Makhalidwe achikazi, tsiku loyamba

Kotero, mwamuna wa maloto anu anakuitanani ku tsiku lanu loyamba. Ndiwe wokondwa komanso wogwedezeka kuganiza za zomwe mungavalidwe, tsitsi lomwe ndikupanga, komanso chofunika kwambiri - momwe mungakhalire naye pa tsiku. Ngati zokhazokha zikugwera pamphepete, ndiye kuti izi zimangowonjezera nkhani. Lero tidzakambirana za momwe tingakhalire pa tsiku loyamba ndi zolakwa ziti zomwe tiyenera kuzipewa. Kotero, mutu wa nkhani yathu ndi "Njira za Akazi, tsiku loyamba".

Choyamba, mosiyana ndi zomwe anthu ambiri amakhulupirira kuti mayi ayenera kukhala mochedwa kwa mphindi zosachepera 15, musamachedwe konse - izi ndizosamala, kotero mumasonyeza kuti simukulemekeza nthawi yanu kapena nthawi ya wina.

Musamveke moona mtima, musamachite zinthu mopitirira malire - chiwerewere chanu chiyenera kuletsedwa. Amuna, ndithudi, ngati khosi lakuya ndi yaifupi, koma musakhale wamaliseche kwambiri. Mukuyenera kuvala kalembedwe. Tsatanetsatane wa chovala chanu sayenera kufuula, koma kungopeka pang'ono (mwachitsanzo, bulamu ndi batani lopanda pamwamba). Panthawi yomweyi, pewani zovala zogula zovala, zovala zosagwiritsidwa ntchito, ndipo musayende kwambiri ndi zipangizo. Yesetsani kusiya zomwe mumasankha pazovala ndi mizere yozungulira, kudulidwa kwazimayi, kuchokera ku nsalu zofewa, zoyenda kapena zokongola. Zovala ziyenera kukhala zokongola komanso zosangalatsa, yesetsani kuvala zinthu zatsopano, zomwe zingathe kulephera - nsapato zimatha kupaka, zovala - kuletsa kusuntha ndi zina zotero.

Maonekedwe anu ayenera kukhala abwino, apangidwe - otsika, ndi manicure ndi tsitsi - bwino. Koma peĊµani misomali yaitali kwambiri, samakonda kwenikweni amuna. Gwiritsani ntchito mafuta onunkhira ndi fungo lokoma. Koma kununkhira kuyenera kukhala kosavuta.

N'zosavuta kulankhulana, koma panthawi imodzimodziyo amadzichepetsa. Sungani, kuseka, koma musadwale - musaseke pazinthu zonse zomwe adanena. Yesetsani kusangalala ndi kuyankhulana, kumasuka, chifukwa ndi tsiku chabe, limodzi la magawo a moyo wanu. Munthu wovuta ndi mnzake woipa.

Khalani wokongola kwambiri, wodabwitsa, wochenjera, wamkono. Musakhale opricious, kudandaula za chinthu chimodzi - china chodyera, odikira, atsikana, moyo ndi zina zotero. Amuna amanyansidwa. Khalani okondwa, okondwa, kuyankhulana kumayenera kupitilira mu makiyi akulu.

Idyani moyenera. Simukusowa chakudya, kulamula kwambiri, koma madzulo onse kuti adye tsabola wobiriwira, ndikutsuka ndi madzi, ndizolakwika. Ndiyeno, ndiyeno-zopitirira. Kusuta zakumwa zakumwa zoledzeretsa sikuli koyenera - pochita zomwe mungachite kapena kunena chinachake chimene mungadandaule mtsogolo.

Chitani kwa mamuna omwe samayamikirika - tamandani malo odyera, omwe amusankha, kukoma kwake m'zovala ndi zina zotero. Koma musati muwonetsere chidwi kwambiri mwa munthuyo kuti asaganize kuti wagonjetsani kale. Choipa kwambiri ndicho kusonyeza chidwi. Izi ndi zoipa. Gwiritsani ku golidi kutanthauza.

Poyankhulana, pewani mfundo zosafunikira zapitako, mwachitsanzo, matenda omwe mudali nawo, ndi anyamata otani amene mwakumana nawo ndi zinthu. Kumayambiriro kwa ubale uwu ndi woposera. Musayese kunena nthawi yomweyo za zosangalatsa zonse, khalani mwachinsinsi mwachinsinsi, zomwe akufuna kuti asinthe. Musamuuze zambiri za moyo wake wamakono. Lolani pamene ilo lidzakhala chinsinsi, kaya liripo likutsutsana kapena ayi. Musakhale chete nthawi zonse, koma musamangoganizira - kuyankhulana kuyenera kuyesedwa. Ndipo nkhani zokambirana ziyenera kukhala zosangalatsa kwa inu nonse.

