M'zinthu zafilosofi, chimwemwe chimatanthauzidwa ngati momwe munthu amamvera mumtima mwake ndi zikhalidwe za kukhala kwake, chidzalo cha moyo ndi kudzizindikira. Chiyanjano chimangotanthauzidwa kukhala chikhalidwe cha mkati mwa mgwirizano ndi mgwirizano ndi wekha. Koma momwe mungakwaniritsire mkhalidwe uno wamkati, momwe mungadzimvere nokha kuti ndinu munthu wogwirizana? Palibe mankhwala apadziko lonse pano. Aliyense payekha ayenera kudziwa zomwe zimapanga chimwemwe ndi mgwirizano.
Koma osati mwachabe mu filosofi ya chidzalo cha moyo ndi kudzizindikira. Yesani kubwereranso kumoyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ndikudziyang'anitsitsa nokha, koma pang'ono kuchokera pamwamba. Inu mudzawona dziko lalikulu, mmenemo dziko lanu ndi mzinda wanu, ndi pa msewu umodzi wa mzinda - nyumba yanu, momwe mukukhalamo. Tangoganizani kuti munayang'ana pawindo lanu. Kodi mudzawona chiyani? Nyumba yokongola yomwe mumakhala mkazi wachikondi ndi wokondedwa akuzunguliridwa ndi banja? Kapena kodi chisa chapamwamba chimene okonda awiri amadzibisa? Kapena nyumba yabwino yokhala ndi ntchito yopanda ntchito? Kodi mumayang'ana bwanji m'nyumba mwanu? Mukudziwika nokha, musadzidziletse nokha - kodi mumalankhula chiani: mukuda nkhawa, mukukhala momasuka, mukukhazikika kapena mokondwera, mokondwa? Zochita zochepazi zikuwonetsa chikhalidwe chanu chamkati ndikukhutira ndi moyo. Chinthu chachikulu sichiyenera kukhala chinyengo. Musaganize zomwe mlendo angawone poyang'ana pawindo lanu - pamaso pa anthu akunja timakonda kuvala masks, ndipo pochita izi kuwona mtima n'kofunika.
Mukudzionera nokha kuchokera pamwamba, yesani malo anu padziko. Kodi mumakhutitsidwa ndi izo? Kodi mumakhutitsidwa ndi zomwe mumachita? Ngati mbali imodzi ya moyo ikukuchititsani manyazi - simungathe kuyanjana. Lembani mwatsatanetsatane ndikufufuza bwinobwino mfundo zonse. Sankhani ngati mumanyada chifukwa cha ntchito yanu, moyo wanu umayamba, ngakhale kuti nthawi zonse mumachita zinthu zosangalatsa. Sankhani malo omwe mukufuna kugwira nawo ntchito. Ngati kawirikawiri mumakhutitsidwa ndi chirichonse, komabe "palilakwika", yesani kukumba zakuya. Kawirikawiri, chimwemwe chimakhala ndi zinthu zazing'ono, ndipo kuti mukwaniritse mgwirizano, mulibe magawo ang'onoang'ono - monga chikho cha chokoleti yotentha m'mawa. N'zosakayikitsa kuti pakuyang'anitsitsa mudzapeza zinthu zosavuta zomwe zingakhale zosavuta kuchotsa, kapena ayi, kumbukirani chinthu chomwe chimakusangalatsani, chimene simunachite kwa nthawi yayitali.
Komabe, kawirikawiri chifukwa chokhalira osasangalala sichinthu chapadera, koma mwa inu nokha. Dictum yotchuka ya Kozma Prutkov imasonyeza bwino kuti munthu amakhala wodalirika mwachindunji pamtima wa munthu: "Ngati mukufuna kukhala osangalala, khalani naye." Akatswiri ambiri amalingaliro a zamaganizo amanena kuti mwachisangalalo muyenera kumazoloŵera, kuphunzitsa maganizo anu, ndi kukwaniritsa mgwirizano wamkati ndi ntchito ya tsiku ndi tsiku.
