Nthawi zina amuna amatha kutali, ngati kuti sakufuna kukhala ndi ife kwanthawi yino. Ndipo tikupitiriza kuganiza, chifukwa cha zomwe zinachitika, kudandaula kuyang'anitsitsa ... Zingatheke kuti zolakwika zambiri zapachikazi zinapangidwa pachiyambi cha chiyanjano.
Chida # 1. Mpikisano ndi wosankhidwayo .
Munthu aliyense amakhulupirira kuti amayenera kukomana ndi mtsikana wabwino kwambiri. Wokongola kwambiri, wochenjera, wachuma, wokongola, wokongola - mndandanda uwu ukhoza kupitilira kwa nthawi yaitali. Inde, choncho, koma ndi yaing'ono "koma".
Wosankhidwa akhale wabwino kuposa atsikana ena, koma sangathe kupambana poyerekeza ndi mwamuna wake. Kotero simusowa kudzitamandira pazomwe mumachita, pindani mu bowling kasanu ndi mzere mzere, muthamange mofulumira, pitirizani, ndi mtundu wanji wa antchito ofunikira, ndi zina zotero. Musayamikire izo! Ndi bwino kumuuza momwe angawotchere kupambana kwake ndi kupambana kwake. Apo ayi, munthu angaganize kuti sakuwoneka bwino ndikukumana naye. Tangoganizani makhalidwe anu a utsogoleri omwe mungathe kuwazindikira m'banja.
Chida # 2. Chilichonse sichidasankhidwa.
Mukhoza kusankha nthawi yayitali yomwe mukufuna kuti mukhale ndi phwando la ukwati, kodi mphete iyenera kukhala yotani, ndi mtundu wanji wa achibale anu omwe mudzaitane ku ukwatiwo. Chinthu chokhacho - lozani malingaliro anu! Izi mungathe kukhala otsimikiza kuti zonse zatha nthawi yaitali, ndipo mwamunayo akuyenera kukhala ndi "zosankha". Izi sizikutanthauza kuti iwo azigwiritsa ntchito. Koma kukhala ndi njira yowononga kudzasangalatsa moyo wa munthuyo.
Musagwiritse ntchito mawu monga "ndipo apa padzakhala bwino kuyang'ana khungu la mwana." Kodi mwakonzeka kusuntha mankhwala anu odzola pa shelefu masentimita 15 kuti mugwirizane ndi cologne ndi lumo pamenepo? Amuna samakonda pamene wina akufuna kuthamanga pa gawo lawo, amawasankha.
Chida # 3. Zakale ziri kale.
Amuna samakonda pamene akuyesera kuyerekezera ndi wina. Zosangalatsa kwambiri, ngati mumapereka chilichonse kuti bwenzi lanu lapamtima likhale bwino kuposa mnzanuyo. Limbikitsani lilime, ngati wokondedwayo ayamba kufunsa, yemwe analipo kale. Kodi mukuganiza kuti akufuna kumva choonadi? Ayi! Iye akungofuna chitamando ndi umboni wanu kuti iye ndi wokonda kwambiri. Pa chifukwa chimenechi, simungathe kuyerekezera "magawo" ake ogonana ndi anu.
Musayese kumusangalatsa munthuyo kuti ake osankhidwa kale anali oipitsitsa kuposa inu. Sizingatheke kuti kuyesa kuimirira pa ndalama za wina ndikugwira ntchito. Skoreevsego, wosankhidwa wanu adzasintha mosiyana kwambiri kuti mumaganiza kuti ndi wotayika, munthu amene sangathe kusankha bwino.
Chida # 4. Mafunso pambali
"Ndikuwoneka bwino?" N'zoonekeratu kuti atsikanawo amasangalala kumvetsera mapemphero ake mobwerezabwereza. Mwamunayo adzasankha kuti: a) muli ndi vuto la kukumbukira, b) simukukhulupirira zomwe akumva, c) mwataya nkhani zokambirana. Ndi mafunso ngati amenewa, n'zotheka kuphunzitsa maganizo okayika. Ndipo kwenikweni, - akuganiza, - ndimkonda kwenikweni? Zotsatira za ntchito yake yoganiza zingakhale kusweka kwanu.
Chida # 5. Kuwona mtima poyamba
Amuna samazikonda pamene "akuwonetsedwa" kwa ena kuti alemekeze. Kodi zimakhala zomasuka kumva ngati chiwonetsero mu nyumba yosungiramo zinthu zomwe chizindikiro "sichigwira dzanja"? Mwamuna mwa chilengedwe ndi mlenje, osati chipewa.
Chida # 6. Mapulani - ayi
"Lero tikupita ku cinema, mawa kuti tidzakhalepo, ndipo mawa tidzakuchezerani" - kodi mukuganiza kuti amakonda pamene mukusunga nthawi yake, osasiya malo ake okha? Osati anthu onse amakonda kuyenda pa chingwe, akudziyesa kukhala chidole.
Chida # 7. Kondani momwe iye aliri
Musayesere kuzisintha ku zizoloŵezi zoipa ndi kuthandizidwa ndi mawu okonzeka. Kukhumudwitsa munthu wokhwima ndi ntchito yosayamika. Pazimenezi mungathe kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu zambiri, ndipo mutha kupeza zotsatira za mkwiyo ndi kukwiya.