Musakhale ndi chidwi kwambiri ndipo musayese kupeza zonse zokhudza iye pa tsiku loyamba. Ndani angakonde izi? Musati mufunse za chuma chake, mavuto a m'banja ndi zinthu zina zomwe sizinayankhulidwe pa tsiku loyamba. Zonse mu nthawi yabwino. Ndipo kufunsa za chinachake, kukhala wosakhwima, ndi kuganiza musanapemphe.

Onetsani kuti ndinu wodzidalira nokha komanso wokwanira. Pewani kunjenjemera, kudzidzudzula - musamuuze kuti muyenera kutaya mapaundi angapo owonjezera, mwinamwake sakudziwa ngakhale. Kuwonjezera apo, amuna samakonda akazi omwe samadzikonda okha, samakhutitsidwa ndi okha.

Ngati ndi kotheka, muzimvera chisoni, kumvetsera zomwe munthuyo akunena, kusonyeza chidwi mwa iye, kusonyeza kuti mumakonda kulankhula naye. Ngati akunena kuti musasokoneze, sizingakhale bwino. Ngakhale mutatsimikiza kuti ali ndi vuto linalake, ndiye kuti simukutsutsana. Mtsutso si chinthu chabwino pa tsiku loyamba. Musamangoganizira nthawi zonse, koma musayang'ane nthawi zonse. Angaganize kuti pali chinachake cholakwika ndi iye, kapena kuti simumvetsera.

Zosangalatsa zimadabwitsa. Koma musakhale tsiku loyamba kumunyoza munthuyo mwiniwake, makamaka ngati nthabwala ziri zovuta. Ichi ndi chizindikiro cha makhalidwe oipa. Musamangokhalira kukangana ndi amuna ena, ngati simungayambe kuyang'ana mphepo. Yesani kuigwira mwangozi. Mwachitsanzo, gwiritsani phazi lanu "mwangozi" ndi mapazi ake pansi pa tebulo, kuvina naye, musawope kugwira dzanja lake ndi zina zotero. Muloleni iye apereke.

Yesetsani kumaliza msonkhano poyamba osati mochedwa. Mwamunayo atakufikitsani kunyumba, muyamikeni mwachikondi, koma musamuuze kuti mwakonzeka kusiya zonse ndikukumana naye pa ulendo wake woyamba. Ayenera kuwona kuti mumamukonda, koma si "phokoso la dziko lapansi", kuti muli ndi zinthu zina, abwenzi, ndi zina zotero.

Pambuyo pa tsikulo, musapite kunyumba kwake. Inde, ziri kwa inu ngati mukugonana mutatha tsiku loyamba, zonse zimadalira zochitika. Koma simukuyenera kupanga lingaliro la msungwana wokondwa usiku umodzi. Kawirikawiri, mkazi, pogonana, amakhala ndi zolinga zinazake - amafuna kupanga chidwi, kuyembekezera kuti apangidwe. Koma pano zonse zikhoza kuchitika mosiyana, zimadalira anthu ndi mikhalidwe. Ndibwino kuti musamagonana pa tsiku loyambirira, chifukwa malinga ndi ziwerengero, maubwenzi omwe adayamba ndi kugonana, nthawi zambiri samakhala ovuta. Lowani mgwirizano wa kugonana tsiku loyamba, ngati mukufunadi. Ndipo ngakhale mutero, musathamangire msanga pamutu wanu - kukondana, kusewera, kumpsompsonana ndi munthu, kumunyengerera, kuchepetsa mphindi, kuseketsa. Mwamuna ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti sizinthu zophweka zomwe muyenera kuzigonjetsa. Koma ngakhale atagonana, yesetsani kuti musataye mutu wanu.

Musayambe kumuimbira ndipo musamange mutu wawo pambuyo pa tsiku. Ngati palibe chomwe chimuchitikire mtsogolomo, musapangitse vuto lapadziko lonse. Musakhale ngati wina aliyense. Khala chachilendo, kusewera, kusasintha. Khalani osiyana, koma pa nthawi yomweyo - nokha. Yesetsani kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri. Pano pali, zizolowezi za amai, tsiku loyamba - nthawi yoyenera kwambiri kuzigwiritsa ntchito! Khalani okondwa!