwa mochuluka, kutenga udindo wa guru, chifukwa zochitika pamoyo wanu zingakhale zosiyana kwambiri ndi zochitika pamoyo wa wogwirizanitsa, ndipo malangizo anu amangovulaza. Mwachidziwikire, mungathe kunena mwachangu: ngati muli ochezeka ndi omasuka kudziko, ndiye dziko lidzatseguka kwa inu. Komabe, khalani okonzekera kuti pakadali pano mungakondenso wina. Muzichita nawo!