Zolakwitsa za amayi ogonana ndi mwamuna wake

Ife amuna ndi abambo onse timafuna chinthu chimodzi chokha: kukonda ndi kukondedwa, kukhala ndi banja losangalala ndi ubale wabwino. Pamene zonsezi siziripo, timakonda kuyang'ana chifukwa osati mwa ife tokha, koma kwa ena. Ngakhale nthawi zina timachita zinthu zomwe sizingathandize kuti tikhale ndi maubwenzi abwino. Ndipo kuzindikira kuti ndikofunika kukhala ndi kulimbika kokwanira. Zolakwitsa zazimayi pokhala ndi mwamuna wake timaphunzira kuchokera mu bukhu ili. Ndizoti timachita zolakwika poganiza ndi okondedwa athu.

Mphungu yachikazi 1
Kusalankhula kapena kuwerenga
Chimodzi mwa ziwonetsero ndizokuti tili ndi chikhulupiriro kuti tili ndi luso loyenda mu labyrinths ya miyoyo yathu ndikudziwa momwe tingawerenge malingaliro. "Sindinganene kalikonse kwa iye, chifukwa ayenera kudziganizira yekha. Ndipo mawu awa amachititsa manyazi kwambiri, ndiye zikuwonekeratu kuti munthuyo sankadziwa zomwe ayenera kuchita, komanso sankaganiza kuti amayembekezera kuti apereke maluwa, chifukwa adadziwa kuti ndimakonda maluwa . Njira yophweka ndiyo kulankhula za zomwe mukuyembekeza. Lamulo la golidi la mgwirizano wabwino ndikutsimikizika.

Kulakwitsa kwachikazi 2
Kuti munthu akhoza kuphunzitsidwa kachiwiri
Monga mukudziwira, maziko a umunthuwo adayikidwa zaka zisanu, ndipo pofika chaka cha 21 chiwonetsero chomaliza cha umunthu chikuchitika. Momwe mungathe kusintha, ngakhale ngakhale atakwanitsa zaka 35, popanda chilolezo cha munthu.

Njira yabwino ndikutengera munthu kuti ndi ndani. Ngati chinachake chikumukhumudwitsa, nkhawa, nkhawa, muyenera kufotokoza zokhumba zanu, kambiranani za momwe mumamvera. Akafika kunyumba mochedwa, m'malo moti, "Wakhala kuti wamunayo?", Ndi bwino kumuuza kuti: "Ndinkadandaula kwambiri, ndikufuna kuti mundiimbire ndikadachedwa."

Cholakwika chachikazi 3
Mwamuna ayenera kusungidwa mwatsatanetsatane kapena kugwira m'manja
Ngati maganizo amenewa alipo, ndiye kuti ubale umasiya chikondi. Ubale wapafupi ukuwononga kulamulira, kunyoza, kudzinenera, nsanje. Ufulu woposa womwe umaimira kwa munthu wina, umayandikira kwambiri kwa iwe. Mwamuna kapena munthu wina si wa inu, iye si wanu. Ndipo chifukwa chake ali ndi ufulu wokhala ndi zochita komanso zosankha.

Cholakwika chachikazi 4
Amuna onse amafuna chimodzi
Chikhalidwe choterocho chimaganiza kuti mwa mwamuna iwe umamuwona mwamuna, osati munthu. Nchiyani chimayambitsa izi? Mkwiyo, chidziwitso choipa, mantha a ubale wapamtima? Mukuchita chiyani kuti mukope amuna oterewa pa moyo wanu? Iwo samangofuna "amodzi", amafuna kuyamikira, chikhulupiriro, kuvomereza, ubwenzi wa uzimu, kumvetsa, chifundo.

Cholakwika chachikazi 5
Limbikitsani kuchita zinthu monyanyira
Iye wapita kwa nthawi yaitali, mwinamwake iye ali ndi mkazi wina, kapena chinachake chowopsya chinachitika. Pamene zinthu zikusemphana ndi zoyembekeza, timayamba kuganiza za chinachake choipira. Zifukwa izi ndizosiyana. Ndi kudzidalira kotani komwe tili nako, timadzichitira tokha bwanji, timadalira bwanji mnzathu? Kodi timachita chiyani ndi malingaliro athu, kodi zimagwirizana ndi zenizeni, kuzifotokozera kapena kudzidzidziritsa kwathunthu?

Cholakwika chachikazi 6
Udindo wa wogwidwa
Chizolowezi chochita chinachake kwa wina popanda chisangalalo, chimatsogolera ku malo a wozunzidwa, pamene iwe umadzidutsa wekha, pamene pazochita zako umayang'anira zochitika zowonongeka kapena zikomo. Ndikofunika kuchita chilichonse chosasangalatsa, kokha mwachisangalalo, popanda kuyembekezera chilichonse.

Mphuphu yachikazi 7
Ngongole
"Ndiyenera kugonana ndi iwe, kuyeretsa kuphika" kapena "Ngati mwakwatirana ndi ine, ndiye kuti muyenera." Tiyenera kumagawana ndi zoyembekeza zathu ndikuchita zonse mwachisangalalo ndi chimwemwe.

Tsopano tikudziwa zolakwa zonse zazimayi muukwati ndi mwamuna wake, ndipo yesetsani kusalakwitsa mu ubale ndi mwamuna wake.