Choyamba ndi chofunika kwambiri, mukayankha funso loti ndinu ndani, muyenera kuphunzira kudzivomereza nokha monga momwe muliri, kapena kupanga ndondomeko zowonetsera zokhudzana ndi kusintha. Kawirikawiri ndi kusakhutira mkati ndi kudzikonda komwe kumachititsa kuti munthu asakhale wosangalala. Ndikofunika kudzikonda nokha, ndiye ena akuyang'anirani ndi maso anu. Yesetsani kuyang'ana mwachidwi pa zomwe zikukuwonetsani zolakwitsa zomwe zimakuwonetsani kuti mulipo - ndizowopsya kapena mwinamwake, m'malo mwake, zimakupatsani piquancy?
Nthawi zambiri m'malingaliro athu pali lingaliro lakuti chimwemwe sichikuperekedwa kwa manja a munthu ndipo chirichonse chiyenera kulipiridwa, ndipo inu, ndi zofooka zanu zoopsya, makamaka si oyenera chimwemwe. Koma kodi zilidi choncho? Chimwemwe nthawi zonse chimatizinga, chinthu chachikulu ndikuchiwona ndikuchikomera popanda kupanga zovuta kwa ife eni pamene kulibe ndipo sizingatheke. Musati muzinena nokha kuti: "Tsopano ndigonjetsa izi, ndiyeno ndidzasangalala ndi chimwemwe ndi mgwirizano." Izi siziri zoona, ngati simungathe kukhala osangalala panopa - nkutheka kuti simungathe. Chisangalalo chaching'ono chenicheni chiri nthawi zonse. Ndikofunika kuti mudziwone nokha kuti muyang'ane mozungulira chinthu chosangalatsa chomwe chimakupangitsani kukhala osangalala ndipo chimadza ndi kumverera kwa mgwirizano wa kukhala.
Inde, izi sizikutanthauza kuti muyenera kusiya kudzipangira nokha - ayi, muyenera kupitirizabe kudzigwira nokha, koma musayembekezere kuti chimwemwe chidzakugwerani mukamaliza, koma phunzirani kupeza chimwemwe ndi mgwirizano pano ndi pano. Kulota zam'mbuyo, musaiwale kuti mukukhala panopa!
Lembani moyo wanu ndi zochitika zosangalatsa: konzekerani maholide ang'onoang'ono, misonkhano ya abwenzi, kulowerera ku chilengedwe, kuyamba zinthu zowonetseratu - zinthu zonsezi zazing'ono zimapangidwira mu nthawi yonse ya chisangalalo ndi chimwemwe.
Mukadzuka m'mawa, yambani tsiku lanu ndi kumwetulira, konzani nokha kuti tsikulo lidzapambana ndi losangalala. Masana, ubongo wanu ukukonzekera zochitika zonse zokondweretsa ndipo musaganizire zolephera zochepa. Madzulo musanakagone muzikumbukira zabwino zonse zomwe zinachitika tsiku. Gona tulo pamalingaliro abwino, kuti tsiku liyambe ndi ilo.
Kupeza mgwirizano wamkati, kugwirizana ndi ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku, kudzigwira wekha, kudziphunzitsa nokha kuganizira za chimwemwe. Zokongola ngati zikuwoneka, koma ambiri a ife sitingalole kuti tidzakhale okondwa, mosadziwa mosakonzekera zolephera zokha. Nthawi zambiri, pamene mnzanu akuti "wodala iwe", timamuyankha "yah, ndiwe chiyani, ndi chiyani chomwe chili chisangalalo kumeneko." Musayendetsere nokha chimwemwe, dzivomerezeni nokha kuti ndinu munthu wogwirizana, lolani kuti mukhale osangalala - ndipo chimwemwe chidzabwera kunyumba kwanu, chifukwa nthawi zonse ndi kumene mukuyembekezeredwa, komwe kuli kosangalatsa. Kodi mungapeze bwanji chisangalalo ndi chiyanjano chamkati? Ziri kwa iwe!